Where did the son-in-law suffer?

The man resisted. In fact, it's not hard to recruit a son-in-law It depends on personal acceptance and feelings. Some door-to-door sons-in-law are really forced to be door-to-door sons-in-law, and such people will have some resistance in their hearts. Self-esteem is strong, so my heart will be bitter.

The woman resisted in her heart. Although the woman found her son-in-law, she didn't want to, just because she met someone who was willing to come, but her family was not very good and her ability was not strong. This kind of woman feels very disadvantaged and psychologically unbalanced. She often feels that the son-in-law she has found is not so good and feels very bitter.

Adoption means that the man gets married in the woman's house and becomes a family member of the woman's house, commonly known as "inverted door". Adoptive marriage refers to the situation in which a man goes to a woman's house to get married and settle down after a man and a woman get married. This kind of marriage is mostly because the woman has no brothers and sisters, and the son-in-law invites her to come to the door in order to carry on the family line.

When a man goes to a woman's house to get married and settle down, he should take her surname, which is also called "a boy can't change his name". After the founding of New China, equality between men and women and monogamy were strongly advocated, and the traditional "thrusting the door backwards" was greatly weakened!