Massage, we live under the same sky, but in different worlds.

Tuina is an old movie of 20 14, but I saw it for the first time two days ago, and went to see the war-damaged Huang Xuan. In Tik Tok, I brushed the footage of Huang Xuan's broken head in the play, and was immediately attracted by his real image of being half crazy for a long time.

After reading it, I realized that this film is a film about the life of the blind shot by Lou Ye, and it has won numerous awards at major film festivals at home and abroad.

The film used several royal actors in Lou Ye: Qin Hao, Huang Xuan and Guo Xiaodong, and the actresses chose Mei Ting and Huang Lu, which was very suitable for casting. Of course, maybe the actor acted well.

Because this film is about the life of the blind, several blind actors are used in the film, and their performances are also excellent. The one who played the impressive "eldest sister-in-law" won many awards, while Huaipeng Mu, another actor who played the "massage shop manager", also performed well.

The performances of several leading actors were really good, especially Qin Hao. You have to accept that you can still show wonderful eye skills with your eyes closed.

Besides, Huang Xuan is really handsome and boyish, and Mei Ting is really beautiful. In the absence of beauty and Hanfu, it is still so thrilling.

02, another world we are not familiar with.

The story told in this film takes place in a blind massage shop, which is very realistic and typical. Massage for the blind was particularly popular in China more than ten years ago, and massage shops for the blind were everywhere in cities all over the country. In fact, massage was almost the only way for the blind to find employment at that time.

Therefore, the life of the blind massage shop is very representative, almost a microcosm of the life of the blind group.

This movie is about the world of the blind, so when we look at this movie from the perspective of a normal person, we will find that many plots are incomprehensible. If you look at it from the perspective of a blind person, you can understand many plot settings.

For example, why does pony like sister-in-law? If the pony can see it, he may not like his sister-in-law. But he can't see, he has no concept of beauty. This view is expressed in several places in the play.

In addition to the pony's love for her sister-in-law, Du Hong of Meiting is often praised by guests for her beauty, but she is not happy and says "like a joke". However, Sha Fuming (played by Qin Hao) is crazy to know what beauty looks like after realizing that beauty is an advantage.

Obviously, their world is incomplete because of the lack of the most important vision. And the world is different from normal people in their hearts.

There is also an interesting plot in this play, that is, pony and sister-in-law pull in front of everyone. Pony is attracted by the smell of her sister-in-law, holding her hand, while her boyfriend Miss Wang (played) is sitting next to him, and there are others in the room.

This kind of scene will not happen in the world of normal people, but it has become a very normal thing in the world of blind people. Because we can't see, many behaviors can happen in full view.

In a world without vision, many things have become different.

03, because it is limited, so I have no choice.

This movie is not a love story, and the love in it is not perfect. Many people think that Ma Xiao (played by Huang Xuan) is a loser when watching movies. At first, they like her sister-in-law, and later they like her shampoo sister Xiaoman. Both of them don't think they deserve ponies.

However, this is the reality. Pony is blind, too. He doesn't have much choice. Look at the massage shop owner Sha Fuming (played by Qin Hao). He has a successful career and can't find a wife. Pony is just a wage earner, so his choices are even more limited.

Their lives are limited because they can't see. Pony's world is almost this massage shop, so his range of mate selection is limited to this shop. It's normal to like his sister-in-law

Later, in order to prevent the pony from making mistakes, Zhang Yiguang, another boss of the massage shop, took the pony to the shampoo shop to find a shampoo girl to "vent" the pony. The pony resisted at first, but when she got there, she gave in. This is also a kind of helplessness, he has no better choice.

Pony later fell in love with the shampoo girl, which was also an active choice under limited conditions. Because it is limited, many "luxury" conditions are not considered, as long as the most basic but most important conditions are met. Xiaoman is a shampoo girl, but she is kind and willing to go with Pony.

It's not just about choosing a mate. In the film, Mr. Wang tries to save money and wants to live a good life with his girlfriend and open his own massage shop. As a result, my brother owed usury, and the family pinned their hopes on Mr. Wang.

Loan sharks come to ask for money, and parents and younger brothers are waiting for Mr. Wang to solve this matter. Teacher Wang came back with the money and thought he would give it to him. As a result, he hid the money in the refrigerator and then cut his stomach one by one with a knife. He said, I have no money to pay you back, so I will pay you back with my blood.

The impact of that picture is too great, which makes people worry. Many people commented that money is not fatal. Yes, he just wants money, which may be the choice of many blind people. Because it is too difficult for them to make money, once they make money, they will use their lives to protect it.

Sometimes, choice is a luxury, and not everyone has the conditions to do it. In this world, some people have exhausted their strength just by living, and there is no condition to make the best choice.

04, seize those existing happiness.

In The Road to Financial Freedom, the author tells the story of a famine year. It is said that farmers used to have the habit of storing grain, because everyone knows that good weather will not last forever, and you will always encounter famine years. In times of famine, we can't live without food reserves.

The older generation has the habit of saving money because they live a hungry life. Understand that good days don't last forever. However, young people who grew up in the era of material abundance do not understand this truth. They spend as much as they earn, even in debt. They feel that disaster will never come, and there will always be a way tomorrow. As a result, a sudden epidemic has taught everyone a lesson. Now, everyone knows that you never know which comes first, tomorrow or the accident.

Compared with the blind, we have a lot of happiness that they can't get. However, we take these happiness for granted, turn a blind eye, and always stare at those happiness that we can't get.

Not only can't we see these happiness, but we don't even understand that these happiness will disappear. Just as we don't understand that the famine year will come, we will only sigh and regret if we lose it.

People who live in limitations know how to cherish more. They know how to cherish money, feelings and a quiet life. Just like Pony knows how to cherish Xiaoman, Teacher Wang knows how to cherish money, and Sister-in-law knows how to cherish Teacher Wang.

We live under the same sky but in different worlds.

This film shows us a world of blind people. There are many differences between this world and the world of normal people, such as different cognition, different emotions.

If we don't find out, it's hard for us to imagine that those people who live around you breathe the same air as you, but live in different worlds.

In fact, what is the difference between the normal world and the blind world? Even among normal people, different people will go to different worlds.

Your world has been quiet for several years, while others' world is full of helplessness and pain.

You can't understand why others choose to do this, such as why Pony chooses to live with Xiaoman, a shampoo girl, and why Teacher Wang would rather hurt himself than give money to a usurer, because you have never been in their world.

Look at others in your own world, and you will never come to the right conclusion.

So people live all their lives, with less judgment and more understanding.

Don't persuade others to be good, don't suffer others. Don't talk about others without their personnel.

Sometimes, shutting up may be the greatest empathy we can do.