Three times in my life, Du Jie.

A hundred years of life, one thought and one cycle, is just to teach people how to choose. All beings suffer, just to cross the river. Be your own ferryman and cultivate Buddha's heart.

1: Young people cross the river

Some people say that when you are young, loving someone is a lifetime, and loving someone wrong is the whole youth.

? I don't know how many people, the person I liked when I was young, can accompany me to the end. We were all young and frivolous, and all treasure depends on loss.

? The man who taught us to grow up learned it through countless quarrels and tears. He grew up by hurting you, but he gave tenderness and consideration to later generations. The most ironic thing in love is that the predecessors planted trees and the descendants enjoyed the cool. However, only by loving a person to the extreme once can we meet a better self.

Span middle age

When people reach middle age, they dare not be weak, cry or get sick. The saddest thing is that he doesn't even have the right to die. There are old and young people in the world. When you wake up, you are surrounded by people who depend on him. Supporting parents, buying a house and a car, and sending children to school districts are normal in the world, and nothing can be separated from money. There is no money to take anything to consolidate your love and maintain your feelings. Talking about money is a particularly tacky thing. Without money, there is really no confidence. With a house, you can let your family sleep well; With a career, children's shoulders can fly higher; With savings, parents can spend their old age comfortably.

? It is difficult for middle-aged people to give up their jobs, but they can't give up their jobs to stay with their families in order to support their families. The so-called adult life is not easy. However, life is a process of experience, and we must believe that moving forward with a heavy load now will definitely bring peace in the years to come.

3. Old age crosses the heart

The hardest practice in life is to reconcile with yourself, to be sad, and to live with yourself. Only by letting go of your obsession can you feel at ease.

If we say that youth is a kind of unruly running all the way; Middle age is the vicissitudes of Qianshan; Then, old age is to reach a calm place and take it lightly.

? Life is a practice, through the heart, through yourself. He who sees through does not speak, he who knows others does not judge, and he who knows reason does not argue. The older you get, the weaker your heart becomes. I hope we can all taste the true taste of the world in the plain years.