The daughter-in-law asked her mother-in-law to look after her grandson. How does the mother-in-law respond to her daughter-in-law?

Anyone who has experienced it may know that there are often two kinds of relationships between women that are the most difficult to deal with. One is the relationship of rival in love, falling in love with the same man. No matter who comes first, no one wants to quit first without hurting the bones. A mother-in-law relationship is better than saying that once two people quarrel, no matter who starts the "war" first, they feel the most wronged.

A woman's heart is like a hard-to-read scripture, hard to read and hard to understand. Sometimes, after reading it, the whole life is almost over. Not only outsiders can't understand women, sometimes even women themselves can't understand what they need most. Just like some contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, a family living under the same roof feels like two families.

Women's hearts are still elusive, and it goes without saying that two women are together. It is a good thing that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law don't quarrel, and quarreling is also a common phenomenon. Some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can make up after quarreling. When they get well, they continue to quarrel, and some of them lose their marriage after quarreling. In the end, men are often the most wronged.

I once separated from my parents for my wife.

I received a contradictory experience from a mysterious person. Originally, I was in a bad mood. After reading this story, I really want to laugh and have a strong sense of picture. Let me show you the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in this family:

Hello, my mood is too complicated. I learned to drink these days. I can drink better than my father, and only drink good wine. I have many ideas, ranging from a kilo to a ton. My wife has gone back to her parents' house, and she wants to divorce me. She threw the baby at me and I didn't feed her. I'm starving. Give me a clever trick. What should I do in this situation? I'm not afraid of heaven and earth. Do you want a divorce or not? Be frank and give me a suggestion.

The thing is, we have been married for more than four years, and the trivial things that happened at home are simply a long story, full of tears, which seriously affected the quality of married life. Let me explain to you how serious this influence is, not because of the moon, but because of the moon.

I feel sad whenever the moon rises at night. I just hate that I am not a wolf, and I can't scream at the sky and vent my sadness.

My wife is stubborn, but she can't eat grass. My mother has a strong personality, just like a tigress, who wants to be a mountain king, but there is no monkey mediation at home, so they don't accept each other and despise each other. It's no use wearing glasses. You can't fit each other in your eyes.

It turns out that before I got married, my parents bought me a house in a community, and I never went to live there that year. I want to live, mainly because I can't afford to decorate, but I just got married, so I can't tell my wife that I want to slap my face and pretend to be fat, can I

My wife wants a divorce. I can only say that my mother loves me too much. I'm afraid I can't stand the pain after breaking up and won't let us go.

I persuaded my wife, so we stayed for the time being and lived with our parents in the first year of marriage. The problem is there is no separation. Now my mother and my wife are like enemies, and they are old and dead.

Before the separation, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lived together, and they bowed their heads and saw each other. My wife likes to take advantage of petty gain and secretly use my mother's cosmetics and shampoo. My mother, who cooks pickles every day and loses weight for her wife, gradually dislikes each other.

My mother is worried that my wife has wronged me and thinks she is too strict with me. Every time they want to quarrel, they look for a breakthrough from me. Since the fourth month of marriage, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have quarreled many times. After the quarrel, everyone scolded me for no reason. You say I am wronged, who am I scolding?

As a son and a husband, I am in a dilemma and hiding in the cracks. I put in a good word for my wife so as not to be sad. In order not to make my mother sad, I spoke ill of my wife in front of my mother.

I was able to calm them down a few times before, but then every time I quarreled, my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law pushed me aside and I didn't have a say. Nobody understands my pain, right? It really didn't work in the end. I once became a man and decided to separate myself. This family must be divided.

But the big things are yet to come. How many life feuds do you think two people have had? I'll tell you slowly, and you just watch slowly!

Second, because of the second child problem, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is deeper.

I read your article that the quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a man's pot. Said my heart was gone, and the bottom of the pot was black. The key is that there is no reason yet, so I can only wipe it on my face. Whether it's noisy or noisy when the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law live separately, it's always me who gets hurt.

