After I get a woman for a man, I won't care anymore. What I can't get will always be.

After I get a woman for a man, I won't care anymore. What I can't get is always the psychology that men want for the first time. I am not a feudal teenager in the first place. However, I am distressed to see that many girls have given their lives for their boyfriends, but they are miserable after falling out of love. Moreover, some of the reasons why they die for their boyfriends are silly, and some are because they don't know enough about boys. So, I want to tell you something about boys' psychology and physiology.

The theme I want to say is: leave your first time to the man who got your marriage certificate!

First of all, a girlfriend has no obligation to meet her boyfriend's expectations! Don't think that just because he calls you wife every day, you really think you are his wife. When your boyfriend makes such a request to you, if you are not very happy, you should refuse it with euphemistic language and firm mind, instead of like this: We are getting married anyway, when will it be the same? If you don't do it with me, you don't love me (this is a provocation); Still soft-hearted to his poor appearance and bitter pleading. Although this is hard to do, after all, you really love him, but do you still remember the song sung by ChouHuei: Sometimes being soft-hearted is a kind of suffering, pushing yourself to the abyss! There will be some discomfort, but it is not as exaggerated as they appear, and it is completely controllable. It depends on your attitude. If you show some softening, he will become a Bangladeshi. I'll ask you more often. It's even harder if you sayno. "I even heard that some boys lied to girls that if they don't do it themselves, the erection will remain unchanged, and some girls actually believe it, which is really pitiful."). If he really loves you, he will love and cherish you more because of your reserve and independent mind, because you will be more sacred and noble in his mind and become more attractive and attractive; If you do, he will thank you temporarily and be surprisingly good to you, but please don't be too happy. If you refuse him again one day, his face will often make you feel chilling! Moreover, after doing it, I fell into a passive position! Who doesn't want to cherish their first time? The more you pay for him, the higher your expectations are, the more afraid you are of losing him, and the more you will accommodate him. In the eyes of many boys, this means losing personality and becoming boring, and the more he will let you down. When you have conflicts again, he won't come to apologize to you as early as before, because you are the one who can't let go! Even if you get married in the future, it is not good to form this habit. If he left you for this reason, congratulations, you left someone who didn't love you, even a liar with other motives (although such people are often attractive). I 100% am sure that you will find someone who really loves you and is better than him! No one can live without him. After the first six months, you will find that the truth is not what you think.

Secondly, if you are not a virgin and meet someone who loves you after breaking up, he really loves you. If you confess to him, he will accept you because he knows that you are innocent and even thinks that you are a victim. If he is not, so much the better. I'm sure that if he doesn't move, he will feel very uncomfortable, very uncomfortable. As soon as he closes his eyes at night, he will see a picture of you making out with other boys, which makes him feel very uncomfortable and almost leave your impulse. The more he loves you, the more pure he thinks you are, and the more uncomfortable he will feel. There will even be a feeling of being insulted and laughed at by others. He would rather hit himself on the head with a big stick and forget all this. You can put yourself in his shoes. This is definitely a shadow, which may be good, but it needs considerable efforts. If he loves you, he won't tell anyone about it for the sake of your reputation. He has to bear all the hardships himself, and he may be strong in front of you. But he will experience all these feelings in some way. And your heart must be very guilty, and you may regret it. What you need to do more is to comfort him. A good girl will feel very sorry for him and will spend her whole life making up for him. He will think that you are doing this because you owe him. And his kindness to you and his devotion to your feelings will be greatly reduced. Although he will cherish you, he won't cherish you as much as before. Do you think the person you love is so miserable?

Third, I know that every girl cherishes her first time. But a person who will leave you because you don't agree with him doesn't want to compare with a person who wants to spend his life with you, take care of you all his life, give you a home, take you to the hospital when you are sick, and take care of you when you are upset, and a person who can understand you, comfort you and make you happy no matter what mistakes you have made and what grievances you have suffered.

Finally, the university stage is still an unstable stage, and what will happen in the future is unpredictable. When I graduated, although I loved each other, I couldn't be together. Although love can stimulate the great potential of promoters, it is not all-encompassing. With the growth of age, it will become more and more realistic. I hope that girls who have romantic fantasies about love can realize. I also believe that when we made the oath, it was true, but the cruelty of reality is also quite residual!

Finally, I hope everyone can accept the view that it is a virtue to lead an honest and clean life, but it does not mean that it is feudal and backward.

