Since I didn't get what I wanted, I'd rather get rid of it.

1, there is no winning or losing in life, only worth it. Everything, any experience, including love and work, is either to gain or to learn.

2, to know whether a person loves you, see if TA will help you dry your tears when you are sad; I want to know if you love someone, and feel if you feel distressed when TA is sad! Love is when I see the real you, feel you and accept you!

Every desperate person has an unspeakable obsession, just like everyone who lets go of love has an intangible wound.

4. No matter how bad the world is, your own world must be wonderful; No matter how dark your heart is, your heart must be bright. Don't fight bad with bad, don't fight dark with dark.

For us, what we need is not an optimistic formula, but a language of courage and wisdom. In the light, the world will always be our first and last love.

Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved.

7. Maybe our generation is really sentimental. If we are not careful, our self-esteem will be hurt. We are much more complicated than computers. We have not only brains, but also hearts and self-esteem. Maybe no one did it on purpose, but we will still be hurt and will be very painful.

8. Perhaps the heaviest burden is also a symbol of the most fulfilling life. The heavier the burden, the closer our life is to the earth, and the closer we are to truth and reality.

9. The mind is not luggage, because it has no weight, so it is difficult to lift it, and it is even more difficult to put it down.

10, there is a kind of love, which is only suitable for watching from a distance. That person's happiness and pain are only a silent audience. For feelings, perhaps, the farther the distance, the longer it will last. There are many things in life, you get them and forget them. What will accompany you to the end of your memory is what you almost got but never got. ...

1 1, people have a pair of eyes, and when they look at themselves, they can only see their own side in the mirror, which is also hazy and unreal. There is an old saying that "self-examination when reading people". The more you read the shortcomings of others, the more you should reflect on yourself, read yourself, learn from each other's strengths, and avoid making the same funny mistakes as others.

12, our loneliest thing is not the lack of a bosom friend, but that we lost ourselves on the road and forgot the direction when we came and the way when we went; Our most painful thing is not to lose what we once cherished, but to lose a quiet space in our soul and slowly abandon those precious spirits in impetuousness; What we need most is not the pity or care of others, but a tenacious self-help. No one can help you if you don't love yourself.

14. Life is so vast that I can't see the beginning and the end. We all have to travel far in the end, and we all have to bid farewell to our immature selves in the end. Maybe the journey is a little hard and lonely, but you can only grow up after suffering. Maybe some people are hateful and some people are mean. But if we put ourselves in his shoes, we will know that he is more pitiful than me.

15. In this world, there are only reasons for sadness and no excuses for sinking. In life, we should be grateful to two kinds of people, one is those who open their hearts, and the other is those who accompany us through the mental journey. If you can't catch the sand, you can put it down; If you can't catch a person, let go.

16. People who always say they feel insecure are just used to asking for it. It is selfish to hope that others will continue to pay to fill the empty valley inside. Any lasting power comes from the heart. I feel insecure because I have not become my own master.

17, don't be fastidious about everything, come when it's time; Don't care about anything, just pass it; Don't frown when you are in trouble, smile when you should; Don't force the result, just do it; Life is simple. When you are calm, you will be calm.

18, the older people grow, the more compassionate they are. What was once unbearable gradually became tolerant. A heart that has experienced regret is softer. Because of pain, we can grow. There are many regrets in life, and when I look back, I suddenly realize that the most painful memory is only related to someone.

19, happiness does not disappear, it usually disappears bit by bit. Happiness doesn't come suddenly, it is often accumulated bit by bit. The feeling between gain and loss is also a bit interesting.

20. Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved.

202 1 Philosophical sayings to oneself: Since you can't get what you want, it's better to let go.

1, life is like a stream, which has experienced many ups and downs and finally merged into a calm lake.

2. The heart is a house with two bedrooms, one is happy and the other is painful. People can't laugh too loudly, or they will wake up the pain next door.

3. Every minute is dawn, every challenge is opportunity, every adversity is test, and every good deed is creation.

A person's talent is like water in a sponge. Without external pressure, it will never flow out. After flowing out, the sponge can absorb new sources.

5. Destiny is in your own hands. Either you control life, or life controls you, and your mentality determines whether you are a mount or a rider.

6. A person who can see things from other people's thoughts and understand other people's spiritual activities will never have to worry about his future.

Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy. Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate. Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved.

8. If you treat the people around you as demons, you will live in hell. You regard the people around you as angels, and you live in heaven.

9. May you work hard all your life, be loved all your life, have everything you want most, and let go of everything you can't get.

No matter when you start, it is important not to stop after you start.

1 1, angry, is to punish yourself with other people's mistakes. To forgive others is to be kind to yourself.

12, some people live all their lives, but they don't really live all day! Because they either look back on the past or look forward to the future and never live in the present.

13, greed is the truest poverty, and satisfaction is the truest wealth.

14, way out, go out, there will always be a way. Difficulties and sufferings make it difficult to stay at home.

15, when mindfulness becomes an act, it can become a habit; Thereby forming a character, and character determines the success or failure of your life.

If a person is depressed and Kan Kan talks in a circle of friends, since he has not got what he wants, it is better to let go.

First, many people don't get married, not because they think marriage is not important, but because marriage is very important. Good love, win the time of war, stand the fleeting time, stand the parting, stand the yearning.

Second, the beauty of the scenery depends on whether the people who accompany you to see the scenery are satisfied.

Pain makes you stronger, tears make you braver, and heartbreak makes you wiser. So, thanks to the past, it will bring us a better future.

Fourth, if you live in the eyes of others, you will get lost in your own heart.

Everything lost will come back in another way.

6. This is often the case in the world. It was painful. After a few years, it's just a memory.

Seven, everyone is born original, and when he grows up, he becomes a fake.

Eight, people should not be too greedy, or they will catch nothing.

Nine, the so-called happiness is that a fool meets a fool, which attracts the envy of countless people and is dull for life.

Ten, just to mature, but also to grow old, time, so useless.

The biggest mistake people make every day is to be too polite to strangers and too hard on people close to them.

Twelve, do not expect, do not assume, do not force, let nature take its course, if destiny takes a hand, it will definitely happen.

Thirteen, since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to be indifferent; Since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to be happy; Since there is no pure land, it is better to meditate; Since I didn't get what I wanted, I might as well be relieved.

Fourteen, we are always jealous and envious. But they are all imaginary enemies. In fact, I chose the road, and I always held the steering wheel. No matter how many people there are, they are just catalysts. Ten years ago, I couldn't clearly know what I wanted and what kind of life I wanted, but step by step, the outline of my future life became clearer and clearer. I don't know what I want, but I can know what I don't want

Fifteen, at a certain age, people will become silent if they worry too much.

Sixteen, everything is quiet; Come quietly, go quietly, work quietly and reap quietly.

17. After paying, the return may not appear immediately. As long as you are willing to wait, the beauty of life will always come when you least expect it.

Eighteen, a person's best state is that his face looks three or five years younger than his actual age and his mind is three or five years older than his actual age. And the simpler the appearance, the richer the heart. Only when the heart is blank can you pretend to be sophisticated.

Nineteen, people who often change their avatars are generally good-looking, so they pursue perfection; People who often change their signatures are generally very emotional, so they feel a lot; People who often change their nicknames are generally self-centered, so they are eye-catching; The above three people who often change together generally owe a lot of debts.

You may be worthless to one person, but you are priceless to another. Remember your own value. This is why people change jobs.

Twenty-one, I heard that happiness is very simple, and time will dilute it.

22. Don't say anything until your friend decides. Suit yourself. This is an irresponsible heart, pretending to be easy-going face. Don't say anything after a friend decides. I have already reminded you. It's no use, smart mouth. Zhang Jiajia

Twenty-three, a person stops and thinks, not where you are, but where your heart is going.

24. We have come all the way just to bid farewell to the past and enter the next section of scenery.

Tears and sweat are similar in chemical composition, but the former can only bring you sympathy, while the latter can win you success.

Twenty-six, people, the best mentality is calm; The best state is simple; The best feeling is freedom; The best mood is childlike innocence.

Twenty-seven, love, in fact, is two people shoulder to shoulder, watching the bustling changes in the world, flowers bloom and fall.

Twenty-eight, people live in the world, are consciously or unconsciously writing books. How well you write, how thick you write, how mediocre you write, and how wonderful you write depends on how you write.

Twenty-nine, no brokenhearted, no love, no frustration, no life.

Standing at 30, if the heart wishes, the road is Qian Qian. If you don't want to, there are 1000 reasons.

