What's the difference between a self-disciplined person and a lazy person?

Kōnosuke Matsushita said? The highest achievement comes from self-discipline? .

People, the harder they work, the luckier they are, the more self-disciplined, the more successful they are, and the more self-disciplined they can meet better themselves.

Self-discipline is prominent, and laziness comes out.

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The lazy man is gone.

I saw such a question on Zhihu: What is the least motivated person you have ever met?

Gao Zan's answer is: they are anxious about the status quo and have no perseverance to practice their determination to change themselves;

Everything lasts for three minutes, and the most persistent thing is that you can't persist.

I went to see a friend at the weekend.

Since she resigned in February, she has been staying in the rented room, sleeping in the afternoon every day, and then ordering a takeaway to watch her mobile phone.

I asked her why she didn't look for a job. The longer she stays in the house, the less she wants to go to work, she said. She sent out resumes intermittently, but she didn't receive a satisfactory job interview.

This is quite different from what she looked like in college.

When I was in college, my friends used to be goddesses of a group of professional boys.

You can be a goddess now if you like. ? I said.

The friend shook his head. Last year, I spent 8000 yuan on 100 fitness class, but I didn't finish ten classes, which was a waste of money. ?

Why not go? ?

I was interested in going to a few classes at first, but later I was too tired to practice, so I didn't want to go. ?

Self-discipline is a process of self-improvement, in which it will inevitably experience the pain of giving up, and the degree of pain is even like facing death.

Just like the nature of natural replacement, the old disappears and new talents are born.

I don't want to work, I can't keep exercising, and I don't want to get out of my comfort zone. ......

A series of closed doors made their mental state worse and worse, and their physical appearance also changed. If this continues, the situation will only get worse.

Han Yu said in Jin Xie Xue:

Diligence is good at diligence, but not good at playing. All the laziness stolen on the road of self-discipline will eventually become a pit on the road to success. Lazy people can only go out.

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Self-discipline is outstanding

People who have made great achievements in ancient and modern times should not only have outstanding talents, but also have perseverance.

Most of the successful people who have achieved great success in history are highly self-disciplined.

Known as? The first perfect person in ancient and modern times? Zeng Guofan took self-discipline to the extreme.

When I was young, Zeng Guofan was like thousands of ordinary young people in Qian Qian. He has neither concentration nor ability.

Not only that, he also has many stubborn bad habits: lust, lying and laziness. In any case, he is an ordinary person with mediocre qualifications and is doomed to failure.

In order to correct his lust, he made up his mind to keep a diary, in which he reflected on the mistakes of the day to alert himself.

This diary lasted for decades, and together with the letters he sent to his relatives, it formed Zeng Guofan's rich family instructions and became the code of conduct that the world believed in.

In order to correct the falsehood, he listened to other people's suggestions and sat quietly for an hour every day to cultivate his self-cultivation.

This meditation, he resolutely insisted on all his life, forcefully polished his sharp and quick temper.

In order to correct laziness, he kept studying for decades.

Zeng Guofan didn't study every day in his life. Even though he was blind in his later years, he still didn't stop. Zeng Guofan is.

With the ultimate self-discipline, I finally realized the counterattack of life.

From a stupid child with ordinary talent to the attention of the world? Perfect? .

It can be seen that as long as a person can be self-disciplined, he has already embarked on the right track of life.

Those who indulge themselves can only struggle in the quagmire of life.

The more ruthless you are, the more outstanding your talent will be.

Only self-discipline can make you stand out.

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The secret of self-discipline

Guo Qilin, monitor of Deyun Society, said:

Self-discipline and self-confidence are no longer one thing. Can I do that? But I think I can. ?

If you want to be self-disciplined, you must use your brain to compete with the comfort brought by laziness.

The first method: reward yourself.

Wang Jianlin earned a small goal of 100 million yuan for him and became a joke of the public.

But on the road of self-discipline, we still have to set a small goal for ourselves, which is a bit challenging and can be achieved by hard work.

A reporter asked Jolin Tsai, Do you still eat dessert to lose weight?

Jolin Tsai said? Yes, I will reward myself for sticking to the weight loss plan and eating once a week. ?

If you achieve a small goal, reward yourself appropriately.

Kazuo inamori once said:

Please be moved by your small success every step, and use it as motivation to work harder.

This can not only ease the tension and pressure at the beginning of self-discipline, but also be a small ceremony to recognize the results of self-discipline.

This shows that we have taken the right action and are making great strides in the right direction.

We should break down the ultimate big goal into several small goals that are easy to achieve.

Realizing the sense of accomplishment of small goals will strengthen the confidence and motivation of self-discipline

The second method: punish yourself.

He said that I just burned my bridges and forced myself to have no choice in various ways.

At the company meeting, my friend announced in front of the leaders and colleagues that he would take the advanced qualification exam.

Threatened to fail the exam, he left the company quietly.

To put it bluntly, he has made many study plans for himself, each of which has endless punishment measures.

He asked himself: Keep your word and do what you want.

It is human nature to avoid pain and love face.

My friend said that the idea of doing it is good, but the consequences of not doing it are very serious, and the motivation is enough.

Appropriate punishment is also a means to stimulate self-discipline.

The third method: integrate into the circle.

My cousin is an office white-collar worker. She has been sitting for many years and is very weak.

The doctor advised him to run for exercise.

He is alone, no one urges him, and his self-discipline is poor. He runs from time to time.

It doesn't work, but it's tiring to toss yourself.

Later, he took my advice and joined the running training camp. He was suddenly infected by the team atmosphere and persisted well.

Find a * * * circle of self-discipline goals, and everyone will supervise each other, hold a group to keep warm, and make progress.

As the saying goes:? Walking alone is fast, and many walkers are far away. ?

A person may walk fast, but it is hard to last. Only by walking with others can he walk for a long time.

It is a good way of self-discipline to get into the circle and warm up.

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The more self-discipline, the more freedom.

Wang Xiaobo said: All human sufferings are essentially anger at their incompetence.

Self-discipline is a necessary condition to solve life problems and an important means to eliminate life pain.

Only if you work hard at self-discipline, do what you should do at the right time and place, and neither delay nor slack off, can your life be truly dominated by you.

In this way, only self-disciplined people can get real freedom.

Just like in life, we have to obey the traffic rules when driving and walking.

Everyone is conscious, the road will be smooth, and driving will be more free.

Everyone is unconscious, the road will be congested, and personal safety interests will not be guaranteed.

Those who give up self-discipline and indulge themselves will only gain temporary freedom, and will eventually pay a painful price at the expense of others.

Life is a horse, and self-discipline is a reins.

If you trust a horse, it will go off track and even risk breaking into pieces.

Life is a boat, and self-discipline is water.

Only by pushing the boat with water can we sail freely and sail to the other side of life value.