The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too tense. What methods can make mother-in-law "treat you as her own"?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is too tense. How to make mother-in-law "treat you as her own"?

In marriage, it is never the relationship between husband and wife, but the relationship between two generations. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a puzzling topic for thousands of years. Poor handling of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the division of family relations. When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law becomes more and more serious, some mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will fight with their daughter-in-law Either the son divorced his daughter-in-law, or the mother-in-law was driven out of the house by her daughter-in-law. These are the two extremes of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is a very abnormal relationship. But the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not unsolvable, but there are many solutions. Today, Bian Xiao tells you how to make your mother-in-law treat you like her own mother.

Mother-in-law must listen carefully when she talks to us, and look at her face carefully. You can't do all kinds of actions while listening to your mother-in-law, and you can't be impatient with what her mother-in-law says. Whether your mother-in-law is right or wrong is a question, but you must have a correct attitude. In fact, many times, what the old man said is very important. After all, it is always advice that is unpleasant. As an experienced person, my mother-in-law must have a lot of experience waiting for you to learn. Therefore, when your mother-in-law gives you advice, you should stop seriously and listen carefully anyway. If the mother-in-law thinks that you are not listening carefully at all and don't take her seriously, there will be contradictions between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law.

Don't take it for granted that your mother-in-law takes care of you Nothing in this world is really taken for granted. Mother-in-law must be grateful when she helps you. Especially when a woman is in confinement, many people think that her mother-in-law must help her take care of her children and body. But you know, your mother-in-law is also very tired, and you are very weak after giving birth. Many things need to be done by my mother-in-law, who has to take care of her grandson, daughter-in-law and cook. When you are weak, your mother-in-law does everything for you. Therefore, everyone should know how to be grateful. My mother-in-law is very tired. Don't make a scene just because your mother-in-law is a little careless.

When my mother-in-law doesn't like you staying up late because of playing mobile phone and wasting money because of shopping. Don't contradict your mother-in-law, but do as she says. My mother-in-law didn't mean to blame you. Her mother-in-law is worried about your health when you stay up late. Her mother-in-law is afraid that you don't know how to save money and live a poor life. Don't refute your mother-in-law's point of view, because people have different ideas, but a family is a family.

Talk to your husband more and let him learn to mediate his relationship with his mother-in-law. You can't watch the fun like a fool all day. Finally, his family was broken, and it was too late for him to cry.

Family harmony is most important. Only in this way can this thorny contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law be solved. If your family is harmonious, things at home will be perfect. It is not your mother-in-law or your husband who benefits from family harmony, but you and your whole family. As long as you are kind to your mother-in-law, she will treat you as her own, even more important than your husband.