What if chasing a girl for a month is actively rejected?

The ancients' sorrow for Yunfu was nothing more than a dead heart. Without his heart, everything would look pale and meaningless.

Dear friend, there is no doubt that I know you are very sad and upset. Because you think you love him so much, you have paid so much for ta, and all you get is ruthless rejection. Maybe it's not that others can't see what you have done, but they just have no feelings for you. What you did was not touched in ta's heart, but felt the pressure. You think you like ta very much, and even think you can't live without ta. So you try your best to be nice to ta and treat the other person as yourself. If you think of each other in advance, you will be worried crazy if you can't get in touch. But, have you ever thought that this is not your responsibility? And it's very likely that the other person is avoiding you. I can't stand what you are doing. Don't always want to know the whereabouts and thoughts of others. You may just want to talk to each other. You feel normal and not demanding. But ta doesn't think so.

Remember, your thoughts do not represent ta's thoughts. Maybe you will feel that you like ta without asking for anything in return. Ask yourself, are you sure you don't need to pay anything in return? Then why are you sad?

If you really want nothing, how can you be sad? So don't think how great your love is. You may think you know everything, but you can't do it well. Not that I can't do it well, but that I don't want to do it. You are the one who is not sensible. Don't you see? It's not your fault to like someone; It's not your fault to want to care; It's not your fault that you can't control yourself. But that's your way, others may not accept your so-called selfless love. Even if you will be sad, even sad tears. Please be silent, even if you force yourself. Be patient and don't disturb each other's lives, even for each other. You can't forget to give up just because you have paid. If you give, you will be rooted in your heart like a pillar.

Don't deliberately escape, deliberately forget. That will only make you more miserable. Bypass this pillar and find a happy life in the future. You have your ideal and start a new habit. Habit, live alone every day, walk alone. Habit, walk through familiar roads and face familiar scenery. Since others don't like you, face the reality bravely. Look at yourself bravely in the mirror. This sad, weak and haggard self. This is also you, growing up. You're dying. The new you are about to be reborn. Find your way, your future.

All sadness will be the best nourishment for growth and the sacrifice for growth. Be the best you can be, even if you live a life you like. Open your heart, use words, use sounds, and use all the ways you can vent. After venting, cheer up. There are so many people who care about you in different ways. So you're not alone. Life has faded its former color. You can be quiet for a while, but don't get involved, it will ruin you. For the sake of ideals, we should learn to give up at the right time. Give each other the best care. That is to become better, stronger, sunnier and happier.