I am a boy, so I only published this post. On the one hand, I don't want to see many kind and weak good girls cheated. On the other hand, I don't want to see many sensitive and good boys suffer so much pain and injustice! They are all really poor and innocent. I hope the world will be more perfect and have less regrets!

Most of those who say they don't care if their girlfriends are women want to take advantage. Please don't be fooled! Really, he met.

When he saw his emotional girl, he knew that she was not a virgin and was very confused!

Sage cloud: Come out and mix, and you will pay it back sooner or later.

Women should tighten their belts before getting married if they want to achieve real and long-term happiness in the future!

This is the eternal truth.

Otherwise, no matter how cynical you are, Q, as long as you put the postscript before marriage:

If you lose something, you will lose it, and your future husband will be uncomfortable, even if he loves you again. There is no man in the world who doesn't care if his wife is a virgin. 100% men subconsciously want their wives to be CN.

Moreover, silly girls, when they easily give up the first time before marriage, have already decided that the choice of future husbands has narrowed a lot. Really good men have strong possessiveness and self-esteem (including vanity), and they will not choose 1 territory that has been occupied by others first.

It's not fair, is it? Yes, this is the reality. Men are so selfish, and excellent men are stricter with their wives. So, ladies and gentlemen of CN, remember not to lose the ticket to future happiness too easily. Otherwise, when someone else takes your Prince Charming away just because they have one more ticket than you, all you can do is get angry here and say that grapes are sour.

As for women who have given up their first time, they should be more careful when choosing a spouse. Those men who are under the banner of "don't care if they are virgins" can't escape the following categories:

1 of the elderly. Do you know what hunger is? It's not that they don't care whether they are virgins or not, but that their physiological needs force them to find 1 women to vent their emotions for decades.

2. All animals with the ultimate goal of "you lie down", such men are very good at disguising themselves and can be said to know women's weaknesses very well. They will spend the least cost to lie down, because you are just prey and a page (night) in their eyes, so they certainly don't care whether you are a virgin or not (of course, it would be better if you are, you earned it! )

3. Little P kid, never had a girlfriend, idealism. He has just watched romance novels, idol dramas and condor heroes, and he feels that he is the savior of Prince Yang Guo. There are still many Cinderella little dragon girls waiting for him to save. They often don't care whether you are a virgin or not (80% from the heart), but don't forget that little P children will grow up one day, and then they will have a big accident and have many friends. Even if he is young and impulsive and marries you under pressure, he is under great pressure when he gets married, and when he thinks about things. I am busy working with my grandson every day, and I am under great pressure to be with the tortoise every day. When he comes home in bed at night and hugs you, he will inevitably think, is it worth suffering so much for a woman who doesn't completely belong to him? At this time, a few friends will talk behind your back, and it is estimated that you are not far from home.

Men who have little confidence in themselves think that their height, looks, income, family background, education and efficiency are average. Everything is normal. Just think about finding a woman to have a baby for life 1. They don't care much about whether they are virgins or not. Accurately speaking, they don't think that a good girl will have a crush on a man who has nothing outstanding, so this kind of man will say that I will be good to you all my life when falling in love, but this kind of man will pay less and less attention to you in his bones as long as you sign the red paper film, because they have found a wife to warm up and gave birth to a child. At this time, if you can't say it well, it will be "dross", and the reality that you are not a virgin after marriage will gradually emerge in his heart. Don't worry, he won't say anything to hurt you. Such men generally seek stability and will not divorce you, but they can be said to be the main force of the "third echelon". The red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags are fluttering outside. Hehe, and most of them are hopeless.

5. men with poor conditions, this is not much to say, everyone understands.

And those real social elites can bring you a lifetime of happiness, dare to be responsible and responsible, and 95% will not find 1 women with "historical traces" as wives to share their happy lifelong partners (because they have a wide range of choices). Of course, it is possible to solve loneliness before marriage, but it is impossible to get married. Unless you lie to him, it is paper.

It's really unfair, but girl, this is the reality. Stick to yourself. Don't wait until you are insulated from lifelong happiness before considering why you didn't tighten your belt at that time.

1 When a man wants to put you down, he will always pick up what you like to hear most, such as "a responsible and open-minded man doesn't care whether the other person is a virgin or not, as long as he has confidence in his feelings", and even they don't believe it. But when they put on pants, they still want to find a virgin as a wife (unless they are incapable, it goes without saying that 1 will do). Hehe, this is a man!

