What is your most disgusting behavior at family gatherings?

The behavior that disgusts me the most at family gatherings is vividly reflected in my third uncle’s family:

When my grandfather was alive, the whole family would have dinner during the holidays, and there would be more than 20 people. Man, that's a lot of fun.

Every time we have dinner together, the third uncle and his family will be late. Brothers and sisters picked vegetables, pounded garlic, and stir-fried vegetables. At this time, the third uncle's family of three came. Once, I don't know who I learned from, and when I walked in, I said, "Sorry, I'm late." I was frying chili oil at that time, and I wanted to throw it in his face.

The third uncle is an "iron rooster", and every time we have dinner, he is always empty-handed. Everyone understands this. After all, among the brothers, he is the only one who is worse at it. But the sisters-in-law didn’t see it that way, so my mother said, “It’s not too much, isn’t it too little? It’s okay to bring a little something to show your appreciation.” My second aunt said, “How can you come to a dinner party with just your mouth?”

It’s okay for the third uncle to come to eat with nothing. When eating, he likes to complain, either this dish is salty or this dish is bland, or he thinks the chicken feathers are not picked clean and the fish is not fresh. One time, grandpa couldn't bear it anymore and said: "Xiaosan, don't be too dissatisfied with this or that. Just go home and cook and eat."

What is the most disgusting behavior for you at family gatherings?

I particularly dislike that kind of "protecting the calf" behavior!

Some relatives behave particularly offensively at family gatherings, especially when eating out at restaurants, from the moment they order food.

He is obviously not the one who pays the bill. He has never paid for a treat, but he is the most "positive" every time he orders! Whichever one likes to eat, order whichever one is the most expensive!

Then when the food was served and everyone sat down to eat, some relatives were afraid that their children would not eat enough or be full, so they kept picking up food for their children, and they kept mumbling. Said: "Then let so and so eat! Take it!" I am afraid that my children will be hungry! Moreover, their child is already an adult in his twenties, and he even brings his future daughter-in-law to dinner.

The mentality of this kind of people is that they can’t take any losses and can eat whatever they want without spending a penny.

I have been lucky enough to attend these gatherings in recent years, and I have heard my family chatting with me about all the happenings. But I can definitely imagine that scene. After all, I have known this man for more than thirty years, and he has never corrected his problems at the family dinner table.

It has been disgusting for more than thirty years!

I hate toasts and speeches the most. Because of this, my aunt’s family and my uncle still don’t talk to each other.

One year during the Chinese New Year, relatives from my grandma’s family gathered together for dinner. Because my brother-in-law works in the government and often socializes, he likes to have every family member toast even at family gatherings.

On that day, there were several rounds of toasts. Other relatives in the family basically finished their New Year greetings when toasting. When it was my uncle's turn, he subconsciously said the blessings again.

My brother-in-law was already a little drunk at that time. After listening to my brother-in-law's toast, he was a little unhappy: "Your brothers and sisters have already said this, let's talk about something else." My brother-in-law is not good at talking. , he asked back: "Are there any other words for New Year greetings? I wish you good luck, good luck, smooth sailing, and all your wishes will come true."

My uncle raised his voice: "Apart from the New Year greetings, I wish you all the best." Can't you say anything else? Do you still need me to teach you?" My brother-in-law was not happy at the moment when he was being taught a lesson in front of so many people: "What else can we say when we are celebrating the New Year! It’s enough to just be happy, but you have to go through these official clichés and force people to say this and that. If you don’t talk about it, will it make you lose your taste? ”

My uncle hates other people the most. He said he had an official style. As soon as he heard my brother-in-law's words, he was as angry as if he had poked a scar on him. He slapped the table on the table, and then yelled at my brother-in-law. My brother-in-law also drank too much at the time, and he stood up and started to yell at me.

At that time, everyone saw that these two people had become such a quarrel, and they all quickly started to persuade them. When my uncle saw someone starting a fight, he went crazy and scolded him even more happily. In the end, we took him away and my uncle stopped.

Since that time, my brother-in-law has never interacted with his family again. According to his original words, he couldn't bear to see his uncle bringing his official style to the house to dominate.