Who knows what happened to them? They may have been enemies in previous lives. They met on the battlefield. It's hard not to fight.

My mother has been unhappy since my daughter was born. On the day of eating noodles with full moon wine, my mother spoke with thorns. Although it's nice to have a boy, it's ok to have a girl.

The wife was unhappy and asked her why she used "Ye". Where are girls worse than boys?

I almost quarreled again that day, and my mother told me to get ready. You must have a big fat boy next year. My wife is a donkey with a bad temper. She won't give birth to anything if she doesn't eat hard or soft.

Later, in order to have a second child, my mother also took pains to come to my house several times. Always look around and take away birth control pills and family planning supplies. This is the rhythm that forces us to have a second child. How can we do this? Mom, I was angry and didn't consider my feelings.

In order not to have children, my wife won't let me touch it for several days, and I have to count the days every time. My life is a failure. If my friends know, I will be laughed to death by them.

My wife and my mother are wrangling: why don't you have a child yourself when no one is watching a child have a second child? If a child is difficult to serve, I will give it to you if I have a second child!

My mother said on the spot: I like nannies best. Don't mention the second child if you have real skills. You give birth to ten children, I'll start a kindergarten at no cost to you. Old people and I can still afford 10 children in various fields, just like herding sheep. The more, the better. As long as you live, I can take you to middle school.

You said that it is not enough to discuss whether there is life or not for such a simple matter. Why are they so busy?

My wife said my mother's speech was ugly: I'm not a pig, how can I have so many babies? Besides, it's still early for children to go to junior high school. How old will you be then? Can you scare my children?

My mother is also angry, and her speech is even worse: just look like a pig, and you need some real skills to look like a pig.

This is how contradictions arise. Finally, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fought, and I was beaten away. My mother slapped me when she left, and so did my daughter-in-law. It doesn't matter if you slap each other. They also threw me a teacup. It used to be a whole set, but now it doesn't deserve a set.

Third, if you want me to look after the children, you can, 30 thousand a year

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law argued about having children all day, and finally my mother gave up. My mother said she would never care again. If you love having children, I won't be timid.

The wife said to her: Do you still want to have children if you are not timid?

The two men quarreled again. I won't talk about those things. ...

I think it doesn't matter whether I have a second child or not, as long as I live well. Why bother? After my mother was not in a hurry to have a second child, our wonderful life 1 year ended by herself.

The children will run away and the house will be in a mess. My wife is very upset and wants to go to work. She wants my mother to help look after her daughter. My mother doesn't want to come, let her figure it out by herself.

In fact, my wife is not lazy, and she is a very hardworking and good woman. She's just a little bloated, which makes me sick. I want her to work harder, so that I can lose weight and have face.

My wife wants to be thin, too, that is, she eats too much and is hungry. She worked hard for a week, eating only one meal a day, and finally she was too hungry to eat like this.

I'm unlucky. People can hug my daughter-in-law, but I can't. I'm sorry for her age and the smile on her face. She often tells me, why don't you let your mother live in our house and we will be filial to her.

I invited him. My dad spoke first. He doesn't want my mother to come. The old couple have a good life and don't want to be separated. I had to beg my mother to come to my house for a few years, so that we could be filial.

My mother has a good eye. She saw through my lie at a glance and said she didn't want to come. She is afraid of being eaten by a tigress.

I hit a nail and went home in despair. My wife is very angry and quarrels with me every day. She must take my mother home.

I dare not go by myself, so I have to take my wife to invite my mother and buy a few pounds of apples, which looks good on my face. My parents had dinner at home the other day, and we were here.

The wife said, "mom, come and live in my house in the future." The conditions here are not good, and there are big mosquitoes everywhere. Look at all the mosquitoes. "

My mother took a bite of pickles, held out three fingers slightly disdainfully and said, "Just move in, 3,000 yuan, no bargaining."

