Three new views on people's middle age

When people reach middle age, life is half slope.

Fahua is potential, wrinkles are black and long, and there are no fresh faces.

Energy is fading, thinking is numerous, and life is only loaded.

But it has faded from youth and polished recklessness, so middle age is not the best age in life.

After the baptism of time, I am wise and sober, mature and steady.

I have met many people, traveled a lot, and gradually understood the essence of life.

After middle age, "three views" are more important than the five senses.

In addition to the world outlook, outlook on life and values, there are the following "three views" to share with friends.

Director Wang Chaoge had a famous speech, and he was deeply moved every time he listened to it.

"12 is a reincarnation. At the age of 36, family, work and life tend to be stable, and people are divided into two types:

One is to repeat reading at the age of 36; The other is to start looking for a new life.

Most people die at the age of 36, not physical death, but burnout, anxiety, silence and no desire for life. "

In the second half of my life, I get older and less courageous.

Too many people "box" themselves with age, dare not try new things, and gradually lose their enthusiasm for life.

I feel that when people reach a certain age, they can only bow down, eat and die, and they can never turn over from the mountains of life.

And some people, in the imagination of life, have never been limited by age, and life has been thriving.

Master of art, known as "the real version of the week."

At the age of 50, I learned a driver's license, studied abroad at the age of 70, took a cover photo at the age of 80, and drove a domineering red Ferrari in my 90 s.

In the eyes of others, he should have lived his whole life, but he broke through all the way and hit higher and higher.

The 90-year-old Huang also painted a self-portrait and cheerfully called himself "post-90 s".

I like Wendu Tao's sentence very much: "Being old is not a matter of age or physiology, but a matter of cognition."

Time wrinkles the face, but as long as there is enthusiasm, people will always be young.

Deshun Wang, a 49-year-old North drifter who boarded the International Fashion Week at the age of 80, said:

"Great, I'm only 80 years old and I'm still pursuing myself."

Grandma Moses, who studied painting at the age of 76 and boarded Time magazine at the age of 93, also has a famous saying:

"Life never starts too late."

The truly advanced concept of age is that no matter how old you are, you are full of enthusiasm for life, curious about things and always have the courage to start from scratch.

In the movie Return to Twenty, the 70-year-old grandmother Shen Lijun accidentally recovered her appearance when she was 20 years old.

Remembering her life's wandering and suffering, she decided to be herself again.

Playing in a band, falling in love and chasing dreams, she lived a life she never imagined in her "stolen" 20-year-old life.

Life is not a movie, and time cannot be turned back.

But this does not prevent us from living every moment and constantly injecting surprises into our lives.

The girl who killed quail wrote:

"No matter how old we are, as long as we believe in youth, we are still young; Being old is not the worst, but being old is the beginning of the downhill. "

The so-called youth, middle age and old age are just concepts. Living your own life is the right solution.

If the heart is young, every day is a golden age, and every moment can be spent.

The round-table program talked about the topic of "age"

I was deeply moved by the words of a guest:

"Once people are old, the body has obviously felt the change.

You will begin to envy the energy of young people, and sometimes you have to bow to your age. "

When people reach middle age, all kinds of physical difficulties and the impermanence of people around them remind us:

Life is a one-way ticket with no return trip. For the rest of my life, you and I are fighting for health.

Some netizens shared their experiences.

He has been the best person in the company for more than ten years. It is common to work overtime and stay up late for the project.

Once, he stayed up all night for a week, suddenly became blind and fainted in his bathroom.

Thanks to the timely rescue, he was lucky to get back a life from the gate of hell.

When he woke up, he felt guilty when he saw his crying mother and his red-eyed father.

When he came back from the hospital, he made a rule for himself that he must go to bed before midnight. He also dug out the dusty fitness card and signed up for a private education class.

The thick oily red sauce that I used to like rarely appeared on the dining table, and my friend's wine bureau was also able to push it.

Half of life, the best health care product is "recognizing cowardice".

Learning to "recognize cowardice" is not cowardice, but understanding that no amount of fame and fortune can compare with living well.

There is a question in Zhihu: What kind of investment is sure to make a loss?

One answer was highly praised:

"First, keep good health;

Second, really keep in good shape, that is your greatest capital;

Third, have the opportunity to do something else. "

A good body can keep your family from getting into trouble because of an illness, let you spend more time with your family, and let us have the confidence to compete with difficulties at any time.

As the saying goes, "you must be full of energy to endure the suffering of the world."

In the second half of life, it is an eternal topic to keep your body disease-free and worry-free.

Three meals a day, regular and quantitative; Less oil, less salt, less smoke and less wine; Go to bed early and get up early, and exercise moderately.

Life doesn't always come and go. Learn to be kind to yourself in every ordinary day.

"Live simply and beautifully" wrote a passage:

"The more things you want, the less easy it is to satisfy your heart. Even if you finally get everything you want, you will feel depressed.

Things that should bring you happiness have become a source of stress and cast a shadow over your heart. "

The best state of human life is simplicity and simplicity.

Reading Lin Qingxuan's story, I was deeply moved by his sentence "The taste in the world is a kind of pure happiness".

When he was young, he was famous in the literary world of Taiwan Province Province. Less than 30 years old, he won almost all awards in the literary world of Taiwan Province Province.

Living with newspapers, reporters, lights and applause all day is beautiful, but it is not happy.

At the peak of his career, he resolutely quit all his jobs, went to the mountains for seclusion and cut off all contact with the outside world.

"Qing Huan is the subtraction of life. Now we abandon the shackles of secular pursuits and desires and return to the simplest happiness. This is the most delicious situation in life. "

Although life in the mountains was hard, he had a good time.

Far from worldly entanglements, he reached a new creative peak.

I like a sentence very much: "Life should be a process of simplifying. Let the world sway, and the heart will always bloom like a lotus."

Try to get rid of those mountains of things, abandon all kinds of desires, and eliminate those insignificant people in the circle.

Cultivate some hobbies that have nothing to do with utility and learn some skills that have long wanted to test the water:

Travel, measure the world with your footsteps, and collect beauty with your camera;

Go to study, taste life in the book, and collide with the author's thoughts;

Think and learn to talk to your soul in loneliness.

Teacher Da Zeng wrote a limerick, which was thought-provoking:

"Life will die, and prosperity will return to dust. How many people pursue fame and gain, why bother to operate for a lifetime? "

The true meaning of life, in the final analysis, lies not in the amount of material, but in the thickness of the soul.

Living in this troubled world is simple and easy; Only when the soul is full will it be comfortable and safe.

As the saying goes, the longer the road, the brighter the wisdom.

Have a high-level concept of age, dare to try, dare to love, let nature take its course, and have no time in my heart.

Develop a correct view of health, learn to recognize cowardice, keep healthy and inner, and better balance the impermanence of life.

Keep a minimalist outlook on life, realize the truth of life in a clean life, and enrich your heart.

The rest of your life is not long. Take your eyes back to yourself, listen to your inner voice, and develop a good "three views."

Only in this way can the body and mind be happy, both inside and outside.