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Tip: How to avoid the past and old friends you don't want to see?
"There is no such thing as a banquet that must come to an end and everything will be lost. All your tears and laughter will go up in smoke. So we don't cry, so we don't recall the past "-Zheng Jun sings. Memories are not always sweet. Everyone has an unavoidable past and people who don't want to face it again, because when they think they have succeeded, old people who don't know where they are will suddenly appear in front of them, reminding you of a past intentionally or unintentionally. Just like an advertising slogan that kills the scenery, it makes people depressed and short of breath. 1, the word old lover always seems to have a meaningful and complicated atmosphere, which has nothing to do with love but with stories. In the alienated city, there will always be some people passing by by by mistake. In my opinion, old lovers can't be friends, because they have hurt each other. Once emotional cracks appear, they can't calm down, can't communicate calmly like ordinary people, and can't be enemies. Because I have been in love, even if I have had some unpleasantness, I still can't hate it. I can only be the most familiar stranger. There are many such strangers in this city. They were infinitely close at a certain moment, naively thinking that they could last forever. They are familiar with each other's temper and appearance, but there is no picture of him in their pockets. Although I always feel a little pain when I mention each other, my tone is dull and I can't afford to make any waves. They are each other's stories, and they are also volcanoes that erupt at any time in their hearts forever. Tip: It can be scary to get along with people who know their past. I always feel that my eyes can see through everything and make people feel ashamed. Maybe we should get to know each other again, go back to the starting point of friends and get to know this familiar and strange person again. However, you can miss, but you don't have to say hello. You can be distant, but you don't have to be cold. Remember: don't go forward easily unless you make up your mind. Nothing can withstand tossing back and forth several times, which will toss off the last feeling and become disgusting. & gt& gt& gt Ten ways to forget an "old lover" II. Old colleagues should not think that changing companies can start all over again. The world, especially the circle, is often too small to turn around. I'm afraid it's not just a surprise when you find that your old colleague has become a new colleague after you join the company. The workplace, like a battlefield, may not recognize the old mutual affection. If you are a competitor, your means, resources, advantages and disadvantages have long been clear, and your past performance, income and mistakes may no longer be kept secret. It's even more embarrassing if you unfortunately become your boss. I'm afraid the other side knows all about your little moves in the past, and if you make a mistake, you will only get a cold smile from the other side. Even if you are a subordinate, don't be proud first. Who knows if he is a time bomb? He will be superior after blowing you up. Tip: When mountains and rivers meet, another person you care about will definitely consider it. Therefore, we must first stand firm and reach a United front. If people don't attack me, I won't attack the prisoner first. Don't deliberately keep warm, remember: even if you can ridicule your past, you are still ashamed to discuss it in front of people who know your past. Although many things can be ignored by yourself, it is a big mistake to think that others will not care. Don't wait to be reminded, then it will be too late to regret. & gt& gt& gt How to be neighbors with colleagues? Old friends always alienate old friends while making new ones. It is not difficult to make new friends, but it is difficult to keep old friends. Everyone has his own world view, and the world and things in your eyes may often be far from your friends. It takes a long time to know, and this is often a difficult moment: who should agree with whom? "Gentleman is harmonious but different", but it is easier said than done! If the difference is too far, this friendship will be in jeopardy. Although everything begins and ends, friendship is no exception. Naturally dilute alienation, that is the best ending. It's best to think of the human brain as a computer, delete a file and never mention that person's name again. This is not difficult to do. Tip: the first element between friends is understanding, but in real life, we often see it; These two people can't wait to become friends before they can understand each other. The deeper this friendship, the deeper the misunderstanding will be. When misunderstandings accumulate to a certain extent, friendship will hurt each other in turn. Even after being injured, they don't know why they are injured. Confused friendship is more terrible than clear hatred. The second factor between friends is equality. Even though their status is very different, they must be equal in spirit. No matter how powerful this friend is, you can't look down on that friend. However, in real life, most people choose friends first because of their similar social status, but their spiritual status is often ignored. Therefore, when his friend's social status plummeted, he had to look up to his old friend, who looked down on him piteously. & gt& gt& gt How to find the lost old friends? Old neighbor This is a warning-no matter who you live next door to today, whether you are still in contact with your neighbors, and whether you can name them, the prophecy will never be easily refuted, because no one knows whether you will know your neighbors tomorrow. If you are a person who doesn't care about others, or a person who is busy with business, you will never know your neighbors in any society. However, some people are different. They are sensitive people. They tend to be obsessed with people and things in the past and look back with nostalgia. The vicissitudes of a street, the disappearance of a thing, a neighbor's voice and smile, and an old photo will all be taken out to bask in the sun and moved for a long time. Tip: The neighbor's ears always seem to be hidden in the corner you can't see. It is hard to imagine that they will hold their breath, cling to the wall and spy carefully. Life is like this. You want to live quietly, but there will always be some "kind" people watching you. Although your life has nothing to do with them, you still unconsciously become an appetizer for others after dinner! He forced him to be strong and the bright moon shone on the river. Remember: even if we meet, it's just a "how are you?" Because there is nothing poetic and picturesque in it, and there is nothing to regret. Because neighbors are neighbors, old neighbors leave and there are new neighbors. Everyone has little tricks. Li Lan, 28, is now laying the foundation for business promotion: To tell the truth, I never offend people easily in my company, because our business circle is too small, and there are only a few companies to choose from. Don't think that letting go today will open up a new world. If the mountains don't turn, they can turn together again, so today's friends may become enemies, but today's enemies will never become friends. I always attach great importance to the communication between colleagues and take care of others' feelings. Now a group of reliable collaborators have been trained, and even if they change jobs, they can bring reliable people. A lot less trouble. Jessica, a 29-year-old beauty consultant, listens more and talks less: For me, every guest is a treasure. However, you should not be too naked in money relations, and you must always make her feel that you are a listener who knows how to share. Some responses, some comforts and some suggestions are appropriate, so that she will have a kind of spiritual relaxation and even dependence. However, the guests don't need me to say anything. I feel insecure instead. For people like us, old guests are long-term parents, so don't offend our work. However, I don't need them to interfere in my life, so listening more and talking less is a means of survival. John, 27, said goodbye to the IT industry and never met again: it is difficult to make a decision, but it is even more difficult to carry it out. Especially in the face of the feelings you have paid and the people you have loved, it is even more difficult, but you have to do it no matter how difficult it is. As the saying goes; As soon as it is interrupted, it is chaotic. It can be seen that muddling along is never a good thing. Don't see each other again after breaking up, and you can leave a good memory for each other. I believe that time can dilute all sadness. Being a man is not as smart as being handsome. Bu Tong, a 26-year-old freelance writer, is as light as water: Since we are friends, we should tolerate each other and know how to pay for each other. Ask for it, don't be friends. Living in the secular world, even friends, can't be without benefits. Once the two sides are too eager and have conflicts of interest, it is easier to be indifferent. Like fireworks in the night sky, it is warm when it is opened and quiet after it is dispersed. Therefore, being a friend should be as light as stopping water, but it should have a profound meaning and a long history. & gt& gt& gt How do you avoid the past and old friends you don't want to see? Come in and talk!
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