Tell me and I will be satisfied with your efforts.

As the saying goes, good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. However, in real life, some friends often feel that they can't get their own rewards, some help others but don't get the expected gratitude, some are busy but get nothing, some pay but meet people's misfortunes, and they often show gratitude, affection, money and career. There are many situations in which they can't get paid. It's hard for us to tell. Teacher Yang will give an example before discussing it.

This is a female friend. She has been making great efforts and financial resources to her relatives and friends. She is still warm-hearted and can't help herself to help others. After helping them, they still don't understand, ungrateful, and some turn against each other. She is very painful. This is also a reward for her efforts. Let's take a look at her life:

Kun Zao: May 5th, Mao Yi, Wu Jia, Bing Yin.

Japanese Lord Jia Mu was born in Mao Yiyue. Jia Muqiang, the sheep blade in the season, and the four wooden gangs are more prosperous than robbery. Jiamuwang, which means honest and kind, energetic and helpful, has a very urgent personality and cannot tolerate grievances and anger. There are three kinds of fire in this character, and fire is the food star of Jia Mu. It is eloquent, but it will be unreasonable. Everyone wants to control others and wants to control others. Therefore, if you give and help others, you will expect others' recognition, and you will hope that those who have helped you will listen to you everywhere and do things according to your wishes. This becomes "gratitude", which will produce and intensify the contradiction between them.

It's right to help others, but forget it when it's over. Only in this way can we have a good relationship and a good career. If, after paying, you expect too much from each other and demand too much from one result to another, your goodwill will be entangled, but it will rock the boat and make you enemies.

This example is very representative. When I made it, I buried a heart of "looking forward to reporting". Too entangled in the issue of return, or using the return after paying to measure the contribution, often can not get good results. On the issue of giving and returning, Teacher Yang has several suggestions:

First, distinguish between right and wrong, good is rewarded with good, evil with evil, and cause and effect will not deceive people. So before we intend to pay, we must be clear about whether it is good or evil. If the intention is good, we can make good relationships and plant good seeds. When conditions are ripe, we will get good results. If you have evil thoughts, or pay for more returns, it is often counterproductive to pay with such a purpose.

Second, understand numerology and do what you can. Everyone's life is different, and the pay and return they can bear are different. We should know our abilities through our own numerology. If we do things beyond our ability, we often can't get good results. It's like you borrowed money to invest, but you have no ability to run it yourself, or you have no luck to support it. The result must be a high debt, and everything is done according to one's ability.

Thirdly, if you do good deeds, there is an old saying in Mo Wen's future, "But if you do good deeds, Mo Wen's future". This sentence tells us that it is good to do what we should do, and as long as it is "good", we will keep doing it. Don't be too demanding of results, I will get lucky and lose my life. With this mentality, life will become open-minded and auspicious.