How big is the gap between classmates a few years after graduation? What should I do if others are getting better and better and myself is getting worse?

Everyone's family background, looks, IQ, EQ, personality and opportunities are different. As long as you go to a different world, there will definitely be different situations. Some people can be small bosses if they have money at home. Some people have connections and flexible minds, and it is easy to become executives; Someone seized the opportunity and got the first bucket of gold; Some people are unlucky and succeed in nothing.

How big is the gap between classmates a few years after graduation? 1. The class makes you mistakenly think that everyone is on the same starting line.

2, if it is not particularly excellent, the gap after graduation is basically the gap of family background.

When I was in college, I already felt the gap. My neighbor, he changes a mobile phone every month, but we are not surprised. He always said that his sister didn't want the old mobile phone. Only after graduation did he know that the mobile phone industry in the city where he lived was his.

There was a big gap before I graduated. My college roommates still look for opportunities every year, but it doesn't prevent some people from starting a company three to five years after graduation. Some people have villas in their sophomore year, and some people go abroad as soon as they graduate. Even if they eat and live together and are absent from class at that time, you will feel that everyone is almost just because others have not shown superiority in front of you, not what you think.

5, the excellent or excellent, the ordinary or ordinary, nothing has changed, but your heart has changed.

6. Because there may be only one goal in school, some people may be good at it and some people may not be good at it. When they leave school, they just watch themselves playing in their respective fields, not just studying, so those who are adaptable and can speak are much better than the average person.

7. Some people gradually adapt, while others are stubborn and willful. Some people have accumulated a lot of money, while others are poetry and wine. Everyone is going the way he thinks is right.

8, out of school to see personal experience ability, etc. If you can't teach in school, of course there will be a gap.

9. In fact, the gap has always existed, but it is more or less covered up by the identity of the students. The influence of family background, personality differences and knowledge gaps will be clear after graduation.

10, I got better grades than my classmates at school. I found a good job after graduation, and my classmates were unemployed at home. Now buy a small square house with a down payment to open a second-hand Bora, and students buy a generous room in a good location to open a Mercedes. E Because I inherited my factory, my family is really a farmer.

Others are getting better and better, what should I do? Most people show their bright side, and no one will show their bad side. As the saying goes, "Every family has its own problems", you just don't know it, so you don't need to see how others live, and you can do it yourself.

In fact, I have a bad life because I have too little ability or effort. Whether life is good or bad depends on our attitude. Compared with those who have lost their health or life, we are already very good.

How to make yourself better and better? Read more books, exercise more, make more friends, play less games and do less meaningless things. Start with self-discipline, and then you can control your life instead of being controlled by the desires around you.

Everyone thinks that the gap is houses, cars and skin care products. In fact, I think the gap lies not only in the immediate material, but also in what you can get with the rest of your life, so don't be a lost youth. We should look up at the stars, work hard to create and get the life you want. If you don't work hard, the gap will only widen.