Boys talk about attracting girls.

Feelings need fate and good luck. When luck is not enough, you can add icing on the cake for yourself.

Li Zi, a college classmate who has been silent recently, sent a message asking me how to attract girls' attention on weekdays.

Gigi Lai told me that there are many girls in his circle of friends, but why are there so few girls in his circle of friends who praise or even comment on him? He wants to know. He said that he actively commented and praised every girl, but his circle of friends was left out in the cold.

Gigi Lai said these things, and I clicked in and looked at his circle of friends. That's really a circle of friends of the public "straight men".

Most of his selfies are taken from behind, which is not only untidy, but also has obvious double chin and messy background. The sentences he sent were all bad sentences on the internet, and the articles he shared were also titled "Open and look shocked"; In addition, he often likes to send photos of sexy beauty.

After reading Li Zi's circle of friends, I told him that in order to attract girls to pay attention to their circle of friends and even take the initiative to chat with themselves, the first and most important thing is to learn to make friends. Of course, sending a circle of friends does not mean that sending content 24 hours a day will bring trouble to others, but sending concise and high-quality content.

If love doesn't come, you can still enrich yourself, cultivate your hobbies and make yourself a shining figure through study and hard work. When men shine like money, there are women. This is an era of mutual attraction. If you want others to know you, you must first become a luminous object, so as to attract the attention and stay of the opposite sex.

As a boy, if you want to attract the attention of girls successfully, you can try to make friends in this way.

1. Throw away "straight male cancer" and send more positive energy.

When boys share articles in the circle of friends, they often express opinions praising girls' independence and beauty, share articles supporting them to marry love, or express some sentences about personal goals, instead of sharing topics such as whether girls should raise children at home and be housewives in the future.

Many boys like to share some funny videos or game videos. My personal suggestion is to share less, because few girls like to watch it. In the early stage, you can try to share some videos about dressing and makeup, and then match them with the words "Share them with girls who love beauty in friends". For the shared content, it is recommended to share more videos that interest you, such as fitness running, painting, and speeches.

A man, eating by his face is only a temporary joke, and what really makes you laugh all your life is his own ability and interest. The face value will expire, and there is no time limit for ability and interest. Even the older you get, the more popular you become.

2. Taste and style will help you add icing on the cake.

When you are good enough, or run on the road of Excellence, then the people you attract are naturally people who pursue progress like you. In your spare time on weekends, you can go to a coffee shop to drink coffee, take some photos of food and the environment, with simple words, such as "slow down your health" and "love your work, but enjoy life more". If you are "inarticulate", don't talk too much, sometimes the more exposed, the more self-defeating.

In addition to taking photos in the coffee shop, you can also share with your pet photos of your concentration at work, playing table tennis, drinking tea and daily things. Besides these, you can also go to the bookstore to take some photos, and you can take pictures of the bookstore environment or take selfies. If your hands look good, pick up a book and take pictures.

Watching a tasteful movie, wearing a good-looking watch, or wearing a fancy suit or shirt can all make friends, which can give you extra points and effectively attract girls' attention. Just don't send photos with messy backgrounds and sloppy clothes, which will easily make everything you have laid in front of you go down the drain.

Remember, a man's temperament is not built by money, but by his own ability, self-restraint and character.

Photographs are more attractive than words.

If you want to bid farewell to being single, you must learn to learn from each other's strengths and make full use of photos to show your strengths and characteristics. As for your weakness, you can also "make".

Most boys are not good at words. If this is your "weakness", then send less words and take more pictures with your heart. If you want to make your photos a blockbuster, you must first learn to take care of yourself. If you don't know how to dress up, clean and tidy, and fix your hair. Most boys don't take selfies, or think they are not handsome enough, but if you think your eyebrows or eyes look good, you can pat half your face and show a cool or evil smile; If your hands look good, you can take more selfies with your hands exposed, such as taking care of your shirt collar or wearing a watch.

In addition, when climbing mountains, riding bicycles, playing basketball or running, asking others to take side or back photos for you, or even taking cool full-body photos with props, can attract girls' attention. After all, most girls still like energetic boys. Of course, if you have abdominal muscles, it will undoubtedly give you extra points. When making friends, Xiu Xiu ABS, maybe a girl will ask you how to keep fit and so on. If you don't have ABS, don't worry. Going out for a trip or having a bathtub at home, asking others for help or taking some photos of taking a bath can also improve the mood of girls to open your circle of friends and look at photos.

The most important thing after taking pictures is retouching. Although most men don't have this habit, in order to successfully attract the attention of girls and even get rid of being single, we must remember to retouch the picture. If it is a recent selfie, acne+filter is enough. If it is a full-length photo, just add a filter (you can lengthen your long legs appropriately if you are not tall).

One more thing, remind all boys to send as few photos as possible as KTV, Internet cafes, sexy women, low-end bars and so on. This will only make girls feel that you are not motivated and only know how to eat, drink and be merry. However, if it is a high-quality bar, you can take pictures of foreign wine or bar environment and send it out. You smoke very handsome, and you can ask your friends to take pictures for you, which will also attract the attention of girls.

If it is not yours, please don't pose.

Some boys like to take selfies with luxury car signs in rented luxury cars, which will make girls feel low, immature and insecure. Because your lens focus exposes what you expect to be noticed, and smart girls will understand that what you show off is exactly what you lack. The more ostentatious a person is, the more uncertain he is. A truly rich man never shows off everything he has. It's normal to inadvertently reveal your own things, but it's disgusting for most girls to stand next to famous cars and take pictures with thick gold chains and big rings.

Different types of boys make friends in this way.

In addition to using the right method to bid farewell to singles, the most important thing is to rely on your own initiative. For example, I am a literary man myself, so the content of my circle of friends is mainly to share articles and photos. Most of the photos I send are flowers, plants, scenery or delicious food. After all, I also like to take some photos in my daily life.

As a boy, showing his housekeeping skills is the best way to attract girls' attention effectively. I am a literary man, good at writing and photography, so I will share my works more.

If you are a sunny and energetic sports man, you can ask others to take more photos of you during exercise and share more topics about how girls lose weight and shape their fitness. After all, getting more and more beautiful is a girl's eternal dream.

If you are a boy who likes musical instruments and loves fashion, coolness is your weapon. Some girls have no resistance to cool boys. You can take photos of yourself and your musical instruments, record small videos, and share the feelings brought by art.

If you are just an ordinary boy, loving life is the "trick". Share more photos of mountain climbing and running, scenery photos or selfies with headphones, coupled with words like "changes brought by sports". In addition, your food, handicrafts and other specialties can also be displayed in the circle of friends.

Remember, when you successfully attract girls to talk to you, remember not to talk about vulgar topics and let yourself "show your true colors." Feelings need to be cultivated. After all, most of the feelings that can be achieved overnight come and go quickly.

There are few feelings waiting for us in this world. We just met the right love in the process of searching and perfecting ourselves. Looking for love is not to find a perfect person, but to meet someone who is destined for you, and then the two of them will cultivate love into an ideal appearance together.

Remember, love never depends on waiting. The so-called "waiting" means that when you need to devote yourself to your dreams in the process of improving yourself, this is "waiting". And this kind of "waiting" is meaningful, because in this process, even if you don't wait for the right person, at least you have upgraded yourself to a higher level and have more opportunities to enter a better circle and meet that excellent person.

May the person you meet in the vast sea of people make you willing to cherish this life for each other.