Don't like haircuts

When my hair grows, I am very upset: I must find time to get a haircut again ... I don't know when it started. I'm not particularly "cold" or even annoying. Probably because I don't have much fun in the process of getting a haircut, and because my hair is characteristic and hard, nine and a half of the hairdressers in 10 can't manage it well. Because of these factors, every time I go to get a haircut, it's often a coincidence ... especially on the second and third day after the haircut, the hair on both sides stands as strong as a hedgehog, which looks a little bad and needs time to run in ... So every time my hair grows out, I always hope to complete this annoying task in the shortest time. ...

Many years ago, I lived in a small factory in Chongqing and had a female hairdresser. A haircut is quick and good. As far as I can remember, it is usually done in five minutes (the fighter in the haircut! ), there are no sequelae in the next two or three days after the haircut. I like to go to her for a haircut during that time. . . Later I left Chongqing and went to Guangdong. Whenever I want to get a haircut, I think of this beautiful barber and still admire her agility. But when I got a Cantonese haircut, I completely collapsed! From shampoo, massage, haircut (the haircut process is also elaborate) to blow molding ... less than an hour, it is generally impossible. This makes me very upset, the guy who regards haircut as a disgusting task! So I thought of some ways to shorten the tangled process that will appear every one or two months. For example, after entering the door, I first asked, "Which master here has the fastest haircut?" Or simply say no massage, and sometimes ask, "/kloc-can I get a haircut in 0/5 minutes?" The barber will look at me strangely, as if my words insulted his profession? ! And this vision also accelerated my escape and tried my luck in the next barber shop. . .

In ordinary days, there will always be things that I don't like but have to do, like my haircut. Such things often arouse our procrastination, and we will put it off until the end (even after being repeatedly urged), and often finish it in a bad mood. The more we do this, the less we like it, so we will fall into a vicious circle of "dislike" ... if there are several such bad things a day,

There is a book called Meeting the Unknown Self, which divides everything we encounter into three categories: God's things, others' things and our own things. If it is about God and others, it may be annoying, but there is no need to punish yourself with other people's mistakes (such as traffic jams). Instead, we should gradually calm ourselves down, return to the normal heart, and face it frankly ... If it is our own business, we should return to our inner self and find out what we really want, so as to find ways to improve the process and result of this matter ~ ~

For me, getting a haircut is both my own business and God's business, so I want to be normal, not disgusted and entangled, and then try to find the process and result of getting a haircut that makes me happy. Although I can't travel back to the barber in Beautiful Chongqing, the world is so big that I can always find my own barber as long as I make up my mind.

There he is! I just haven't found it yet