How many times do you have to be hurt before you understand?

How many times do you have to be hurt before you understand?

1, what you can't forget is memories, what you continue is life, and what you miss is just passing by. Love can make a person mature and decadent; Good love can make a person mature, and bad love can make a person decadent.

2. Feelings that have no ending will always end; People who can't get it will always forget it. There is no eternal pain in life. No matter how deep the pain, the wound will always heal. There is no rehearsal in life. Cherish the present and seize every minute of your life. There are no ifs in life, only consequences and results. The past will never come back, and what comes back is no longer perfect. There is no hurdle to get through, only people who can't get through. Slowly, no more tears; Everything will pass.

Actually, I am very tired. I am used to pretending to be strong and facing everything alone. I don't know what I want. Sometimes we can chat happily with you, or we can be presumptuous, but no one knows it's just a disguise, a deliberate disguise; I can make myself happy, but I can't find the source of happiness, just giggle.

Love is a truly precious wealth in life, a wealth that will never be too little but not too much. I persistently keep the highest love for you, because I know that it is the most beautiful possession in my life. For you, I loved tears sincerely and without regret.

When I was young, I looked forward to eternal love and had a love affair. However, after maturity, I have understood that the highest level of love in the world of mortals, in addition to mutual concern, in addition to life and death, is unforgettable. In fact, hand in hand is also the highest state.

6. The most important thing in falling in love is love without regrets. How did you fall in love in the first place? Please love it without regrets. Everyone has the right to choose love, but at the same time, he has the obligation to bear the result. Since you fall in love with someone, you should learn to accept her shortcomings and her unsatisfactory side. It takes courage to love, not to be together, but to love all the time.

7. Some people watch it all their lives, but ignore it all their lives. Some people look at you, but they affect your life. Many times, people who fall in love with me, but unfortunately I don't love him. Most of the time, what I love is that he doesn't love me. Many times, I am in love, but I can't be together. Many times, I hold the benefits, but I can't let them go. In a 90-degree relationship, you need to turn 180 degrees. Don't try to squeeze into his life, you will become more humble.

8. I thought giving up a relationship was a temporary tear, not a continuation of pain, but when you really gave up, you found that the original happy heart broke into the sad territory. When I really wake up, I understand that giving up once will only give up, leave and fall in love with someone else, the one closer to me, when it doesn't belong to you.

I said I love you, and I still love you today. Just, I love you, but I can't be with you, just like I love vilen, but I can't take it home. Every relationship is beautiful, and every journey is charming. It is a regret that we can't have, which makes us more attached. Emotion is a questionnaire with no answer. The hardest search can't make life more complete. Maybe a little regret and sadness will make this questionnaire more meaningful and longer.

10, if you want to get married, marry a man who regards you as a treasure, and he will tolerate your small shortcomings and forgive your thoughtlessness; He can pet you as if you were his little pet; He can get rid of your occasional bad mood and make you a pillow, so that you are not too cold in winter and too hot in summer.

1 1. Giving up is sometimes more difficult than fighting, because giving up is also a choice ... You will regret giving up when you shouldn't, and you will regret not giving up when you shouldn't. Everything has a price. The biggest price in life is not money and time, but opportunity. The more a person refuses to give up anything, the easier it is to miss the most precious opportunity in life.

12, some people, when they can't get you, when they lose you, they will love you forever. He turns a blind eye when you are alone. This is of course a kind of love, but it is selfish to possess and possess without cherishing. Another kind of people, when they don't catch up with you, will care silently, and will regard you as a treasure after they get you. This is what we want, a lifetime of love. How many times do you have to be hurt before you understand?

13, in most cases, married life is the alternation of love and quarrel, which is divided into happiness and misfortune according to different proportions. Love hypnotizes loneliness, and quarrels knock it down. The interval between the two is so short that loneliness cannot wake up.

14. In a successful relationship, their roles may be completely different, but they both regard Bridget as an equal partner. They don't value one person's opinions or interests more than another. We can both feel the important contribution to this relationship. If we want to go for a long time, don't let love become shallow.

15, I think everything that happened between you and me is just my own sadness, like an careless wound, flowing through blood and wounds, and gradually scabbing. This feeling won't paralyze me, just because I'm heartbroken and badly hurt. It's no big deal.

