Do couples need privacy?

Need, just like a young couple in love, need.

No matter how good the relationship between husband and wife is, after all, they are two people who are not related by blood. If there is a flaw, it will be broken up as soon as possible. It is because of love and marriage that we live together together. Once a couple's love marriage is confirmed and established, the closeness of the relationship, including the degree of economic union, exceeds other family relationships, and some even exceed the relationship between parents. Husband and wife get along for a long time, and generally they need to be frank and sincere from both parties, otherwise they will not be able to be a long-term couple, and it will not be a normal relationship between husband and wife. However, couples still need some space. If it's so tight that people can't breathe, it's not good. In addition, it is better not to talk about some irrelevant and useless past events.

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Shouldn’t husband and wife be indistinguishable between you and me? Shouldn’t they know everything about it? Why should there be privacy?

I want to say that privacy is something that everyone must retain. It is the foundation of a person. Everyone in this world is independent. Even you nestling in your husband's arms or a young couple immersed in love are all independent and lonely. Because no one can be completely understood by others, and we cannot fully understand another person's mood. We can only speculate or accompany him, but cannot truly understand his feelings. Even if we experience things together, Different people still have different concepts, different opinions, and different understandings, not to mention "I" in the eyes of "you".

Privacy does not mean a secret that cannot be seen, but a person’s exclusive space. In this space, people’s thoughts and behaviors are completely free and will not be restricted, let alone any restrictions. concern.

Think about why you got together in the first place. It wasn’t something about the other person that attracted you and made you gradually get closer, eventually falling into the trap of love. However, if you knew everything about him and he was as "clean" as a blank slate in front of you, would he still be attractive to you? Would you still have this unforgettable memory?

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Privacy sometimes not only makes us more attractive, but also gives the other person a certain amount of space without making the other person feel suffocated.

We need to understand people better and understand human nature better. Everyone in the world likes new things, and everyone will have such emotions, so we need to give each other all the space to release ourselves at the appropriate time. Of course, this requires us to have faith in our loved ones. The reason why I say this does not mean giving him the power to go out and mess with women, but giving each other the time and space to do what they like and see the novelties of this world alone.

Everyone has their own life. Even if a couple lives together, they should have their own little secrets. Maybe you are embarrassed to tell such a secret, or maybe you want to surprise the other person. Or do something secretly by yourself, just to satisfy your own willfulness. Such a little secret is actually not an exaggeration.

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As the pressure of life increases, many people will have many ways to relieve stress, but such methods may not be recognized by their lovers and become themselves. little secret. For example: Men like to drink and play games, while women like to save money secretly to buy clothes they like, or do some things secretly. Such things are actually done to satisfy one's own little wishes or one's own little willfulness.

Then people are selfish, and there is nothing wrong with not telling you such a little willfulness. Keeping some little secrets will make the couple's life more harmonious. Of course, such little secrets must be supported by morality. If it is against morality, it is not a matter of reservation. The above is Z’s answer. I hope everyone can be happy in life