How to talk to strangers

1, think of an opening statement. Before you talk to others, you should think of an opening statement. In this way, the other party will think that you are polite and sincere.

Don't think too much. All you have to do is say, "Hey! Hello! " "Is there anyone beside you?" Do it. The opening line is as simple as possible.

You can evaluate the things around you. For example, if you are all shopping, you can compliment her on the beautiful shoes she bought.

Ask her a question. Pretend you don't know how to get to the library and ask her how to get to the library. Or ask her if there is a restaurant nearby.

2. Try to gossip. It is an indispensable part to get to know each other initially and gradually lead the conversation to another depth.

Ask the other person what he does and introduce himself. Talking about work is not interesting (unless you are a skydiver or a diving instructor), but it is important to know what others do.

Ask each other's hometown. You can ask him, "Did you grow up here?" If not, you can ask "Where is your hometown?"

Ask him about his hobbies. A good way to ask others is "What do you like to do in your spare time?" Then extend the dialogue according to his answer.

It's best not to talk about the weather. In fact, no one really wants to talk about the weather. Talking about the weather is nothing to say. Try to focus on each other.

3. Have a sense of humor. Many people think they have a sense of humor, but in fact they are boring. You can learn how to be humorous from others. Of course, if you are a humorous person, enjoy it.

Don't go too far. If the other person doesn't understand your sense of humor and you, then take your time and don't make a big joke at the beginning.