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In rural Guangdong, why did the daughter-in-law wash her parents' feet before, and now the mother-in-law washes her daughter-in-law's feet?
The mother-in-law asked her daughter-in-law who had just entered the door to help her wash her feet. If this is a common custom in a certain place, then the daughter-in-law will generally do as the Romans do. This has nothing to do with personal dignity, but a custom and etiquette. On the other hand, if only the mother-in-law deliberately tests her daughter-in-law's filial piety by washing her feet, I personally think that under the current social environment, I really can't agree with this way.
In China, according to traditional etiquette and filial piety, a daughter-in-law washes her mother-in-law's feet, and there is nothing to say except washing. But times have changed. Nowadays, many young people, most of whom are spoiled, don't care about taking care of others, are spoiled by their parents and have to be served by their mothers at home. Now, just leaving the home where I have lived for many years and entering another unfamiliar door, I have to wash my mother-in-law's feet, which is unacceptable to most daughter-in-law. If the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law get along well for a long time and let them wash their feet, most daughter-in-law can still do it.
To a greater extent, it is more likely that the mother-in-law gave her daughter-in-law "the horse" under the banner of "filial piety". Generally speaking, filial piety should be reflected in the trivial matters of long-term common life, without putting on airs. A housewife's attitude smacks of feudal preference for boys, which is likely to arouse the resentment of her daughter-in-law and her family outside. In fact, filial piety is of course advocated, but there should be no such form to speculate whether the younger generation is filial, otherwise filial piety will become stale.
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