What do you think of chicken soup?

Mother-in-law's bowl of chicken soup completely ruined this "mom". What do you think? What would you do? !

You must have tolerance when you are alive. Tolerance is not only self-restraint, but also a sign. In dealing with people, the first element that people value is tolerance. Cultivate life, show your life tolerance and make life more meaningful.

Some people are born to lie to their parents, while others are born to lie to their sons and daughters-in-law.

Mother-in-law is not mother. If you can't help, at least don't hold back.

It is a blessing for a daughter-in-law to meet a mother-in-law who understands you, understands your hard work and helps you wholeheartedly.

Oral arrangement of real people and stories:

0 1 When marriage encounters premature birth,

After two years of marriage, my mother-in-law and I treat each other as guests and live in peace. We always give them money when we go back to our hometown on holidays. But this harmony was completely broken when my son was born.

My husband and I have deep feelings and our marriage is progressing smoothly. I got pregnant soon after marriage, so I resigned and gave birth at home, while my husband was still working in other places. For more than seven months, just before the festival, my parents-in-law asked me to go back to my hometown to drink chicken soup to make up for my health. Before cooking the soup, they said that my hands and feet were a little swollen, so I put some barley in the chicken soup to get rid of the edema. I was subconsciously against it, but my in-laws insisted. I thought they should be old and experienced, but I couldn't beat them and had to let them.

Results After drinking chicken soup for two days, the fetal movement was abnormal and the amniotic fluid broke in the middle of the night. When he was sent to the hospital, the doctor made an appointment directly to protect the fetus. He told me in a very serious tone that I can't guarantee that I can keep the fetus. The amniotic fluid has broken and the fetus will be born at any time. Even if such a small gestational age is saved, the cost of follow-up treatment is incalculable, and the probability of cerebral palsy is very high, and it may even be both human and financial.

After listening to the doctor's words, the parents-in-law shouted in the corridor outside: It's okay to be born in seven months. Seven lives and eight lives are not. My mother-in-law echoed, and many people were born in seven months. When she finished, the whole ward was silent. Who will be born for more than seven months unless they have to? A day in the womb is better than a few days outside. For them, premature birth may be just the premature birth of their grandson.

After all, the fetus can't wait to be born "Three pounds, little mouse." The doctor showed me the sex After seeing the gender, the son was sent directly to the neonatal department. I have no time to see him or hug him. In this way, I sat at home for a month and was told by the doctor every Tuesday and Friday, which was the day I longed for and feared most. Because no news is good news, I always tremble when I answer the doctor's phone. In those days, I was almost depressed and crazy. No one can understand the pain of sitting on the empty moon without holding the child in his arms after giving birth.

The husband asked the doctor the reason for premature delivery. The doctor said that everything was normal after testing the placenta and reading the checklist, and the cause of amniotic fluid rupture was unknown. I told the doctor that I had coix seed chicken soup two days before the water broke. Will coix seed cause tires to slip and break water? As soon as the doctor heard this, he said that it was no wonder that pregnant women who were premature and weak could not give birth to babies after eating barley. After listening to the doctor's words, my husband's face immediately sank and he called his parents about the glutinous rice chicken soup. Who knows, when my father-in-law heard this, he immediately passed the buck and said that her mother-in-law did it. The husband asked his mother-in-law again, and her mother-in-law came directly. Your father told me to let go, but I said I wouldn't let go. Finally, she said to put it down. I didn't mean to.

After listening to this, I flew into a rage and said that I didn't mean it. How relaxed I was, as if I were talking about other people's business. My son was born prematurely, and I didn't insist on not letting go of coix seed. I am also responsible, but having such in-laws not only failed to make up for the mistake, but also made such a mistake after the accident.

What's more, my mother came to me in the evening and told me about the premature birth. Mother-in-law suddenly threw out a sentence: some children just need to spend some money to eliminate disasters. She spoke so naturally, without any guilt or anxiety. My mother and I listened and looked at each other.

When premature delivery meets a mother-in-law who pretends to sleep.

If premature birth hurts my health, then my mother-in-law's series of practices have completely chilled me.

My husband's paternity leave expires and my son is still in the incubator, so I can only leave my mother-in-law to take care of the baby. The next month, she could do nothing. The chicken soup she cooked is like clear soup, with little water and no nutrition. I haven't been able to give milk for a long time. My mother-in-law explained that the child didn't come back and my mother didn't need much supplement for the time being. After taking a bath every day, the doors and windows at home are always wide open, and the wind blows into the house because my mother-in-law says it's hot.

My son lived in the incubator for 38 days, spent all our savings and borrowed tens of thousands of foreign debts. In-laws still didn't apologize and didn't take out a penny. When my son came back to my arms, he was like a little mouse, frowning slightly, which made people feel distressed.

When I was discharged from the hospital, the doctor told me that the child was born prematurely, so you must not starve him for fear that he would suffer from malnutrition and lack of oxygen in his brain. Three months after my son came back, my mother helped take care of him every day. At night, the child cried, and she immediately ran to coax him. Later, I had to take care of my grandfather, and my mother could only come over during the day and take care of the elderly at home at night. In desperation, I can only ask my mother-in-law to come and take care of it. She has been here for a week. I take care of my children, cook and wash my clothes every day. The mother-in-law only washes the children's clothes and is responsible for her own meals. She will never take the initiative to help you unless I say hello to her. Often, as soon as I pick up my child from work, she starts to sleep.

At night, the child cried, and I held the child up all night. The mother-in-law who sleeps next door hides the door and wakes up naturally from 8: 30 in the evening to morning. When I woke up in the morning, I saw that I was still holding the baby, joking that you were still holding the baby. I looked at her and said nothing. The next night, the child woke up hungry in the middle of the night and cried badly. I want milk. Knocking on her mother-in-law's door with her child in her arms, no one answered after shouting for a long time. Since then, I have never called her in the middle of the night, because you can never wake a person who pretends to sleep. A week later, I sent her away. It is better to keep quiet than to have an idle person in the way. No matter how hard you try, at least you won't be upset. As soon as she heard that I told her to go home, she packed her clothes and called her father-in-law to take it back. She doesn't even have time to vaccinate her children. . .

Every time I see my son thin and small, I can't wait to scold them. My husband advised me from time to time, but it was useless to scold. It is best to take good care of these children. Forget it when they get old. I don't understand. Is it easy to forgive mistakes when people are old? Something happened. I asked for money but didn't pay it. I have no strength at all, and my mouth is very poisonous. Is the old man getting worse or the bad man getting old?

From then on, I saw that they never looked good again, and even I didn't bother to say hello to them, let alone call my parents. My husband said that I had a knot in my heart and was too paranoid to walk into a dead end. After listening to his words, I can only hehe. . . . . .

How can others understand the hardship of bringing a premature baby? And these hardships can be forgiven by saying sorry? The transformation of a woman from a goddess to a woman's nerves and then to a woman's man is also a process from childishness to maturity and strength. No one can know the sadness except herself.

Tell me about my son's wife's in-laws. Did you really do something wrong? I don't call them mom and dad anymore. Did I really do something wrong?

You may have hurt a woman because of immaturity, or offended another woman because of ignorance, but you must take singing in life seriously, because you listen, all women in this world are in music.