How to find a topic when there is no topic for couples to chat?

It's normal for a couple to have nothing to say from beginning to end. Some people may think, do I not love him/her? Are there no feelings between us? ..... no ~ no ~ in fact, everything is normal, but your relationship has entered a dull period. As long as you get through this period safely, you will become like the first love.

Of course, this does not mean that it will be so dull in this dull period with nothing to say. At this stage, we also need to find a topic to talk about. Then I'll recommend some common topics that can enhance your feelings!

1. The interesting thing that happened today is that it is impossible for couples to stay together all the time, whether they live together, meet every day or live in a different place. As long as they are not together all the time, something unique and interesting will happen around them, which can be shared with their other half. So how should we share it? Do you just repeat the cause, process and ending of this matter to your other half? This can't be done, so it will appear that you are wordy and your other half doesn't know how to answer you. Maybe he will think you are Rory and say something that doesn't care about you.

At this time, I think you can share it like this. When talking about this interesting thing, you can intersperse some of your own experiences and opinions, or ask the other half for their opinions. For example, a classmate's mobile phone accidentally fell into the water today. You can share it with your other half, interspersed with "My mobile phone also fell into the water before, which scared me to death ..." "Have you ever had such an experience?" ..... Naturally, we started talking slowly.

Second, what to eat, the people eat for the sky. We eat every day, which is actually a very good and interesting topic. Talking to your partner about what you ate today and taking a photo to let them know about your life are also easy to enhance feelings.

For example, if you cook a dish that you like very much in the canteen today, you can take a photo of your other half and say to her, "The xxx I ate today is so delicious, I'll give it to you with my mobile phone first!" "Next time you come to see me, let's eat this dish together" ... Of course, this also needs the response from the other side. If the other person's response is affirmative, then you can seize this opportunity to continue the chat. For example, if the other person says "yes, yes", you can say to her, "I gave you all mine. Why don't you show me yours!" "What did you eat today? Is it delicious? " ... so we can talk. If the other person's reaction is not very positive, it means that she is not interested in this and has to find another topic.

Third, the topic of bragging about each other is more suitable for two people to chat when they are quiet together. The "praising each other" here is not very straightforward to say that you are beautiful and handsome. The boast here should be with memories.

For example, if you want to compliment your girlfriend on her beauty, you can say, "When I first met you, I thought you were so charming that I didn't even blink, and then I took the initiative to say hello to you ..." Such a compliment can not only make your other half feel happy, but also recall the sweet memories of the two together.

Fourth, enjoy the future. There is nothing to say between lovers. It may be because all the topics in the novel period have been finished, resulting in the illusion that there is nothing to say. So why not talk about the future!

Two people find a leisure time, hold hands together, and talk about their future plans while walking. So pay attention, is the future planning here just your own future? No, I feel fine, including my boyfriend (girlfriend). For example, in the future, we will go to your hometown to find a job, and when we settle down, we can get married. Only when you have your own other half in the future will you enhance your feelings.

Talking about your own anecdotes is a good topic for two people to talk while eating. After all, there is nothing better than anecdotes that happen to your other half.

Moreover, taking your childhood anecdotes as jokes and expressing them in a humorous way can not only make your other half feel that he is a humorous person, but also make his other half trust you more and enhance their feelings. Why? Because, even if I tell you what happened to me, there's something I'm not telling you!

Of course, the above topics are just nine Niu Yi hairs among the topics that couples can talk about. Feelings are like this. You don't think you can keep them in the refrigerator for a while, they will keep for a long time. If this continues, it will definitely deteriorate. Only when the business is well managed, one is willing to ask, one is willing to talk, one is willing to pay and one is considerate can the relationship go further.