Nobody likes it.

This evolution is normal! [Come and see me] [Come and see me] [Come and see me]

At the beginning, I sent my child's test paper to a circle of friends. If they are excellent and want to show off, my friends will feel amazing when they see such excellent babies. So at the beginning, I will like it from time to time!

But after a long time, everyone is used to it. When everyone knows about your baby's situation, you keep sending it, others will not be so fresh, and some people will even think it's showing off! So later, there were fewer and fewer praises, or even none! However, those good friends in the relationship should still boast, because the iron relationship is often played, there are many topics that people ridicule, and they are familiar with children, so comments and praises will still be done.

In fact, I have some suggestions for these behaviors of parents!

First, don't over-consume your circle of friends! The circle of adults should be more mature and steady, and don't send friends too often, which will consume everyone's enthusiasm! After a long time, you will give a bad impression, either immature or too ostentatious!

Second, don't overspend your children! Children are still growing up, and it is good to make Excellence a habit! Don't always expose your child to friends, enough is enough! Always show his good side, is the recognition of parents, and may have a greater impact on children! If the child doesn't care about the favorable comments from your circle of friends, it doesn't matter to him, and it should have no effect! But if he cares about those comments, it may be a kind of motivation for him. Because of recognition, he will study harder! But it may also bring them pressure invisibly. A child with a bad attitude will worry about what your friends will say about him if he fails the exam!

Everyone likes excellent children, but don't spend too much, so that children can have a healthy and happy growth process! [Come and see me] [Come and see me] [Come and see me]

Remember: no one likes other people's children!

Friends circle likes it, this is polite! But if you send it more than three times, even the best friends will be annoyed! Thought you were showing off!

In fact, in human nature, except for parents who want their children to be good, no one will be happy from the heart because they see others better than themselves. Praising others and applauding others is just a helpless move to adapt to social survival. "Learning from you" is just "Am I worse than you?" "Another expression!

Truly successful people always keep a low profile and don't forget to praise others, which is the best way for them to avoid being jealous, concerned and attacked. No rich man who often basks in his property is always estimated and envied by others. If I were Ma Yun, I would bask in the sun once a month. I earned10 billion this month, 9 billion last month and12 billion next month. You may like it at first, but it is more resentment and resentment against God's injustice. After three months in the sun, you might as well see me go bankrupt earlier and have a better psychological balance!

Occasionally basking in a circle of friends can only be used to test whether any friends have been paying attention to you. Care about you. But as long as you get too much sun, no one has time to praise you. You have a good life. You are a good boy. Many people, including friends and classmates, will say that you are pretending to be forced, that you are troubled, and that your classmates, friends and colleagues are afraid to pick you up for fear that you will speak. ...

So, don't always think that others will praise your ability and children. No one but your parents will be really happy for your success, because you won't give some money to your friends when you make money. When you are rich, you have many friends, not because they are happy for your success, but because they think he may need you one day, at least he feels light on his face. Don't believe that when you are down and out, you will know where your true friends are!

In short, no one will really like your children, but if your wife (husband) is excellent, will you often bask in friends? Because you know, everyone knows, no matter how much you like it, the child will always be yours, boring! And your wife (husband) has been praised a lot, and you may not be happy. Do you believe me?

This should not be exposed. The child got good grades. You like being exposed. Parents of other students in the class may be unhappy. His family did badly in the exam. Do you think he will praise you? He felt very uncomfortable. How can he be willing to praise you? He suggested that you take the first place in the exam, get a certificate and get full marks. You should keep a low profile, and the children will keep a low profile and be modest. An achievement is nothing. Don't care too much. Your words and deeds determine the child's behavior, and he will be the kind of person who is too ostentatious. This is not good.

Things are no more than three, everyone has aesthetic fatigue! You enjoy yourself and think your children are excellent, so people may not think so in various programs. Maybe their children are better than yours, but they don't like to entertain themselves like you. Tell me about myself. I usually like to travel, and the places I go to are very famous scenic spots, so I like to record my journey in my circle of friends everywhere. Of course, I don't want to show it because my circle of friends has set the permission to be visible for three days, but I have a memorable past when I am old. I liked it at first, but gradually it became less and less. It's normal. It's not you. How can they feel the same way? Many people like it out of courtesy and for a long time. If you send a circle of friends to show your children's achievements in order to win praise, then I advise you to keep a low profile. As the saying goes, there are people outside!

Do you want everyone to praise your child as a child prodigy? Or do you really praise you for educating your children?

This way of showing children's achievements usually goes through such a stage:

That's it.

This is the same as showing happiness and love. If there are more programs, everyone will have enough and get tired of watching them. If you are so capable, why don't you go to heaven!

I saw a kid before, and he was really super good. His study is the first in his grade, he can win a gold medal in playing the piano, he is also the first in running, he is also the first in skipping rope, and he often performs in dancing. Reading at home is particularly conscious! I often study hard without the supervision of my parents.

This kind of other people's children is actually too good. Her parents are also very complacent, showing their children almost every day how neat and generous their handwriting is, how serious their homework is, how many awards they have won, and so on.

I can't help it I'm good enough to see him directly.

This is a headache for every child's parents, because everyone is their classmate. Parents sometimes praise their children's learning in order to communicate with each other's learning situation, and some parents think that their children study well to show off. However, when some parents feel that their children are not as good as others' children, they will feel that they are laughing at some children, and they are embarrassed. Some parents feel that their children are not as happy as others' children. Therefore, the parents of those children will not pay attention to praise when they show off in the circle of friends, so as not to appear uncomfortable.

When you send a circle of friends, the happiest thing to expect is that when friends keep praising themselves, it is also beautiful to see full praise. It's like wearing a beautiful dress and being praised by friends. However, you will find that there are fewer and fewer friends who praise you.

What is sent in the circle of friends is nothing more than trivial things in life. It doesn't hurt and itches. It doesn't affect life if you don't watch it. You are used to the routine of friends circle and feel meaningless. Anyway, come and go is not such a thing? Nothing new, there is no need to boast.

Many people will say: I send a circle of friends just to record the growth of children. As a memory, I can show them when they are young and wait for them to grow up. However, the WeChat circle of friends has a setting that only you can see. If it's just memories and records, there's no need to show it to everyone. Not everyone wants to watch your children grow up. Isn't there a group at home? You can send it directly to your family, or you can set a circle of friends to be visible and show it to your family!

In fact, it is good to be moderate in everything. No matter how cute your child is, some people will think it is not cute. Too frequent sunbathing will only make your popularity in the circle of friends worse and worse, and people will become more and more disgusted with you and your children.

In addition, often drying children in a circle of friends is not conducive to the safety of children. Nowadays, many traffickers can know children's names, schools, parents' names and other information by observing the information in their circle of friends. I often sunbathe my baby in my circle of friends and often push my baby into the fire pit! Just a few praises can make parents ecstatic. Don't be too happy. In fact, the crisis has been quietly lurking around the children. ...

Do you still often sunbathe in your circle of friends?

If you just want to record, you can choose to be visible only to yourself! So drying transcripts to friends circle is still to show off! Everyone is not a fool. At first, they praised several faces. After a long time, who will always give you face! The person who really cares about your child should be the closest person! When you understand this truth, you might as well show off your friends less! Or select partially visible!