What is the experience of two people engaged in the business of lovers' shops?

Two people are engaged in the business of lovers' shops, which has advantages and disadvantages. It is easy to start a business, but difficult to keep it. Personally, I think the disadvantages outweigh the advantages, and the mom-and-pop shop for more than ten years has exhausted me physically and mentally.

Let me tell you something about us. We used to work in the computer industry. Since we started our business in 2006, we have adhered to the principle that men are the masters outside and women are the masters inside. He runs business at home, delivers goods and repairs computers. I am a multi-functional warehouse, cashier and repairman. At that time, there were two other people in the shop, and four people had to cook two meals in the middle of the day.

This is a good business. I didn't have much money when I started my business. In order to save effort, I still do things when I am pregnant until the baby is born. Husband only looks at profits, never considering rent, labor wages, freight and so on.

After having children, I have to take care of them and look after the store. My husband never helps me share these things. When they get angry, he says, you can take care of your children all the year round and do some business. Yes, after having children, I mainly focus on children, and I don't participate much in business matters. My husband sometimes gets hot-headed and buys things at random. One year, he entered a large number of chassis power wholesale, and the funds were kept secret for several months. Finally, the goods were still with money.

The common fault of men is that they are also active when they have money. When he spent money for other women outside, it never occurred to him that his wife earned the money through thick and thin. I often went to KTV in the evenings a few years ago, but later I played too much all night. You asked him. He said he spent it, so you can't argue with him every day. And children. A woman's weakness is her child, and she lives with him for the sake of the child.

In 20 17, I taught him the finance in the store and asked him to give me family expenses every month. It's fucking digging. I never offered to give me money every month. I'm tired of asking for living expenses like a chicken account. Play B with friends, and he pays for the meal. After the children go to school, when they go to school, I go to the store to help. I stayed at home with the children during the holidays after school. In the eyes of his parents, it was his son who raised me and how happy I was with his son.

20 19 I was angry. I went out to find a half-day shift in the morning and asked him to take care of the children in the morning. Once the teacher called me and said that the child didn't go to school. What is the reason? I said the child was fine, so I called his father immediately. He said that the child was asleep, and so was he. At that time, I was very angry and said that he and the children were asleep. What does your father do? Get up and send the children to school. The key to going out to work is to have a salary, buy whatever you want, and don't ask him for money.

With the outbreak of COVID-19 epidemic this year, I can't go to work, because my children don't go to school, and they attend classes online at home, so I am back to the past. School one > shop one-school one? Go home. Life without self.

The mom-and-pop shop has some advantages, such as free time and convenient child care.