Is it The Man with 30 Flowers or The Man with 40 Flowers?

As the saying goes, "women are forty tofu dregs, and July is a rhapsody." For women, age is their biggest enemy. Regardless of status, wealth, beauty and ugliness, women are afraid of being old. In contrast, men seem to be like antiques in antique shops. The older they get, the more popular they become. Indeed, this is an era when old men are popular. When a big brother can easily beat his younger brother, the younger brothers can't accept it, because big brothers have the following nine kinds of capital that you don't have.

1. Mature

This is a very rich word, and it may contain more things than you think. The little boy may be handsome, sunny and romantic, but these have nothing to do with maturity. Maturity is a temperament that emanates after years of practice. It's something that can be understood but can't be described. You can't learn or copy. Its whole secret lies in time and experience.

2. Have a certain status

There are two kinds of status here, one is economic status and the other is political status. Old men have more or less money in their hands, belonging to people with copper in their waist, while the little boy who just stepped into society is basically poor; Most old people have a little power, and power is a man's best cosmetic, which little boys have forgotten.

3. Strong sense of responsibility

For men, responsibility comes first. Women say men are reliable and pigs can climb trees. This shows how important responsibility is to a man. Chen is a good person. In an interview with love media, he said that a man's sense of responsibility, his sense of responsibility for work, society, family and children, is a man's real virtue.

4. Learn more about sex

In sex, a man can't just regard himself as a "seeder" with excellent performance and plow all the way like land reclamation. Young people tend to make such "young mistakes". On the other hand, old men are familiar with bed fighting. You have to admit that sometimes "experience is more important than strength".

Masculine

Masculinity is not the smell of wine from a burp, the smell of smoke from the mouth, or the smell of smelly feet coming out of leather shoes, but an unspeakable smell. Why so many women like men like Hu Jun, Jiang Wen and You Yongzhi, and why they are more popular than those gigolo, the key is that they are more manly.

be considerate

A man's consideration is more important than his figure. This sentence, which is suitable for discussion in sex night talk, shows the power of consideration. Tall, powerful and full of firepower, of course, makes you look manly, but what women need is always more complicated than this. The little boy only wants his "sister" to understand himself, and he will naturally lose to the old man in this respect.

7. Rich in heart

In this era of survival by quality, a rich heart is even more important than a handsome appearance. If you compare a person to a book, the little boy is a paperback and the old man is a hardcover. Practice from the inside out will make a man exude an unspeakable charm. No affectation, no affectation, full of original flavor, making people very comfortable.

Step 8 ponder

Mature thinking is an important manifestation of a person's maturity, and an immature person is not really mature. Of course, mature thinking doesn't necessarily mean how complicated your thoughts are. The key is to be able to think and think of ideas. Little boys may often come up with some fantastic ideas, but they are always like blended white wine, which is not as good as a century-old wine.

9. Best confidant

Old men are generally well connected. Being his friend will bring you unexpected gains. Therefore, the old man is a woman's best confidante. He can give you care when you need it, but he won't give you a burden; It can surprise you, but it won't make you too excited. Little boys often don't understand heat, either too hot or too cold.