Come and see, teach you three tricks to help your child quit "mobile phone addiction"

"Mom, I want to play with your mobile phone and watch Tik Tok, ok?" In the morning, my six-year-old daughter asked me expectantly as soon as she opened her eyes. "No, no child can look at the mobile phone in the blink of an eye." I decisively refused my daughter's request. My daughter was very unhappy because of my refusal, and she pouted in bed and ignored me. I'm annoyed about it, too. My mother and I were very unhappy this morning because of cell phone problems.

People used to smoke opium while lying down, but now people lie down and brush their mobile phones. The last thing before going to bed at night is to lie down and brush your mobile phone, and the first thing in the morning is to lie down and brush your mobile phone. Looking around while waiting for the bus and eating at the party, we all keep our heads down. More and more people's lives have been occupied by mobile phones. This is a modern new drug that erodes our rationality.

Far away, take our home as an example. There are five people in our family, except our daughter, who doesn't have a mobile phone. Last Saturday, when everyone was here, I carefully observed the use of our mobile phone. I found that from getting up in the morning to going to bed at night, almost everyone can't leave the mobile phone, as if the mobile phone has become a part of our body. Without it, I always feel something is missing, crazy and particularly uncomfortable.

There are many situations like ours in our family now. What's more, not only do adults play by themselves, but they also throw their mobile phones or iPad to their children to save trouble and let them play by themselves. I don't know when, electronic products such as iPad and mobile phone have become the baby-teasing artifacts of modern parents, and mobile phones are the "sharp weapons" among these artifacts. No matter how much the child cries, just give a mobile phone and it will be quiet immediately. These children who brush their mobile phones have virtually formed a habit, just like opium addiction.

Children only know that mobile phones are fun, but they don't know the hidden dangers behind fun. On August 6th, 20 19, Xiaotian, a neighbor 14-year-old son, was scolded by his parents and his mobile phone was confiscated. He locked himself in his room in a rage and roared, "You don't love me at all, and you won't let me play with my mobile phone. If you don't let me play again, I will die for you. " His parents were frightened by him, afraid that he would really do something stupid. In desperation, they called the police for help, and the police rushed to break the door to save people and stopped the farce caused by playing mobile phones.

Xiaotian is undoubtedly lucky. He was rescued by the police at a critical moment, but there are still many children who ended their precious lives just because their parents refused to play mobile phones or restricted the time for their children to play mobile phones.

On August 2019 18, a 9-year-old boy named Beckham came to the emergency department of Shangqiu First People's Hospital. When he was taken to the hospital, he was covered in blood, his pupils were dilated and his heart rate was very weak. The doctor judged that the child might be dying. I rushed to the emergency room for more than an hour, but it was hopeless.

Hearing the news that the children were not rescued, Beckham's family was heartbroken and wished they were all dead.

There are many shocking examples like this ... From these tragedies, we can see that with the development of science and technology, more and more children are addicted to mobile phones. So, how should we "save" children who are addicted to mobile phones?

First of all, we must find the reason from ourselves. Now many parents themselves are often addicted to mobile phones. Such a family atmosphere naturally makes children addicted. Parents can't be honest and upright, just banning their children from using mobile phones can't fundamentally solve the problem.

As parents, we have the responsibility to set an example for our children and create a good family atmosphere for them. Children are at home during holidays, actively communicate face to face with them and help them arrange holiday time allocation; Pay more attention to children, spend more time with them, find more interesting games to play with them, attract their attention and stay away from mobile phones.

Secondly, it is necessary to formulate rules for using mobile phones with children, such as how long they can play in a day, when they can play, what they can play, and how to punish children if they violate the rules. These are all for children to participate, discuss and make together, and cultivate their self-control and judgment from an early age. Of course, children are small after all. In this process, parents should supervise their children to avoid their addiction.

Furthermore, it is better to be casual. If some children are particularly addicted to mobile phones, parents may provoke their children to do something extreme if they are forced to ban playing mobile phones. Therefore, in the face of such addicted children, parents should encourage their children to do something meaningful with their mobile phones, such as learning a certain skill, or recording beautiful moments in life, so that children can also play mobile phones and improve their own quality. Of course, in this process, parents should make an appointment with their children in a peaceful tone and let them do as agreed.