Why do so many people like to brag?

I think some people like to brag, mainly because they lack self-confidence and want to satisfy their vanity in this way!

First, people who brag have no self-confidence:

Psychology tells us that people show off whatever they lack. From this perspective, people who brag are lacking in whatever they need. What. The main reason is that he lacks self-confidence, which is mostly related to his birth and experience as a child. Some of it is also due to his personality, and he is afraid that others will look down on him. In other words, such people have a low sense of self-existence and hope to gain attention from others in this way.

Perhaps such people do not have any special advantages in normal times. If they want to show their talents in other aspects, it may be too difficult, but bragging with others is relatively simple. Even if someone finds out, it's not a big deal, not to mention that it's hard for ordinary people to reveal someone's secrets face to face, which creates a market for braggarts.

Second, braggarts are greedy for vanity:

From a social behavioral perspective, everyone hopes to have a good living environment, but this requires your strength . People who brag are greedy for vanity, always exaggerating the facts and bluffing to promote themselves. For example, their income is only 1,800 yuan, but they insist on saying that their income is several thousand yuan, or even tens of thousands. They believe in bragging and not paying taxes. Anyway, it’s up to you whether you believe it or not?

In fact, bragging is caused by a vanity mentality. He is afraid that he will be looked down upon by others, so he always brags in front of others to leave a superior impression on others, and is afraid that others will not remember him because he has no For other specialties, you will slowly become addicted to them and it will become a habit. In reality, many people brag and have been discovered by others, but they do not point it out to their faces because of their own face. This only increases their motivation, thinking that others are fools, and making their bragging career bigger and bigger.

Third, people who like to brag are very vengeful:

People who brag are generally very vindictive. Such people cannot accept a little bit in normal times. Criticism or accusations from others. They brag, talk about trains, and know astronomy and geography. Who wants to blame them? Then you will have nothing to cause trouble, and they will never end it with you, because he has no other ability except bragging that he is good at it, which is tantamount to cutting off his future.

So, even though most people know that he is bragging, that is, he is just talking behind his back, no one takes his words seriously. There is a slight difference, so it is not illegal. It can also make up for one's spiritual emptiness and let one live in virtual success, which not only satisfies the need for face, but also requires no effort.

Fourth, people who like to brag are often superficial:

People who like to brag are mostly superficial. Although they have seen a little bit of the world, they don’t have much knowledge, because there is a saying: : If you learn for the first three years, you will be invincible; if you learn for another three years, you will be unable to move even a single step. There are also people who say that a full pot of water does not make any sound, a half-filled pot makes a tinkling sound, etc. They all say that they know what is happening but do not know why. Moreover, people like bragging are thick-skinned and ignorant, so they don’t know the depth and it doesn’t matter what they say.

Therefore, bragging is also called boasting in common parlance, which means that the person likes to lie or speaks without basing his words on the actual situation. He always likes to exaggerate and tell the truth about things that are not true. This kind of people have no strength, but they like to pretend to be powerful people. This kind of people like to chat and talk about some interesting things. There is no truth in their mouths. People who know them don’t like to interact with this kind of people. Deal with people, because this kind of people will betray you in no time. This kind of people don't even tell the truth, so they just pretend to be pretentious.

In short: People who like to brag brag are everywhere in this world.

It’s that they have no self-confidence, lack strength, love face, and love to be competitive, so they rely on bragging to satisfy their vanity, which is really annoying and funny. This method of self-deception can only deceive others and harm themselves in the end!

Those who are willing to brag should stop at the brink; when you meet a braggart, it is best to ignore him, otherwise he will take up all your time and make you suffer. Exposing it does not mean not exposing it. Tangled and troubled, so to maintain a good mood, stay away from such people!