In fact, I am also on my uncle's side. When toasting at work, everyone says some kind words, thanks to leaders and colleagues. How many of them express their gratitude from the bottom of their hearts?

When you get home, there is no need to do that fictitious thing anymore. We are all real relatives. Wouldn’t it be disrespectful for you to do that toasting thing?

Let’s talk about some trouble-making things. Every year on the second day of the Lunar New Year, I go to my grandma’s house for a gathering. My grandma is over 80 years old and has senile diseases. She hardly participates in various chat situations.

In order of age, my mother - uncle - second uncle - second aunt - third aunt - fourth aunt.

My parents, uncle, and aunt are both honest people. They only cook and work and don’t care about anything else. My second uncle is a small business owner and has some money. My three aunts all have average conditions. In my first generation, I opened three small supermarkets. Among my other cousins, two were out of town and never participated, two were ordinary bank employees, and two were living a mixed life. This was probably the case in my mother's family.

Isn’t this obvious? My grandma doesn’t participate and always stays in the house with the nanny. My parents and uncle and his wife cook and don’t care about their business. They stay and chat almost every year. The second uncle is the most respected one. He is the oldest and the richest.

Last year during the Chinese New Year, my second uncle was talking loudly there again, about everything black and white, and about business. , sitting next to each other, with adoring eyes.

The second uncle had been talking for a while, and when he got up to go to the bathroom, the third aunt quickly turned around and pouted, and whispered to everyone, "This second brother, his sons are divorced, and his grandson has been taken away by his daughter-in-law." , I still owe a bunch of debts, all of which he paid off, and I forced them to pay them back. I'm just sitting here bragging, thinking that no one knows. I must have a big heart and a big face."

2 After the uncle came back, he sat there again and continued to talk, where is the third aunt, continue to worship. The second uncle said that a while ago, his car was rear-ended, and the insurance company asked him to go to an ordinary shop for repairs. He was anxious and had to go to the 4S shop, and then the other party agreed."

Where is the third aunt, peeling oranges? Pi, while saying, "This is you, second brother, no one else can do it."

I was confused, isn't it normal for the car owner to ask to go to the 4S shop? Why can't anyone else do it? ?

The second uncle said, "That's not a lie. From south to north, there is nothing our family can't do."

Well, we all know that, except You can handle everything else about your son...

The second uncle continued to brag, and the third aunt continued to praise. Before she finished speaking, my mother came out of the kitchen and called the second uncle, "Second brother, "Come here, I want to tell you something." Then the second uncle went to the side cabin with my mother. I guess he was asking about the divorce of his cousin. As an aunt, I should ask in private.

As soon as the second uncle left, the third aunt spoke again, "This is too cool. Who cares? This is good for both north and south. It was rear-ended. Why don't you go to the 4S shop to repair it?" Not to mention anything else, those two brothers-in-law bullied him and scolded him whenever they asked."

Then when it was time to eat, there was a table for the elders and a table for the juniors. My dad was at the table, and my mom was at the table. It was never served, and I ate alone with my grandma.

I was not good at it in the past. When I was selling fruits, I borrowed money from relatives who wanted to start a business, but no one borrowed money from me. My second uncle also gave me a meal, "What business can I do if I don't have money? I'll pay for it." What if I can’t afford a wife? Can I lend it to you?

Now that I have opened three small supermarkets, my second uncle treats me differently. He calls me loudly. Several times, my eldest nephew came over and sat next to my second uncle. We, the bosses, sat together. I was really speechless. I said, "Please take me here. Second uncle, what kind of boss am I? I'm just a fruit seller." I can't compete with you. I'm not the boss, so you should be your own boss.

He stood up, pulled me to his side, and asked my second uncle to pour a place for me. The second uncle rushed down. I wanted to get up to prevent my second uncle from jumping to the seat, but my second uncle and second uncle pushed me there.

This meal, I actually listened to my second uncle's orders, and I really enjoyed it. He knew astronomy, geography, and how oxygen is formed. After three rounds of drinking, his second uncle started talking about his assets and annual income. He made more than 2 million yuan in one *** this year. When I heard that, oh my god, You can earn at most half a million yuan a year, but in this small county, it is really a high income.

