Talk about the psychological characteristics of China people, the causes of their formation, their influence on China people and how to avoid the formation of bad personality.

At present, the common feature of China people is selfishness. They want to create an environment of "making their own decisions" all day, and try their best to put all the "responsibilities" on others. Well, these are three characteristics. That's right. ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ The formation of personality is hard to say. Generally, it is formed by "the only child must win at the starting line". . . . . Win at the starting line, lose at speed and acceleration! ! ! ! We want to win at the starting line! ! ! ! ! ! This is how many parents care about their children, and the poor inherit the wind ... but even so, who did we win? What did you win? Rank? We still have ... grades? We still understand ... we continue to make mistakes ... countless parents can have better environment and conditions for their children to grow up. I hope my children will grow and struggle better and be more outstanding in a generous environment. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . The above is a common situation in which the author finds a fatal contradiction. Indeed, a generous environment is truly deserved, and we should strive for it (most people have been fighting for it all their lives …). When we can provide a more generous environment, we should also provide it … However, this only applies to "work and actual combat". As a normal growth, this practice-on the contrary! ! ! ! ! ! ! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . With a favorable environment, everything can be solved in an instant. It doesn't require much effort, skill, and thinking at all. All problems can be easily solved with overwhelming conditions ~ ~ ~ Therefore, anyone who grew up in this environment, without exception, does not know how to face difficulties. This person will blame everything on external conditions. Never blame yourself-you can't bear setbacks-even a little failure can bring him down-you won't understand how to cherish every penny of your resources and make the best use of it-all resources will be wasted and destroyed in extreme luxury. In their eyes, everything can basically be solved by money and strength, and each tool can only do one thing, and there is no opportunity to observe and think (because it is unnecessary). In fact, as far as growth is concerned, the most suitable environment for growth is the "most extreme security environment", where all conditions are scarce and everything will encounter great difficulties. The shortage of various conditions will encounter many things that need to be flexible or even created by hand. Failure is almost a matter of course, money is almost waste paper, even if there is huge amount of money, it can't be exchanged for ready-made things. It is also common that the problem is beyond the limits of one's ability. In such an environment, people's ability will be tempered to the maximum extent. Therefore, it will be of great help to the future schedule, many problems will be easy to bear and solve, and there are many things that make many people crazy. I fully admit that putting a person in such an extreme environment is undoubtedly a kind of hardship and pain for him. If it is in a strange environment, it will be very dangerous! In terms of caring, it will also be reprimanded. But it is necessary. If the environment can be created, with proper understanding, we have the ability to eliminate those fatal dangers in the middle and give support and guidance in methods again and again (the help of resources and strength will make everything go up in smoke). And what we are doing now is almost the opposite. Do everything possible to reduce the tempering of experience, thinking, application and endurance. PS: Great difficulties and complete fiasco in all aspects will put self-confidence to a very severe test. No one can sit around and spend energy without wavering in the past. In this process, we need to encourage support and care. But it's worth noting-don't use the phrase "try harder, everyone else does, don't you?" Tao, in fact, all this is meaningless on the premise of impact and injury. What can be effective is to "let him really feel his growth, realize that his deepest goal is clear and firm, and have practical solutions to the current difficulties." Win at the starting line, lose at speed and acceleration! ! ! ! The most generous starting line will make the slowest tortoise! ! ! I don't deny that sprint's most generous starting line has an overwhelming advantage (never! ! Never! ! However, in the endless marathon of life for decades, rabbits and cheetahs who came from behind will only be overtaken by violence one by one, and then simply leave themselves behind, leaving a shadow at last. The phrase "Don't let children lose at the starting line" has made our children look like a virtue ... To achieve the biggest goal, we need the most solid foundation ... To achieve the most solid foundation, we need to solve the most subtle problems ... To find the most subtle problems and solve them, we need the most calm heart ... Inner peace needs to constantly face our own problems ... and then solve as many problems as possible step by step. In this process, I will temper my abilities in all aspects. ........................................................................................................................................... ........................, we will find that the internal road is completely blocked-the evaluation standard will focus more on the consumption of money-while ignoring the source of money, the process of using money and the feelings in the process of using it, shielding the consequences of misuse of money. Are we really sure that we are "good for children"? Well, as far as business is concerned, I think it's right, but I always feel something is wrong. It is not an exaggeration to say that it is completely the opposite.