For the rest of your life, be calm about gains and losses, and let nature take its course.

Text | Ling Xiaomai

The human heart is essentially dust-free, and a calm mind will naturally be pure. Troubles are there every day, and they will disappear if you don’t pick them up. Except for life and death, everything else in this world is trivial. What is there to argue about or be angry about?

If the heart is not as broad as the sea, how can life be peaceful? The most important thing in a person's life is stability and peace of mind. Why bother with yourself. If your heart is an inch wider, the road will be a foot wider. Be wider, be more generous, let go of meaningless things, and live a different kind of life.

Don’t compete, don’t compare, be happy with yourself, let nature take its course, and let everything happen.

Life is your own. Whether you live well or not has nothing to do with others. There is no need to compare with others. The most important thing is to stick to your original intention and move forward, take every step in a down-to-earth manner, and live calmly and comfortably.

People have their own strengths and weaknesses. Everyone has shortcomings. Comparing yourself with others will make you angry, and comparing yourself with others in everything will make you tired. Competing for fame and fortune will make life very tiring. People who don't compete or compete are the winners in life.

There is no need to rush, the road should be walked step by step, and stop when you are tired; do things one by one, and take a rest when you are tired. By taking our time, we won’t be confused about what we really want.

Life is not a battlefield, and there is no need to compete in everything. In life, don’t compare, don’t be greedy, don’t ask for extravagance. Only by making your mind peaceful and tranquil can you be content and happy in life.

There is no dead end in life, only people who can’t figure it out. Being happy is only one day, and being unhappy is also one day. Why not live happily every day. It is great wisdom to be relaxed, take things lightly, and not fight or compete.

A good attitude can heal all worries and resolve all grudges.

When people live, they live with a state of mind. We should not be burdened by fame, wealth and status, not be trapped by love, not seek wealth, only seek health and comfort, and do not let down our lives or ourselves.

Life is tiring because there are too many things that can affect our mood. There is nothing wrong in the world, and it is only for mediocre people to disturb themselves. In fact, sometimes our situation is not as bad as we imagined, but we just cannot control ourselves.

In the final analysis, life is all about your mood. Whether your mood is good or bad depends entirely on yourself. Standing on a wall for thousands of feet, if you have no desire, you will be strong. An indifferent heart does not care about gains and losses, knows how to be tolerant, and naturally wins peace. Look down on the vicissitudes of the world and feel at peace inside. Look down on gains and losses, don't care about it, and don't be persistent. Let go of what should be given, and let go of what should be given. Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself.

Life has laughter and tears, warmth and coldness. Some things become easier when you let them go, and you feel relieved when you let go of some pain. Don't force it, don't deliberately come when it should come, and go when it should go. Let yourself live more simply and truly. Only by being magnanimous and calm can you seize more happiness.

For the rest of my life, I will be calm with gains and indifferent with losses, and let everything take its course.

In a lifetime, there will be gains and losses, and life will revolve between gains and losses. In life, there is a reason for being together, and there is a reason for being apart. Why bother to keep it, why bother to force it!

In this life, we will encounter many unpleasant things. If everything is taken seriously, then we will be the ones who are tired. Some things are not meant to be and cannot be forced. Then learn to take things lightly and try to be a happy person.

In life, just let nature take its course, why bother? Live in the moment. Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself. Watch the flowers blossom and fall, watch the clouds roll and relax, let nature take its course, and be content with whatever comes.

When people live in this world, some feelings will be relieved if they are indifferent, and some feelings will be relieved if they smile bitterly. There is no absolute perfection in the world. Keep an optimistic heart, cherish the present, belittle gains and losses, and live freely and naturally.