No matter how much you drink, you can't make four years' worth of money in one year. Then I will. When the uncle heard this, he said, "Second brother, you are here right now. You are absolutely [like] here." He gave a thumbs up, and then said, "I have a small job right now. I can do it with money. Seven Eight hundred thousand is enough. You contribute the money and I contribute the effort. I can earn three to four hundred thousand for at most half a year. I can keep a few tens of thousands. The rest is all yours. Look, second brother, let’s just do it. Money is all there is to it. If you seize the opportunity, we guys will make some money.”

Although my second uncle was drunk, no one was good at making money, so he immediately said, “I don’t have any in hand right now. I’ll go back and take a look.” Let’s see if we can pour it out. All the money I earned this year has been invested in the factory, but it’s not even enough. I’ve invested more than one million yuan in my original capital. If you wait for a while, I’ll give you a letter.”

Isn’t this just a failure? My second uncle didn’t even say anything about it. After this happened, my third aunt even teased my second uncle, “Second brother-in-law, why are you so affordable? Tomorrow my second brother will say you will make money. You believe 200 million. If you don’t care if he borrows 100 million, you will scare him under the table."

Of the whole table, only my father and my uncle can eat enough. They never say a word Don't talk, just get off the table when you're full, and the two of you will go aside and chat about which dish tastes good, which dish doesn't taste good, and how to improve it next time.

After the meal, we still have to do it. The nagging, it almost lasted till late at night before we all went back to our houses, so I stopped accompanying me. Every year I just found an excuse and went home. It really made my ears burn, the boasting was too loud, and the praise was too fake. I really can’t stand it.

Family gatherings are always a lively event, and some people just drink and have fun, and there are people who just eat other people’s food and never get anything out of it, which is the most disgusting thing.

I'm so disgusted with that mother and daughter. Every time they go to a restaurant for dinner, they have to drive to pick them up. It's a lot of trouble to have a meal.

Take last year’s New Year’s Day as an example. It happened to be my husband’s day shift. When I was leaving the house in the morning, he told me that he would go home at noon to pick us up.

There was a lot of work in class that day, and he hurried back after half past eleven.

Fortunately, there were not many cars on the road. His 28-year-old niece called halfway and asked his uncle to drive to his home to pick her up.

In fact, the hotel was very close to her home. It was only a 10-minute walk away from the community, but she was too lazy to walk and had to take a car.

I was disgusted after hearing this call. Since my family bought a car, she has become the beneficiary.

How can a 28-year-old girl feel so at ease now that she has to drive someone to pick her up just to have a meal?

Can’t we be self-reliant? A sensible person will not always cause trouble to others, which will make others look down on him.

When she was attending college in this city a few years ago, there were buses right out of the school gate and in front of her house, but every time she went home, the two of them had to call my husband to pick her up.

Our children are not so tossing people. Even if it is windy or rainy, they will not let their father pick them up and drop them off. They insist on riding their bikes in wind and rain by themselves.

Divorced families are unfortunate, but they should understand the principle of self-reliance. Nowadays, taxis and bicycles are everywhere. Where do you want to go?

Since you are not a rich girl, you should be down-to-earth and learn to endure hardship.

After arriving at the restaurant, she acted like she was superior. The eldest lady was full of style and was picky about the waiters.

A lot of dishes have been ordered on the table, but they still insist on ordering 2 more dishes that only the two of them like to eat.

When eating with them, no matter how fragrant the food is, the fragrance cannot be tasted, and the vulgarity in the bones cannot be concealed even with heavy makeup.

The behavior I dislike the most at family gatherings is that of my younger brother and his family. They are the last to come and the first to leave. For this reason, I don’t know how many times I have told my parents, but they have refused to change despite repeated admonitions. I have made it clear that it is okay 11 pm, they had to wait until 12 o'clock. As soon as they walked in, everyone hadn't sat down yet. My sister-in-law and niece were like starving ghosts. They just picked up their chopsticks and ate without asking. When they were full, their legs curled up. , eat fruits when you see them while sitting on the sofa, say "goodbye" after eating and drinking, and don't help you sweep the floor, wipe the table, or wash the dishes. My sister-in-law and my brother have been married for 26 years. This is true, and it also led my 25-year-old niece astray. I was so angry that I officially told my parents during the Spring Festival this year, "Cancel the family gathering, you two will have to treat us to a restaurant"...

