Good father-son relationship

what kind of image should a father be? Amiable? Like friends? Or a serious face? Of course, a hundred people have a hundred images of their fathers in their hearts. We are not sure which one is right. I have a vague impression of my father since I was a child, and my father left little impression. However, the good father-son relationship mentioned in "Family on Hot Pots" makes me feel very recognized. I think no matter what kind of image, children should have a kind of awe for their fathers.

? At the beginning of the father-son relationship in the book, Dan, his son, gradually became arrogant at the age of eleven, feeling that no one was his opponent. The family felt very helpless about this, and the family therapist thought of a way. He sent Dan home to wrestle with his father and said that he was definitely no match for his father. Dan continued his arrogant and affirmative answer: that's impossible. My father is so weak that he is definitely no match for me.

? When Dan came home, he really challenged his father, and the father and son staged a wrestling performance at home. They rolled on the ground and the father and son twisted together. How rare and warm this scene is in their home. Soon Dan was defeated by his father, and now Dan knew that he was no match for his father at all. For the first time, he felt the power of his father, and for the first time he had awe and admiration for his father.

? In the eyes of family therapists, this is a good father-son relationship. Later, the family therapist talked with his father, and the father realized that the impression he usually left in his children's hearts was not dignified. In particular, sometimes in front of the children, I can't reach an agreement with my wife. He asks the children to do so, and the wife directly disagrees with him. They don't respect each other, and they don't hide anything in front of their children. This makes me feel less dignified in front of the children.

? So in the family, especially in front of children, it is best for husband and wife to maintain a consistent attitude. Only when there is mutual respect between husband and wife can children respect their elders and have a good father-son relationship.

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