16, it's over when someone loves it; There is a saying that you will regret it; If there is a wound, it will be numb after the pain; There is a heart that will break when shaken; A love, if too deep, will end; An intersection, if too difficult, is the wrong choice.

17. In reality, sadness is unbearable, jealousy is hard to calm down, and anger is hard to control. But when you return to nature, to the universe and to a larger space, you will feel that love is really not the only thing in life. In the biggest sadness of love, you still have to endure tears and take the bus to class and go to work. You still have to go to work.

18, Acacia is a good medicine, which can remove worries and sorrows and cure the pain in the heart. In the days of waiting, the laughter, tears and vows of eternal love of the past are intertwined in my mind, spreading into clusters of dense acacia vines and dignified into a tall and lonely acacia tree, waiting persistently at the intersection you must pass.

19. Because of you, life is completely different from now on. We don't have to swear or promise. We just need to follow the love, take the eyes as the medium, confirm the agreement on the Sanshengshi, and then hold hands and never relax, and perform an eternity with our own love programs.

20. You are always naive to think that you see me thoroughly. In fact, I hang my happiness on my face and hide my pain in my heart. My expression can express thousands of feelings, but the most painful part is not easy for you to see. What you say unintentionally, what you do inadvertently, may be the place that makes me suffer. Love needs careful care. Don't go in and out of my heart just because I love you.

2 1, some people say that meeting the right person is not a strong temptation, but a long-term peace of mind-you know, "he won't leave", no matter how down and out, no matter how sloppy, he won't leave. You don't have to pretend to be so nice and cute. He likes you the most natural way now.

22. If you are tired, have a rest. Why are you pushing yourself so hard? Tired, let your heart stop beating, which also takes time to sort out; If you are tired, stop, even if it is patting the dust, to make your mind clean again; If you are tired, stop. This is not a cowardly escape, but a release of self. Stop when you are tired, even if you just look up gently, maybe there will be better scenery.

23. If you still don't find me in the next life, remember not to become attached to others too early. I believe that we will always meet. If we meet in the next life, remember to let you fall in love with me first, so that you can tolerate all my willfulness. If you fall in love with me first in the next life, remember to care more about me and support me.

24. After falling in love, you are bored, you hate it, you don't understand it, it seems that eternity is no longer credible, and you lose confidence. The thorn bird's persistence in love is admirable and sad. It only sings once in its life, but its singing is more beautiful than any other voice in the world.

I used to think that the greatest thing to love someone is to wait. Today, I once again found that the greatness of love, besides waiting, is to accept. Accept his past and his present situation. Missing is like wine. If you drink it, you will get drunk. When you get drunk, you will read this sad moonlight with all your enthusiasm.

26. The older you get, the more accustomed you are to suppressing your true feelings. I no longer burst into tears, no longer burst into laughter, everything is just a touch. It seems that there is nothing more and more, so I can cry at once and I can't find it anymore, releasing the outlet of sadness. It's always good to have time to cry freely; If you can shed tears without mercy, it means that your heart has not dried up; If you can feel pain, it's because your soul is not old enough to be numb.

27. Sometimes, when you walk through a familiar street corner and see a familiar back, you suddenly think of a person's face; Sometimes, I suddenly want to cry, but I can't cry out sadness; Sometimes, in the dead of night, I suddenly feel lonely and deep into my bone marrow; At that time, I suddenly couldn't find myself and lost myself.

28. I don't know how sad you are when I refuse you, but I feel more sad than you, although I can still talk and laugh with you as usual. Then I left the circle, then you left the circle, and then I heard that you got married and had children.

29. Choosing a lover is never a single option. Some people say that as long as I am single-minded, will you find an ugly, self-motivated, temperament, lazy and greedy person? Therefore, it is normal for human nature to want this and that. Choosing a person is choosing a complex. Overall, it's good, just one major. The best way to live is to be better than ordinary people.

30. Love has no eternal definition. Because everyone has different experiences and feelings, love is beautiful, but it will fade. Just like fireworks, leaving only a brief beauty. In the moment of looking back, there will be no regrets for youth without resentment! Pass by, or love will become a legend because of distance!

Sad love: how many times I have messed up my heartbeat for you and how many times I have wet my eyes.

1. Emotion is like a glass of hard liquor. When it is knocked over by the first person, you can only add some water to the second person.

Only by indulging your youth in the beautiful scenery and me can I live in your memory forever.

There is a name, even if you lie to me a hundred times, I will turn back.