Don't men cherish women after they get them? Some men chase girls desperately, but they quit in about a month. What the hell were they thinking? The reason can be the man or the woman. Maybe some men only enjoy the pursuit. Every time they pursue a new goal, it's like a new challenge. It is competitive psychology that makes men try their best to catch a specific object. However, only the pursuit process can make these men feel excited and satisfied. When the dust settles and the woman wins, men will be indifferent to the whole thing, because they lost the challenge and even gave up at the beginning. Because a stable relationship is not suitable for them, they will put down the old record and continue to look for new challenges. As for other reasons, it may also be that women have different attitudes when being pursued and after being pursued by others. Women who are pursued often have an unspeakable arrogance and beauty, as if they have a particularly luxurious self-feeling because of the market, which can fascinate men. When a woman is in love and decides that the other person is a boyfriend, she may be too attached to the other person and afraid of losing him, and start to be swayed by considerations of gain and loss and lose her manners everywhere. This Nuo Nuo-only person will only annoy men, because you are not challenging and leave you!

Is it true that women that men can't get are always the best human inferior products, regardless of gender, and those that can't get are always the best?

But some people know how to cherish the present, and that kind of person can really get happiness.

The past is the past, and you can look back occasionally.

But you shouldn't dwell on people and things that you can't get back.

That will only make your life worse and worse, turn you into the future, and remember your present.

Is it always good in men's eyes not to get it? I can only say that some people, what they can't get is not necessarily the best! What suits you, what can support each other in the future, and what you care for each other are the most important things for you! What you can't get is a dream, but a dream is always a dream. When you wake up, you will understand what you have to do and what you have to put down! If you can afford it, you should put it down. That's what a man should do. . .

Do men care less about women once they get them? It's not that I don't care. Normal people usually do this.

Normal women are always better to men after giving their lives.

If a woman is nicer to a man, he will go further. Knowing that you love him, he will relax a little and won't follow him as before.

This is a staged victory for men.

It's hard to say that you live in different places.

If we spend a lot of time together, it's not a problem.

Is a woman always the best for a man if she can't get it? That depends on what kind of woman he is! Different women like different men. I believe that most women like men who are not beautiful but have temperament! A man who is not slim but also elegant! A cute man who is not smart! Different women have different opinions! Not easy to answer! Some people attach importance to inner beauty, while others attach importance to outer beauty. However, women who generally attach importance to inner beauty should be mature women themselves! Personally, I think women can be less beautiful than flowers, because flowers will eventually wither, but they must be smart! There must be something inside! Women should always recharge their batteries and constantly replenish their brains, so as not to make men feel bored and often surprise them! Women's character should not be too ostentatious! Be clever and filial to each other's parents, and don't say the fault of each other's parents. Smart women don't belittle their husbands in public! Women should give themselves some time and learn to be smart women in life.

After a man gets a woman, is this woman worthless? If you really love each other, a man is not worthless after he gets you. He wants to give you a good life, support your family and make you happy, so sometimes it is inevitable to ignore your feelings instead of you, or you feel worthless. If it's not true, it's hard to say.

Are there three kinds of stupid women that men can't resist when they get a woman?

Stupid vs considerate

I divide girls into three types: one is really stupid, with low IQ and EQ, and men don't like it; The second is a clever girl; I like the third one. They are clever, but they often play dumb. Men have self-esteem, and girls who play dumb can take care of this feature everywhere. When a man satisfies his self-esteem, he will love this girl very much in return. Men tend to make small mistakes. A girl who plays the fool will minimize the big things with a tolerant attitude, and a man who makes a mistake will appreciate her.

Stupid vs gas volume

Never misunderstand men! The "stupidity" of a silly girl that men like definitely does not represent IQ. Girls like that will be unattractive to men over time. The "silly" girl I like is the kind of girl who looks silly but has a good mind. Men always have self-esteem or vanity, so girls who pretend to be smart and very exposed can't catch men's hearts; But a girl as smart as a fool can attract men.

Stupid vs cute

Men are most afraid of girls' scheming, too sharp. No matter how mature a man is, he is still a child in front of his lover. He hopes that the woman he loves can give him mother-like tolerance and understanding, and that she has a childlike innocence and can get along with herself stupidly and truly-with this "silly" girl, men feel safe and warm. ,