My mother-in-law only attends family meetings My strengths can only be discovered after partying.

But such beautiful things are only limited to large-scale gatherings in our family, and they can only be managed for three to five days. After these few days, as soon as my mother-in-law realizes her reaction, I can no longer continue to be leisurely. .

So I am quite disgusted with these family gatherings, but sometimes, I still look forward to them.

There is no way, we are the ordinary people who often eat the fireworks of the world!

We have a lot of family members, which is really too much.

My father-in-law and his family have eight brothers and sisters, five uncles and two aunts.

These are the closest relatives. The eight of them have the same parents.

The key is that these eight brothers and sisters have given birth to many children. My husband and his family are four siblings. The second and fourth uncles also have four or five children in their families, and the smallest family has two children.

Every time we have a family gathering, there are many people, including my mother-in-law’s brother-in-law and sister-in-law, as well as my husband’s uncle, who has five sons, and we also call them uncles.

During the party, my mother-in-law was the eldest, and there were a dozen aunts walking below.

The youngest aunt’s son also got married this year, and she has also become a mother-in-law.

The aunts usually don’t live together, some in the city and some in the countryside. They are busy with their own lives and have no time to complain about each other’s children.

Good guy, when it comes to family gatherings, everyone comes out with all their money!

Their older sisters-in-law have all become mothers-in-law, and everyone finally gets together. The mother-in-law is smarter than whose grandson is smarter, and whose son is capable and capable. The most important thing is They share the same hatred and complain about their daughter-in-law!

The second mother said: "My daughter-in-law doesn't get up in the morning!"

The third mother said: "My daughter-in-law dislikes me for not taking care of my children, and says she won't support me when I get old... "

These old wives became mothers-in-law, and they seemed to suddenly have the capital to complain about their young daughters-in-law. A group of people closed the door and gnashed their teeth in the room.

Sometimes it’s like what Jia Baoyu said in "A Dream of Red Mansions": "These girls were all pure and pure before they got married. How come they become so messed up after getting married?"

To be honest, every time I see my mother-in-law and others in a room at a gathering, they all complain about my daughter-in-law. I feel that this group of people is not very well-educated, but why is she such a drama queen?

During the Chinese New Year party this year, I clearly saw my mother-in-law and others isolating my cousin-in-law.

This cousin-in-law is the daughter-in-law of my third mother. She is young, not well educated, and is more than ten years younger than her husband.

Originally, when Third Mom and her family first asked someone to find a matchmaker for a girl, the girl’s family was reluctant and disliked my cousin’s short stature.

But if he couldn't stand the stalking of his cousin and his third uncle and his third mother, it would be the girl who refused to marry him. In fact, anyone with a discerning eye would understand that the third mother's family was mainly interested in the girl's family.

This girl’s father is the leader of our local public security system, and her brother is also a talented student at some university.

So even if the daughter-in-law is not good-looking and has low education, for the sake of her in-laws, the third mother really favors her daughter-in-law and will not let her do anything after she gets married. She is as precious as her own daughter.

However, just a year or two after their marriage, the sister-in-law’s natal father and brother had an accident while traveling, and both her father and brother passed away.

Ordinarily, when a daughter-in-law loses a loved one, a mother-in-law should feel doubly sorry for her, but my third mother changed her usual attentive attitude and began to criticize her daughter-in-law. I can't stand it.

Not only is she mean to her daughter-in-law at home, but she also likes to deliberately complain about her daughter-in-law and say bad things about others in crowded places, when relatives and friends are present.

During the Chinese New Year party, this sister-in-law saw that all the aunts were very polite. She came up to say hello one by one and poured a glass of milk for my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law just turned around to talk to her third mother. She was praising her daughter-in-law, but she didn't expect the third mother to slam the door shut and drag her sisters-in-law into the back room.

Several old wives-in-law whispered in the room for more than half an hour, and then no one paid attention to my sister-in-law when they came out. They were all cold and cold, as if they had a lot of hatred against them. .

Isn’t it annoying? This has become a gang of mothers-in-law isolating their daughters-in-law.