You are a stubborn disease that I will never die, starting from my heart and ending with the fly ash of my bones.

He quarreled with her. He slammed the door and left. Whoever comes back is the grandson! Two hours later, he stood downstairs and shouted, "Grandma, I'm coming to see you!" " "

6. Probably because I like it so much, I would like to be with you in any capacity.

7. If one day I can't hold an umbrella for you, I will accompany you in the rain.

8. When I like you, you can wave and I can wait. When I don't like you, you wave, and I wave even harder.

9. You are not the best, but what I want most.

10. Do you know why "I love you" must be said out loud? Because if you talk with your lips, the opposite person can only see "doubt".

1 1. You only saw visiting hours once. How did you know how long I stayed?

12. The deserted ferry is always full of wild flowers, just like I love you but won't say it.

13. Is my country enough to support you?

14. If you miss me, just call me. Don't back down. Actually, I miss you, too.

15. At the gate of the obstetrics and gynecology operating room, the wife nervously took her husband's hand: "Husband, do you like boys or girls?" The husband calmly said, "I like both." If it's a girl, I'll pay for your online shopping. If it is a boy, then we will pay for your online shopping together! " "

16. I can't tell you what your strengths are. Anyway, you are the reason why I don't love others.

17. I am most afraid of surpassing friendship and not getting love.

18. Thank you for your smile. I have often felt panic over the years.

QQ talks about sadness: How many times does it take for a heart to get hurt before it hurts?

1. If you leave, why meet again? Rushed by, leaving no trace, leaving only memories.

I'm really sorry, maybe I value my weight in your heart. It won't happen again, I will know myself!

No matter how beautiful it is, it can't stand forgetting, and no matter how sad it is, it can't stand time.

Your passionate sky is full of fog. I was trapped in the fog and lost my way. I organize my memory with tears every day.

I can't give you warmth, but there is a word called doing my best.

6. Sometimes, love is also a kind of injury. Cruel people choose to hurt others, and kind people choose to hurt themselves.

7. The soul runs wildly in the open wilderness. You stay where you are, and I will stand where you are. The two of them forgot to make friends, laughed with you for 30 thousand games, and left the wound without regrets.

8. Maybe breaking up is our ending, but I don't regret it, because I once had it!

Honey, I have no courage. I don't have enough courage to make you love me.

10. Love is happiness, so simple and so difficult.

1 1. Obviously I miss you already, but I still miss you. When I miss you, but I can't have you anymore. Clearly have left, but meet again. When we meet again, we can't meet and never say goodbye.

12. How many times do you think a heart needs to be hurt before it stops hurting?

13. Now I finally understand that expired love will never be colorful again. Bitter hatred leaves only harm to oneself.

14. Fortunately, love is not everything. Fortunately, nothing is love.

15. You don't know how scared I am, how afraid you will be liked by others, and even more afraid that you will like others and leave me.

16. Feelings precipitate over time and disappear over time. . .

17. Even if you are a cactus, I am willing to endure all the pain to hold you.

18. Don't compare me with anyone. I am not anyone's shadow, anyone's substitute, and no one can settle for second best.

19. Death only means that I existed.

20. Who can understand who is deeply in love and who is leaving? . .

No matter how many times you do it again, there will always be regrets in life.

1. There are only two possibilities of disappointment: choosing the wrong person or having unexpected expectations.

2, unwilling to let go, often not worth cherishing, chasing hard, often not the need of life.

Everyone will have extremely difficult times, such as the embarrassment of life, the frustration of work, the pressure of study, and the constant fear of love. If you survive, your life will be suddenly enlightened; You won't succeed. Time will teach you how to shake hands with them, so you don't have to be afraid.

4. Forgiveness is just quietly burying regrets; Forgetting is the deepest and most thorough tolerance.

Maybe you have to despair once before you can live again.

6. Only those who have also experienced boundless darkness are qualified to say, I understand you.

7. Sudden impulse and indomitable spirit are not life, but life also includes compromise and forgetting.

8. It is shameful to stand still. Especially when you know you're parked in the wrong place.

9. You are not left behind by others, and you are not prepared for others. Everything grows freely, plants flowers and makes mistakes. Time has blown down. Give it to time to pick it up.

