It’s really hard to say how to be a good person

I have heard many people say, "It is really difficult to be a good person." I have also experienced this confusion.

In fact, the reasons for this confusion mainly come from two aspects: one is that you do not have clear standards for good people, and the other is that you care too much about how others evaluate you.

The song "Heart Is Too Soft" was once very popular, which from a certain perspective shows that there are many people who are so confused.

It is not that the two issues of being a good person and being evaluated by others are not unimportant, but there is no unified understanding standard. At least the standards of yourself and the evaluator are not consistent, and there is no way for you to make everyone the same. I used to always want to unify the perceptions of others around me with my own perceptions of this standard, but in the end I realized, "You are not that strong."

I have set a standard for a "good person" for myself: I will never take advantage of interests that do not belong to me; I will not base my happiness on the pain of others; both parties will fulfill their promises as agreed. As long as you adhere to your own standards, you will achieve a standard of conduct: you must have your own principles as a man.

My understanding of the brand: "Product (can meet consumer needs) Quality (promised functions can be reliably realized) Reputation (consumers who have used the product can give affirmation) Share (use your Consumer ownership of the product)" To maximize these four, it is difficult even if you think about it as a brand. "Xizhilang" has been working hard in accordance with these four principles and directions, and I believe it will succeed.

In fact, the same goes for being a human being. Everyone hopes to become a good person, a "brand" of people that everyone recognizes. Then, if you follow this formula, you will find: "Product (you can What to do. - It’s impossible for you to be able to do everything.) Quality (whether you do well and to what extent you have achieved it). Reputation (the recognition and recognition of you from those who recognize you). Share ( How many people can you do well in what you do and get praise and recognition in this field?" In this way, you will understand that you are a good person if you do the things you promise and can do well.

For me, now I am a good boss, meet the standards I set for those who have a relationship with me, and fulfill my commitments. This is a good person.

Stop struggling and worrying about "being a good person", establish your own standards and just work hard.

"You don't have to care too much, you don't have to hide yourself, you have to look for the bright colorful clouds and the warm spring breeze to greet you."