How to provide for the aged so that parents can spend their old age better?

Nowadays, young people may think that nursing homes are the best places for the elderly, but in the eyes of the elderly at home, they are sent to nursing homes because no one wants to take care of them.

Small but rural, so the nursing homes in Xiaoke's hometown are basically old people who are unwilling to take care of them. You said that sending your father to a nursing home would definitely make him unhappy.

When people are old, sometimes their greatest wish is to see their children often, and then there are some neighbors and relatives around them. You send them to a strange place, no acquaintances, all strangers, and you may not see your children several times a month. I am not happy to think of him.

Nursing homes are very popular in big cities, so some old people think it is better to go to nursing homes. Another point is that nursing homes in big cities are really better than those in small cities. Of course, there is also a lot of money.

The best way to provide for the aged is to let parents stay where they want to stay. Most parents will choose to stay in their hometown, at least speak their hometown dialect and are surrounded by acquaintances. When you are old, you don't ask much. They just want to see their children and grandchildren often, often see those who have grown old together, talk about the past and visit the market.

Xiaoke may leave his parents at home and spend a month with him in summer and winter to see how much they miss their children and grandchildren. But they don't like cities very much, so they can send them back if they want to. In order to make things more comfortable at home, they can plant some side dishes and flowers, keep a dog and a cat, bask in the sun in spring and watch chrysanthemums in autumn.

In fact, old people don't like living with their sons and daughters, because modern people have different views on life. Old people have some habits, which may be unclean and unsanitary in the eyes of their daughter-in-law, so there may often be contradictions. It is better to go back to my hometown and live in my old house, where my old neighbors are free. No one said that if you want to eat, you can eat later. Don't look at people's faces, and don't bother your son. How quiet and comfortable.

When I was young, I tried to earn money to support my family. When I get old, they won't be happy if I still stick to living with my daughter-in-law.

Xiaoke's father often said that when he was sixty or seventy years old, he and Xiaoke's mother would go back to Xiaoke's hometown where he lived as a child, where he raised pigs, dogs and planted flowers. I no longer farm. I don't want to farm all my life, nor do I want to live in a city house with my daughter-in-law. Take off your shoes when you enter the house, and change them when you go out. I don't even have neighbors.

You might as well live in your hometown and do whatever you want. A bunch of neighbors agreed to play a small card and catch a fish. Nobody cares, and you don't have to work How comfortable. But Xiaoke's father also said that it is better to let Xiaoke and his brothers and sisters visit him often, and then leave him some money to buy daily necessities.