10 We fought all the way, not to change the world, but to prevent the world from changing us.

1 1, don't let life lose to your mood. Mood is not the whole of life, but it can control the whole of life. In a good mood, everything is fine, in a bad mood, everything is chaotic. It is often not that we lose to others, but that our bad mood devalues our image, reduces our ability, disrupts our thinking, and thus loses to ourselves. Control your emotions, and life will be peaceful everywhere. A good attitude shapes a good mood, and a good mood shapes the best of you.

12, live your life quietly, the heart does not move, and the wind can do nothing. If you don't get hurt, the years will be fine.

13. No matter whether a woman is married or single, money, house and car can only bring a sense of security. In the long run, a woman's sense of security is always a sense of self-achievement. She is valuable to others and society. She knows who she is, what she can do and the meaning of life. She is trying to grow up at any age until she grows up to be a lovely, interesting, well-informed and frank old lady.

14, life is always like this, we can't satisfy people everywhere, but we still have to live enthusiastically. People live a lifetime, and there are still many things worth loving.

15, let nature take its course, be happy with it, be free as a cloud, and be free and easy as water, which is the proper attitude of life.

16, time can heal any wound. Give yourself more time.

17, there are many such moments. You are thrilling, and the world knows nothing about it. You go over the mountains and the world is silent. After all, life is a man's war.

18. Whether it's smooth or bumpy, whether it's flowers or thorns, only with a indifferent attitude and firm belief can we live a practical and happy life.

19, laziness is a strange thing that makes you think it is ease, rest and blessing; But it actually gives you boredom, burnout and depression; It deprives you of hope for the future, cuts off your friendship with others, and makes you more and more narrow-minded and suspicious of life.

20. Give time to live, not life time.

2 1. Why should others be nice to you? Why should I take care of your emotions? Why should I talk to you in a different way? Why should I fully understand what you mean? Why should I respect you? People dare to treat you like this because you are not strong enough, so strong that others need to think twice about you. You can't ask everyone to change for you. All you can do is be strong enough to attract them to you and help them change.

22. Later I realized that to live a simple, comfortable and free life, the premise is to earn enough money to make you feel at ease. The world is realistic, and only you can make it soft with your own efforts and self.

23, stay away from four kinds of people: 1, when you want money, you can't wait to kneel down, pat your chest and pat your chest, and avoid it when you pay back. I was very happy when I helped him. If I don't help him, I will turn my back on him. If it involves a little interest, I will turn my face at once. 3. Don't know how to respect others and be self-centered. I feel that everyone is not as good as myself. 4. 10 You did nine things to him. When something doesn't go his way, you turn your back. You don't remember what is good for him, only what is bad for him. -You can have good friends only if you have broken friends.

24. Life is always moving forward, and all the past you thought you couldn't get through is finally over.

25. In front of the person who likes you, love life; See the world clearly with people who don't like you.

26. Loneliness makes you stronger and a better person.

No matter how difficult it is, keep going, because only the moment you give up, you will lose.

28, growth is: gradually gentle, restrained, simple, no complaints, no questions, no memories, and gradually realize the greatness of life in silence.

29. Be brave enough to give up something for the life you want. There is no justice in this world, and you will never please both sides. If you want freedom, you have to sacrifice safety. If you want to loaf around, you won't get the grades evaluated by others. If you want to be happy, you don't have to care about the attitude of people around you. If you want to move forward, you must leave your present position.

A person's best state is that his face looks three to five years younger than his actual age and his brain is three to five years older than his actual age. And the simpler the appearance, the richer the heart. Only when the heart is blank can you pretend to be sophisticated.

3 1, cherish what comes and let go what goes. Life is a journey, not everyone will go to the same place.

32. Any decision you make is right, as long as you: 1 and bear the consequences. 2. Never regret it.

The loveliest moment in our life is not when we are thinking about how to please others, but when we feel great happiness in our hearts and can't help but want to express it.

At first, we pretended to be confused to understand. Later, we played dumb and understood. -It's not that we want to live in ignorance. However, a lot of things, with hard work, will be exposed, exposed and lost. The world of adults is always so fragile.

34. What are you afraid of? Step by step, further joy. Happiness, on the road.

35. Is there a moment in your life when you feel happy and don't want anything else? If you only talk about what happened before, recall the past time and try to hide your nostalgia and sadness with laughter, does this mean that you are old?

36, don't be too picky, love when you are tempted. The ability to love also has a shelf life. Unless all conditions are right, love may be too late. Relationships always expire when you are ready.