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Why do you want to set space access rights?

Sometimes, I see some familiar names among recent visitors, and I wonder how much this friend cares about his space. I followed in his footsteps in a friendly way, only to find that his space was blocked with access rights. I don't think so, but I still don't understand. Nowadays, there are more and more space friends who set access rights. There are certainly many friends who encounter similar situations.

Today, in a friend's blog, I saw that he mentioned two viewpoints on this issue, which makes sense. After reading it carefully, I added my own opinion.

First, "disdain to see people"; The host is very elegant, and scholars come and go. I am afraid that some ignorant people will step into the space, pour sewage indiscriminately and pollute the space.

Second, "Mao"; The host may have met the right person at the wrong time and sealed his thoughts that he could not tell others in the space.

Third, "I don't want to see anyone"; Owners want a relatively private space to express their personal feelings and feelings in their emotions and work, and record what they see and hear in their lives at will.

Many people in the network like to browse spaces and blogs. This is an important way to get to know each other online, and it will also be used to decide whether to apply for chatting or to be friends.

As far as space itself is concerned, it is a beautiful back garden for our spirit and soul, and a good place for leisure, tranquility, elegance, peace and privacy. Sometimes the inexplicable troubles, impulses and thoughts in my heart are expressed in words, and finally I relax and adjust my mentality.

Perhaps someone has encountered such a problem, and there are inexplicable news of swearing and hurting people in the space. In fact, it is good to set' prohibit this person from replying to messages'. After all, when you set permissions, you must be your good friend, and you know familiar people, not strangers. Because only friends will always pay attention to your words and deeds. Caring is confusing, and they will have doubts about it, and even worry about whether you have any unsolvable problems or more serious things. Taking care of one thing and losing another has affected friends.

In fact, space is a private domain, and whether to set access rights or not, others have no right to interfere at all. However, when you decide to close yourself up, it means that you don't accept others stepping into your inner space. When you block others' steps, you block yourself. In that case, you should stop harassing each other. Don't bring trouble and unhappiness to each other.

For a friend who has set up access rights and likes to visit the space, you are definitely not a "scholar", disdaining to see people, and you will not be unwilling to see people. Your behavior, the privacy you protect, your improper curiosity about others, and your good friend hiding half of her face from us behind her guitar, but there is no money here for outsiders. We can also see some people's thoughts and ways of thinking. I believe people are trying to stop such people from visiting their beautiful back garden.

Everyone has his own characteristics and needs. For those who regard space as a private garden, I think they will also have a good adjustment mentality. Since space is like a back garden, it will not be closed all the time, and it will be more colorful if it sees the sun and basks in it. When he gradually opens his own space, he will be willing to share with his friends the wonderful bits and pieces of his frozen life, and we will also see the spiritual garden about his unique style and get to know him better.

Space, there is no distinction between high and low. It is a post station in our hearts, telling the emotional world. Opening space is also opening the door to friends. Through friends' visit, observation, understanding, and sometimes even get friends' support and help when needed. There is no need to seal it up, otherwise it will lose the meaning of opening the space, because it also provides us with a world to display our talents.

We should not let an access right cut off contact with the outside world and cut off the opportunity to communicate with friends. I hope that one day, we can all treat each other honestly and sincerely, and don't artificially set up barriers or obstacles between people. Let's really be friends. Undoubtedly, when you open the space, there will be a silent pleasure in your heart after you release it.