Relying on morality and public opinion to condemn, relying on laws and policies to punish, this cannot but be regarded as a powerful strategy of suppression, but this strategy often backfires. To fund

Relying on morality and public opinion to condemn, relying on laws and policies to punish, this cannot but be regarded as a powerful strategy of suppression, but this strategy often backfires. To fundamentally solve this problem, we need to rely on the exploration and skills of both husband and wife. The man and woman have experienced falling in love, and even all kinds of troubles, hardships, and tribulations, and finally became a couple. Most of them think that they have entered a safe, and often say, "Anyway, if you pick up apricots in your own basket, you can't escape." mentality, three meals a day, sunrise and sunset, and habitually get along with each other mechanically. Over time, even iron will rust and even light will darken, let alone feelings? Therefore, in today's social background that constantly pursues openness, freedom, and democracy, it is not uncommon to see abnormal marriage phenomena such as "aesthetic fatigue", "third party intervention", and "wolf falling in love with sheep". How can you prevent this phenomenon from happening to you, or even your family? I’ll teach you three tricks you might as well try. The first step is to learn to be careful. For the one you love, you should be as persistent and devoted as a woman "going to the mall" or "getting a beauty treatment". Be good at starting with the details, pay attention to, care for, and care for the other person, so that the other person can constantly get information that is touched by you from the subtle details, and make them happy. Deeply imprinted with the feeling that nothing in life is inseparable from you. The second tip is to learn to be at ease. You should always think about problems with the mentality of "the tighter you hold the sand, the more things you miss" and "the tighter the donkey is tied, the more it bites the rope". Don't worry too much about whether the other person has relationships with the opposite sex or has friends of the opposite sex. In this big world, it is very common for men and women to get along. You must know that the charm of confidence, calm response, and tolerance are also tricks to impress and infect the other person. The third tip is to learn to be careful. In terms of time, we should make good use of holidays, festivals, birthdays, wedding anniversaries, and even friend gatherings, relatives visiting, happy events at home, etc., design some thoughts carefully, add some life spices, and break the routine and tackiness of the world between two people. Giving your loved one more surprises and surprises will definitely make the relationship more interesting, interesting and fresh between the couple. In terms of time and space, we should take time to accompany our loved ones to more poetic and picturesque places to enjoy the scenery, climb mountains, take a walk, chat, change the environment, and cleanse our mind. In the pleasant communication with each other, the feelings will be freed from the trivialities and stumbling conflicts of daily family, and will naturally be infinitely sublimated. In terms of the way of love, we must not only love each other wholeheartedly and love our children, but also truly love the other person’s parents, brothers and sisters, relatives, friends, and even the other person’s habits and hobbies, physical and mental health, work and career, etc., in order to "surround Wei and save Zhao" , "Curve to save the country" strategy to wholeheartedly maintain the theme of "love". If you work hard with your "three hearts", will the other person's heart still run away? Will "loving the new and hating the old" still happen to your loved ones?