You can handle your own family matters by yourself. No matter how bad your daughter-in-law is, she will still marry your son. How can you say bad things about your family in front of outsiders?

Since then, I have been disgusted with this kind of family gatherings. What good can it do to myself if we gather together to talk ill about others?

I didn’t go to many of our family’s gatherings this year. I saw them complaining about others and felt irritable, so I simply stopped going. You can complain as you like!

My mother-in-law asked: "As a sister-in-law, you don't take the lead in attending family gatherings, and you don't take the lead in being a good leader for your younger sisters-in-law?"

I said: "I won't go. Is it what you want? It’s convenient for you mothers-in-law to scold your daughter-in-law behind her back."

Although my mother-in-law looked uneducated, she thought very quickly and immediately replied: "Oh, It’s all what your aunt and others said. I won’t speak ill of my daughter-in-law. My daughter-in-law is the best.”

Haha, as long as she attends a family gathering, she will hear all the complaints from other mothers-in-law. , and then comparing it to her own daughter-in-law, my mother-in-law's mood suddenly became clear and she said: "Xiaolong's daughter-in-law scolded her mother-in-law, Xiaoguang's daughter-in-law was so powerful that she even drove her mother-in-law away...".

It seems that she can only realize after comparing herself with others: Oh, my daughter-in-law is better.

Only then can he treat his daughter-in-law from the bottom of his heart for a while.

What I hate the most is women taking advantage of a party to compare themselves to each other, complain, or even hurt others.

Anyway, I also have a son. He will get married in the future. My daughter-in-law is my family and my child. If there are any problems, we will solve them as a family and communicate more.

I will never speak ill of my children in front of outsiders. Besides, what real benefit will I get from complaining about others?

I am absolutely speechless.

When I got married twenty years ago, my mother-in-law remarried to my stepfather’s family. My stepfather had no children and lived alone for half my life. In order to give my stepfather the warmth of home, we would go home every Spring Festival to get together. .

During the wedding party, my mother-in-law washed and cut the vegetables in advance, and started frying when I got home at ten o'clock. She said that my cooking was delicious. My father-in-law was responsible for lighting the fire, and my mother-in-law served the dishes, served the vegetables, and washed the pots.

At this time, the most annoying protagonist, the eldest sister, was standing in the middle of the kitchen, talking non-stop. First, she praised me in various ways: "Young lady is really capable." , I will also learn to cook from you. The cooking is fast and delicious. "My mother-in-law said: "Well, what does Xiao (my nickname) do?"

Mom and Dad. He sang a chorus, was the best at talking and talking, and tried his best to coax me to do more work. It doesn’t matter, it’s not too tiring to do it once a year.

At that time, we ate on the Kang in the winter. We sat cross-legged around the dining table. The tall and thin eldest sister became the highlight again. She squatted in a corner with a rice bowl in her hand and stepped forward to the table. She picked up a bite of food and then walked back. The back and forth was dizzying. There was obviously a lot of room, but she just took out a doormat. Her mother-in-law and father-in-law asked her to sit down and eat, but she said she couldn't sit down and eat.

After dinner, the eldest aunt started to show up again and asked her brother-in-law to pack the down jackets and cotton-padded clothes. She took them home and washed them. The brother-in-law said: You don’t have to worry about it, I will wash it myself. She said: I can dry it after washing. Just like this, the eldest aunt kept nagging. My husband and I looked at each other and thought, when did my eldest sister care so much about my brother-in-law that she even took his clothes home to be washed?

After listening again, it turns out that the eldest aunt bought a new washing machine and showed it off. The drunkard is not interested in drinking! Humph, she was really a frog in the well. When everyone in the house was using a fully automatic washing machine, she bought the first one, and she didn't forget to blow it in front of her family. It’s okay to brag to others, but no one knows who’s family background.

Every time we get together, my eldest sister’s behavior is the most disgusting. She talks too much but doesn’t work, eats poorly, and likes to brag. After a meal, he burped and walked away.

He is an uncle of mine. He should be considered the richest in the family. He always arrives at 12 o'clock because he is rich. Anyway, his grandparents are always waiting for him. His company is not here. My grandparents' house is only two minutes away. He always waits to arrive after 12 o'clock, and then our whole family waits for him. I really hate this behavior. [angry]