Father and daughter are close, and the daughter's reaction is this: I have confirmed that I am blind, not your little lover.

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It is said that the daughter is a "little cotton-padded jacket" that is intimate with her parents and a little lover of her father. She is considerate and will be close to her parents. Usually, the father will show indifference to his son, but he always keeps the smile of "old father" when facing his daughter.

(Above) The father first reached out to Doby's daughter, but she showed a cold face.

The father talked to his daughter close to his face, but her daughter still showed a cold face.

Then dad wants to get close to the child's face. First, they tried their best to tilt their faces to one side, and their hands were still pushing their father, as if to say, "Dad, don't come near me."

Finally, stick your face directly on the sofa to keep dad away. At this time, dad saw that there was no way to kiss his daughter's face, so he kissed her anklet. What he didn't expect was that after getting up, the baby looked disgusted and kept rubbing his anklet with his little hand.

Netizens saw this scene and left messages:

@ presbyopic glasses: Look at this disgusting movement and expression. This is not a "little cotton-padded jacket". It is obviously a cold "stone".

@ ✏✏✏✏✏✏✏✏✏✏✏✏𘚟✏✏✏✏✏𘚟𘚟𘚟𘚟𘚟󴈿󴈿󴈿9999999

@ 中中中: My family is the same. I don't like her father in various ways, but he still dotes on her as always. Really is the lover of the past.

@ 囎囎囎囎囎囎囎: Dad saw the expression and movements of prostitutes, and his heart was cold. I confirmed my eyes, not your "little lover".

Not to say that my daughter is my father's little lover and his intimate little cotton-padded jacket in my previous life, so I usually stick to my father? Why in our life, there are still many daughters who are unwilling to be close to their father, and even show a kind of disgust or indifference? The father might as well have a good review, if he usually gives his children too little companionship.

If it is because of the lack of companionship at ordinary times, it needs to be taken seriously, because the role of father plays an indispensable role in the growth of daughter, but in real life, many people ignore this point, but they don't know that it will bring many negative effects to children's lives.

1, the influence of personality

If a girl lacks fatherly love since childhood, it is easy to develop introverted and sensitive, inferiority and fragile personality, become insecure, unwilling to maintain interpersonal relationships, and even more unwilling to open up.

2. Cognitive influence

Studies have shown that children around the age of five or six will obviously lag behind other children in their cognitive ability after their parents divorced and lacked fatherly love for two years. For a girl, her father is the first man in her life. She can identify herself as a woman through the process of getting along with her father and learn to get along with the opposite sex.

3, the impact of anti-strike ability

When children are attacked or bullied by external forces, the encouragement given by fathers is often more useful than that given by mothers, especially for girls. If he usually lacks this kind of encouragement, the child's ability to resist blows will be poor.

4. Temperament influence

Although a girl's temperament is constantly shaped in life, the communication with her father in the early stage has played a role in promoting or hindering. If a father can appreciate his daughter's dress and hairstyle, he can get encouragement from her temperament. And statistics show that 43% of daughters will inherit artistic talent from their fathers, and more than 25% of girls' adult clothing tastes come from their fathers. (wcy)