My wife doesn't understand what this means. She kept looking at me, pulling my sleeve and asking me. I dare not ask, so I guess for myself.

I said, "What my mother means is that we can't look after the children for nothing. We will give her 3000 yuan every year to make some money. She is happy, of course, it will hurt the child more, and she can rest assured that she will give the child to her. "

My wife was angry and kept staring at me: "She thinks of herself as your stepmother. How can a mother ask for money to look after her children? " Don't give 1 1000 meanings a year, anyway, it will be yours in the future. "

My mother took a sip of soup and put down the bowl. A murderous look radiated from her face to the whole room: "Son, you are wrong, it is 3 thousand in January, not 3 thousand in a year." Let me go and enjoy myself. I don't want a penny. Thirty-six thousand a year let me go to see the children. Let's call it 30 thousand That 6 thousand is my meal money. Seeing that the children are tired, I will eat more and eat meat at every meal. "

Fourth, the mother-in-law quarreled and her wife ran away.

Alas, my mother and my wife quarreled again, which made my father so angry that he took a bowl to the gate for dinner.

My dad's slippers were not very good, so he dragged himself to the door and almost tripped. He accidentally dropped the bottle, half a bottle of good wine was gone, and the room was full of wine.

How can my dad eat when he sees that there is no wine here? He shouted to me to buy him wine. I didn't have much money with me, so I bought a cheap one. My dad took a sip and said it was not delicious. Let me go again. When I came back, my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law had almost finished quarreling, and I don't know who suffered.

I hope not. If my father was honest and didn't break the bottle of wine, I would persuade them. If I had been filial to my father and bought him a pair of good slippers in advance, he wouldn't have stumbled. If he doesn't trip, I won't have to go out to buy wine. As long as I'm there, at least they won't make so much noise.

What do you think this is? After the quarrel between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, my wife has made up her mind to leave!

When I got home, my wife and I quarreled. While quarreling, we arranged clothes and said that this mother-in-law had gone to ask for money.

I feel bad. I think neither of them is right. My mother has only one son. Can she eat enough with so much money, and will it all be mine in the end? My daughter-in-law has only one husband, so why can't she understand me?

We had a few fights. The wife left the child and went back to her parents' house. She didn't even spend the Mid-Autumn Festival with me. She wanted to divorce me and put my clothes in the wrong place the day she left. I want to go to my father-in-law's house, try to get her back and get my clothes back by the way. My mother won't let me go. Going to my father-in-law's house on a big holiday is a gift, and it costs a lot of money. She will represent you when she gets back. Don't be silly.

I was very angry and asked my mother, "Do you still want this daughter-in-law?"

My mother said, "Listen to me, she will come back by herself, and she will change this time."

My wife has been gone for several days, and I feel very lonely, but I can also rest assured to drink. You see, this is the case. Can you understand that my marriage is still saved?

Fifth, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is actually not so worrying.

In the process of reading the message, I have been speculating in my heart, who is this message, and why does the picture feel so "indecent"? The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which was originally very sad, how did it become like this in his mouth?

It is natural to squeeze happiness out of sadness.

I answered him: Where did you see this contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law? Did you make it up yourself or see it with your own eyes?

He replied, "I have been back to my hometown for six days. Of course, I saw it with my own eyes. I could drink when I was young. I can't get rid of it in the morning. This is his story, and he has been divorced these days. "

I won't comment on this contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law The young husband will not divorce. His mother is a smart person, and she will still "admit defeat" at the critical moment.

As for this writing, it's a bit humorous.

But this is also a state of mind, where the heart is facing the sun, there is warmth everywhere. Different thinking angles have different answers to the same question.

Just say that this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are contradictory, but actually they are not so worried. Mainly depends on the man, if a man can stand tall and hold down the gas field, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not quarrel.

Among the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, most of them are still many problems they think about. If men were smarter, there would be less resentment between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It is better to quarrel with a man than with a mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Men are the root of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.