Reading blogs is too tiring and too hard. Tell me about it.

It's been almost a year since I entered the doctoral program. Parents, teachers and classmates remind me all the time that time flies. You should hurry up and make achievements quickly, so as not to be overwhelmed and exhausted when you graduate. From the moment you enter school, everything around you is shrouded in an atmosphere of stress and anxiety. If you are not careful, you will be swallowed up.

I'm not alarmist. Even if you don't pay attention to the group of doctors and masters every day, you will often hear the news that many graduate students have lost their lives. Just search on the Internet, this series of events will make you sigh, and the reasons behind it will also make you find that the students in these ivory towers are actually not able to graduate as circulated in society.

The passing of these young lives can't stop the coming of the postgraduate entrance examination. In fact, the reasons behind it are nothing more than those. Many people always think that these unfortunate things will not happen to me, but this is not the case. Take my side as an example, many doctors have different degrees of depression, and some people have studied for six years, and graduation is still far away; Some people meet the graduation requirements, but the tutor still won't let them go; Some are very successful, but they still can't find their favorite jobs; Some are married and have children, but they are overwhelmed by the double pressure of family study; Some graduates are nearly 35 years old and are rejected by many colleges and universities because of their age, and so on.

The purpose of these examples is to make people who want to study and study for a blog choose carefully, and don't blindly follow or have to do it in order to escape some pressure. It is really important to suit yourself, of course, the premise is to know yourself. When I graduated from college, many outstanding students I knew didn't choose to study for graduate school or PhD. They are very clear about their positioning or career planning and know what they want. Therefore, masters and bloggers are not necessarily masters, and masters do not necessarily choose to study and study blogs. Learning to bully is relative to the groups around you, but changing the environment is different.

In any industry, any field, only a few people can get ahead, and the rest just work silently, live silently and work hard for their livelihood. It may be sad to say so, but it doesn't prevent us from becoming better. Because the class gap is not opened in a day, we can't expect this gap to narrow quickly in a short time. Learn to "progress" every day, and over time, we will see that we have made gratifying changes.

When I contacted my tutor before the exam, I asked me, "Why do you want to study for a PhD?" . I talked about my understanding of this problem. Compared with master's degree and undergraduate degree, doctoral degree does not mean the promotion of academic qualifications and the simple blind worship of high academic qualifications. On the contrary, I have a more systematic and complete grasp of the research topic and can exercise my "independent scientific research ability". Scientific research ability is a comprehensive quality, including innovation ability, independent thinking ability, problem-solving ability, self-driving ability, time management ability and strong self-discipline ability. In order to avoid these statements being too official, I talked about this issue in a deeper level in combination with my graduate research experience and growth environment.

Speaking of which, I can feel that the teacher has been moved by his tone. As a child born and raised in the countryside, I deeply feel that this journey is not easy. I didn't do well in the college entrance examination and entered a very ordinary university. But I didn't give up on myself, relying on my own efforts and diligence, I knocked on the door of master and doctor all the way. With the change of the surrounding environment, I feel smaller and smaller, but a single spark can start a prairie fire. In the process of your efforts, you will also find your own potential, and finally sigh, I can do better.

When it comes to the word "hard work", many people will associate it with talent. It's no use trying, there's no talent. Therefore, many people are impetuous in this ubiquitous and pervasive society that is rendered by "success". Become famous early, make money early, get rich overnight, and enjoy financial freedom. Books, videos and courses related to these concepts are dazzling and read a lot. I'm not saying how much I hate and dislike these things, but I think you should learn to distinguish and discriminate when faced with mixed information. There are ways to succeed, but there are no shortcuts. The so-called shortcut may be a trap.

In the job-hunting program "Exciting offer", Li Haoyuan made a good comment on talent and hard work.

Q: What do you think this talent has to do with hard work?

A: Talent is the foundation, the ceiling is one thing, but if you don't work hard, you will never reach the zenith.

Q: But I happen to have no talent at all, but I work hard. Do you think this is a better trait?

A: It's better than lying down.

There are many younger brothers and sisters who plan to take the doctoral examination, and they are particularly concerned about how to meet their daily expenses during their doctoral studies. After being admitted as a postdoctoral student, the state, schools or teachers will provide certain subsidies, and the amount will vary from school to school. If it's just for eating, buying clothes and shopping, it's almost enough. But many students of our age have already entered the wedding hall, so money is essential. During the National Day last year, I happened to meet several friends who got married at the same time, with a monthly subsidy of more than half. Fortunately, I usually have a scale and won't eat dirt.

About consumption, my parents gave me a more rational view of consumption. Regarding food, clothes and electronic products, I don't pay attention to grade and fame, so I occasionally hear friends say that someone wears at least thousands of clothes and shoes, and what brand is it? I always look at it blankly. Yes, after all these years, I still insist on eating, eating more vegetables and eating as much as possible; Dress, clean and tidy, simple and generous; Electronic products, anti-primary resistance can still be used.

Having said so much, it is mainly a matter of consciousness. When I am free, if you are interested in reading and studying, I can write some targeted knowledge in this respect, hoping to help more people.