I have a younger brother who is very fat and often laughed at by the outside world, so he is very resistant to the outside world and has become an otaku. How to enlighten him to face it positively and

I have a younger brother who is very fat and often laughed at by the outside world, so he is very resistant to the outside world and has become an otaku. How to enlighten him to face it positively and try to lose weight? There is no other way .. I was born in 1988 ... like young people now, I am lazy and decadent ... I am also lazy. I don't wash my clothes for a few days, but I try to wash them when I wash them, and so is a friend of mine. I haven't done anything for years, facing the computer room every day! Reason one: his family conditions are such that he does nothing. His parents can't stand not giving him food at the last minute! Me too. My mother's retirement is higher than my future salary, and the house has been given to me. Why am I still working so hard in society? As a result, it is not as good as other peers. Therefore, there is a reason why modern families after 8090 can't get used to it! You will come up with a suitable method to solve this problem.

Toughness. Strong willpower, which your brother lacks. There are many ways. Simply put, it is to instill (reason) into him constantly. This requires patience and determination ... Don't do it alone ... father ... mother ... his friends, his netizens ... relatives ... all need to borrow money, so you should learn to borrow money. If you are a netizen, you can open another Q number or something to chat with his friendly netizen, so that his friendly netizen can understand your difficulties and ideas and ask him for help. Good netizens will not refuse to help you as long as they know this situation, and they should also avoid finding unfamiliar or bad netizens.

For example, the figure can't be eaten as a meal, and the appearance can't be eaten as a meal! Some people are called ugly, others are handsome, but they have no ability to be called worthless, and so on. In short, everyone you want to borrow has their own way. All you have to do is borrow money from others ... everyone must talk to him alone ... many people talking to him will confuse his mind and make him unable to listen. ! Just like you said, he is smart, so good, just smart, accept this, the most realistic one! This is the protracted war that needs to be fought hard, and it is definitely lacking! Don't worry, he will refuse! This will make him feel the love of his family.

Of course, the quickest way is to take him to church to believe in Jesus, which will broaden his mind and not abandon him easily.