What do you mean, "a married daughter is a spilled water"?

I used to despise this sentence. I don't think it makes any sense. My daughter will always be my parents' daughter. How can it be said that it is splashing water? Even if you marry someone else, you can go back and take care of them.

? But then I grew up, got married and had children, and I felt that there was still some truth. I am sad and helpless.

Even if we convince ourselves again and again, we will always be parents' daughters, and they must help and take care of something as soon as possible. Hehe, it's nice to say and beautiful to think, but it's harder to do.

Every child with a family will definitely spend most of his energy on his small family first, think of his parents when he has time, and then go home and have a look. Isn't this equal to the spilled water? Although it can't be said that all the drops have disappeared, most of them can't be collected.

So in my opinion, not only the married daughter is spilled water, but also the married son is spilled water.

Especially a daughter who is married far away, is like splashing water. She only comes back once or twice a year. Having a daughter equals having no daughter. Even if she takes care of the two old people in money, money can't compare with companionship. However, the reality of most daughters who are far away from home is that they have neither money nor escort. To put it mildly, once their parents suddenly disappear one day, we will miss the last chance to meet each other because we can't go back. Isn't this just like splashing water? Helpless, sad, I have my own family to take care of, old and young, so little energy for one person, most of them can't take care of it there, which is quite sad.

It's no problem for a son to marry a daughter-in-law and live with his parents, but how many young people are willing to live with their parents now? The son is willing, but the daughter-in-law is unwilling. In the end, only two old people lived alone.

? If a child can't help his mother, he can't keep the child from getting married. This is the law of human reproduction, and there is nothing they can do.

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