What should I do if my boyfriend's family is very strict?

People are alive, but family rules are dead. No matter how strict the family rules are, I will be fine if I don't violate them. Don't ruin your beautiful marriage for the so-called family rules. In addition, many young people now live by themselves after marriage. Don't think too much.

You said you waited for him for so many years, but you are still young and have many opportunities. You should be rational and muddle through. It's really boring to be together like this. I don't think his parents are strict, but they know you don't like you together, so it's normal for them to be strict. Be rational and think about it.

Because your boyfriend's family education is particularly strict, his parents have a lot of constraints on him, which may damage your boyfriend's sense of self-efficacy and value, and the nightmare, avoidance and vigilance brought by trauma will seriously consume his psychological resources. It must be hard for him to persist until now.

Hypnosis may help your boyfriend, but it's not the only way. Dialectical behavioral therapy and cognitive therapy will help. It's important to invite him to start psychotherapy.