Watch your mouth, some things have to learn to rot in your stomach.

Presumably, everyone has experienced the taste of "disaster comes from the mouth"? Indeed, many disasters are from the mouth, because the words are not rigorous and cause trouble.

There is also an idiom called "Shut up", which means to think twice before you speak. People who know how to speak properly often feel at home in a crowd. Why? Because you will feel comfortable talking to such a person. Some people don't know how to swallow some words into their stomachs, and they always like to come clean, which eventually leads to their own danger.

It can be seen that everyone should have their own secrets and should not tell others everything. Learning to rot in your stomach is the guarantee of your own safety. If you can't say anything, you must keep your mouth shut. Don't blindly trust others. You should know how to leave a way out for yourself. It's too late to regret it after being caught by others.

What you said at that time may make you feel relaxed, but it also brings you security risks. People who really know how to speak properly will shut up at the right time, and some things will choose to rot in their stomachs.

If the friends you meet always meet and hate each other, then I advise you to stay away as soon as possible. What you like to say behind others' backs is all villain behavior.

A gentleman acts aboveboard and doesn't tell right and wrong behind others' backs. Even if you meet someone you don't like, you won't deliberately discredit him or speak ill of others behind his back. This is a kind of cultivation.

There is no airtight wall in the world. If you want people to know that you think these things you do will go unnoticed, but one day these things will reach the ears of the parties concerned.

This behavior of gossiping behind people's backs will not only lower their own conduct, but also seriously affect interpersonal relationships. It's really not worth the candle. It is better to say that the following people's good words not only improve their own conduct, but also consolidate interpersonal relationships. Why not?

Usually, some people like to poke others where it hurts. They are proud of it, but they don't know how much harm they have caused each other. Knowing how to give others a step down is a sign of high emotional intelligence.

It is human nature to make mistakes. No one in this world is perfect, and there are some shortcomings to some extent. What we have to do is to know how to avoid the pain of others and not to sprinkle salt on their wounds.

In interpersonal communication, what people often hate most is the kind of outspoken person who exposes the pain of others in public, but when others reply, they keep saying what they call "straightforward"!

Many times, the tongue is a weapon of civilized people. If used well, all contradictions can be resolved. If you don't use it well, it will harm others and yourself, which is not good for people. Forgive others whenever and wherever you are, so that you can feel at home in interpersonal relationships.

You should always remember that "in this world, there are no eternal friends, only eternal interests".

When they have the same interests, they are allies on the United front. But once the interests conflict, even allies will turn against each other one day, so don't overestimate a relationship, trust a person too much and tell others all your secrets.

Friends who are inseparable now may turn into your enemies. You should know how to keep a hand for yourself and keep secrets in your heart. You should learn to rot in your stomach and not tell anyone about some wronged things.

At any time, never overestimate the goodness of human nature and underestimate the evil of human nature. Keep your mouth shut to avoid "disaster comes from your mouth". Doing more and talking less is the essence of being a man.