What about people who hate and like themselves?

Many people will be pursued, and many times the person who pursues you is not the person you like, and you may even find the person who likes you very annoying. But you can't hurt him just because he likes you.

If you are a girl and you hate a boy who likes you, maybe his pursuit and behavior are not pleasing to you. But it doesn't mean he likes you, it just means he owes you. This cannot be a reason for you to hurt others casually. When you are being pursued, you should seriously and responsibly think about whether you really can't accept or even hate this person. If the answer is yes, just refuse him. Long pain is better than short pain. Don't hang him. Don't ask for anything just because he likes you. You don't have the right yet. If it's really annoying, then stay away from each other's lives. Not so many people are persistent.

If you are a boy, then you should understand one thing. Girls' psychology is much weaker than boys'. You may blurt out hurtful words or inadvertently hurtful actions, which will do great harm to girls. So when you face a girl who hates pursuing yourself, choose a gentler way to express your refusal and take care of the girl's emotions. Your refusal will definitely hurt the girl. Since this kind of injury is inevitable, you should minimize this kind of injury and don't add any extra harm to the girls.

There is nothing wrong with liking someone. No matter who you are, you are not qualified to despise a feeling. When you really can't respond to each other's feelings, choose a way to solve it with the least harm. At least years later, in retrospect, neither of them will regret it, nor will they regret it. The memories are still beautiful.