Anything that lasts for ten years is itself an unparalleled beauty.

32. Failure is just a chance to start over, and you will be smarter this time.

Don't cry for what you have lost, but smile for what is around you.

34. Visible beauty and invisible scars, only those who have experienced it can better understand the power behind it.

35. When a story is written on paper, there is always an ending. When the story is written in the heart, no one knows the ending. However, not all the pain can be shouted out.

Thirty-six, if you really can't open the knot, you can tie it into a pattern. In fact, life is like this.

True friends are always hard to find, even if only one of them thinks he is rich.

The best feeling is that when you look at him, he is already staring at you.

Know how to keep your distance, leave properly, and meet again if you miss it. This relationship is far longer and fresher than sticking together forever. Many women bother themselves but are too persistent. They always want to keep their lover in their sight, suffocate each other and make themselves uncomfortable. Farther scenery, more imagination and hope. This is the greatest significance of our desire to travel in a lifeless life.

The person who loves you the most in the world is the one who is willing to spend time with you.

You chose this world. Since there is nowhere to hide, it is better to get rid of it.

First, there are always people in the world who can't finish talking, so why care too much?

Second, either accept or break through, and the rest of the time is to remain silent about everything you have experienced. One day, there will be a way and an answer in this silence.

Third, forgive everyone and everything before going to bed every night. Close your eyes, purify your mind and let bygones be bygones; No matter how bad things happened today, you shouldn't feel sad; Life is not long, live a happy life with a willing mind.

Fourth, forgiveness is easy. Trust again, it's not that easy.

If I can't be the only one for you, I don't even want to be your favorite. If what you give me is also for others, then I'd rather not. It's not terrible not to get it, but it's a joke not to stay.

6. Good temper is because no one wants to accommodate you. The idea is profound because you have no one to play with, so you have time to think about many problems. You can always go home safely when you are drunk. You think that's your superpower, but it's just because you know no one will care about you. This is the truth of the world. Loneliness makes you strong and makes you a better person.

7. What really hurts me is that I have to watch myself lose, but there is nothing I can do.

Eight, the years are like flowing sand, slowly passing in the palm of your hand. Time, like water, disappears at the fingertips. What is lost is trouble, and the rest is happiness. What you lose is sadness, but what you get is happiness. A calm heart is a pool of autumn water, and what you see is always the most beautiful color.

Nine, the scenery is a kind of mood, and a good mood is often your own invention.

Ten, most of the mistakes are because they didn't insist, didn't work hard, didn't stay, and then hypnotized themselves into saying that everything was fate.

11. People don't know whether they are blessed or not until one day they are bitter, and then compare the sweetness before. Therefore, there is always bitterness in sweetness, misfortune in happiness, and people can feel happiness best. Therefore, the faint friendship between gentlemen can last the longest, and the love at arm's length is the most unforgettable.

Twelve, some words, the speaker speaks, the listener is tempted.

Thirteen, you should find a girl who doesn't love you, because she won't be jealous, unreasonable, pestering you, and she won't mind if you don't find her. You can go anywhere you want, and you never care if you are there. This kind of girl is what you want. She gives you the freedom not to quarrel with you. She is sensible and generous. It's really not your fault except that she doesn't love you.

Fourteen, people should live for themselves, like themselves, and don't care too much about what others think of me, or what others think of me. In fact, how others measure you depends on how you measure yourself.

Fifteen, I asked a child what love is. He said, "Love is when a puppy licks your face." I smiled, but he went on to say, "Even if you ignore him for a day."

I saw you in the crowd. Fate, I see you, in the crowd. If I hadn't met you, maybe I would still be the same, standing in the crowd at a loss. If you hadn't left me at last, maybe I wouldn't be so indifferent as I am now, and I would be a little sad to see you in the crowd. I have gone through all my sorrows, and the saddest thing is that you didn't come to the end. I have gone through all despair, and the most desperate thing is that you are still at the starting point.

17. I don't like waiting. No matter what I wait for, my heart is hanging and I feel bad.

18. It is good to work harder when you are young. Whether it is futile or useful, it will make you mature.

Don't forget why we started, because we have gone too far.

Accept everything, and then the tragedy disappears. Or at least, the tragedy has become less heavy, and you are there, moving freely in this world.