Talking about the relationship between once being in love and now being friends

Life is still the same. Life is a Chinese word, and its pinyin is shēng huó. It means 1. to survive; 2. to keep alive; 3. to care for and feed people; 4. to carry out various activities for survival and development; 5. to carry out various activities for survival and development. The experience of an activity; 6. Refers to the situation and situation in terms of food, clothing, housing and transportation; 7. Refers to growth; 8. Refers to family property and livelihood; 9. Work, work; 10. Refers to living expenses; 11. Refers to supplies; utensils; 12. Good things; good times; 13. Another name for pen. From "Mencius: Devotion to the Heart": "It is better to dislike the people early than to dislike them after getting married. In fact, it is okay if you don't eat garlic. Maybe she also likes to eat garlic. Anyway, the long-term pain is not as good as the short-term pain. That's it. It doesn't have much impact, so as not to complain about it after marriage and affect the intimate relationship between the two. First of all, you must correct your attitude, cultivate a healthy awareness of the relationship, and downplay the awareness of the other person's gender. You will naturally be generous when interacting.

Secondly, we should have extensive contact and avoid individual contact. The degree of contact should be shallow rather than deep. Extensive contact will help us know and understand more about the opposite sex, have a basic overall grasp of the opposite sex, and learn to distinguish the opposite sex. . Some people look like charming little guys, but you will find that they are flashy when you interact with them. Some people have excellent academic performance, but they are arrogant and bossy. If you only have limited and small-scale individual interactions, you will inevitably "see the trees but not the trees." "Forest", the understanding of the opposite sex is not only limited, but may also be biased. Therefore, it is very necessary for us to use every opportunity of collective activities to consciously communicate within a wider interpersonal scope.

Thirdly, the relationship should be distant but not far away. We must grasp the psychological distance between the two people and reject contact that makes each other feel too close and causes emotional fluctuations. If we find something wrong with the other party during the relationship, we must adjust our attitude. , returning the relationship to a state of calmness and calmness.