Good night 2020: Whatever you do, don't lose yourself.

1, life is alive, the road is in a hurry, passing by, you will always meet. When we met, we knew each other. We have known each other since we met. Meeting is fate, knowing each other is fate, knowing each other is fate. But fate comes like a dream, and fate goes like the wind. What can be put down is a good fate, and what can't be put down becomes a disaster. After a thousand turns, we will correct the entanglement. Those who can't escape will come, and those who can escape will come and go. The fate is endless, the feelings are still stupid, and the heart is still beating; Fate is over, and my heart is too tired. Let go and go our separate ways.

If the world is an ocean, we are all fishermen, catching our prey in the vast life. Everyone is eager to go out to sea in the bright sunshine and sing a song "Fishing boat late" to make the calm days more enjoyable and turbulent. Don't envy other people's fishing areas too much. No matter how much money others catch, it has nothing to do with you. Where the net is cast, there is harvest. To know how to wait and persist, as long as you have no distractions, you will eventually catch the big fish of fate.

3. In the face of confusion, we should have a quiet heart, which is not chaotic and foreign affairs are difficult to disturb; If you are in danger, you must have a heart that is too peaceful. If your heart is not heavy, you will be afraid of life. When you encounter criticism, you must have a calm heart. If your heart is not inclined, the rumors will be broken; If you are deadlocked, you must have a down-to-earth heart. If you don't stick to it, all kinds of poisons can invade. Don't be greedy in the public interest, greed will damage your vitality; Don't be afraid in the face of difficulties, fear rarely leads to success; Don't worry about the sky, worrying about the sky will hurt the spirit; Don't be extravagant before desire, luxury is hard to fill.

4. Life needs to be saturated with suffering. Without pain, life would not be so colorful and heavy. Only the flowers in full bloom in the wound are the scenery that silently accompanies us. Don't care about small grievances. Sadness is just an ornament of your mood, not a shackle that restricts your soul. What should be remembered is engraved on the stone tablet of the soul; What should be forgotten, put it in the tears of catharsis. Let's borrow from difficulties and be strong in patience.

We are losing time, life, wealth and opportunities all the time. We strive to have more beautiful things, but unfortunately we only have two hands, so we should learn to choose, learn to give up, and know what we don't need. If the inner desire is too great and you want to grasp everything, you may not grasp anything in the end. Only by learning to give up can we grasp it better. On the road of reincarnation, choice and abandonment have always been with us.

6. Many emotions in life are defeated by distance. If they are far away, they will give birth to dissatisfaction, and if they are near, they will give birth to contradictions. Distance is actually a kind of respect for each other. Distance is needed in love. It is selfish to get along without distance. You can't just care about yourself and ignore other people's feelings. Love is not a shackle, let alone give each other space and give yourself space. Don't get too close, we still have our own life; It's not too far, just a turning distance.

7. Learn to adjust your mood and try to look on the bright side. Many people will complain a lot when they encounter some difficult things, and they will be very upset. As a result, because you don't grasp your emotions well, you often complicate simple things and make complex things more difficult. When we encounter difficult things, we must first control our emotions so that we can think calmly. And the better you think, the wider your heart will be, and the worse you think, the narrower your heart will be!

8. What we hold in our hands is not necessarily what we really have; What we have is not necessarily what we really remember! In fact, life often needs to give up consciously and give up a favorite friend who has no chance; Give up a relationship that you can't get; Giving up a choice may make us sad, but this sadness does not prevent us from starting over! Give up safely and stick to a free and easy!

9. Resentment is a double-edged sword, which hurts both people and themselves. No matter how close the relationship is, it is possible to divide things. True love is a lubricant that people naturally stick together. Even if they suffer together, it is like drinking honey. Enthusiasm, openness and tolerance will make life happier. Indifference, mutual incomprehension and intransigence are like water bursting its banks. Water is good for everything, and water is not good for anything. Pray for a sincere heart, a true feeling and a beautiful feeling in this life.

10, in this colorful world, there are all kinds of people, and these people have a very subtle relationship. In the eyes of those who appreciate you, you are the best; You are the worst in the hearts of people who hate you; You are belittled in the mouth of those who are jealous and look down on you; You don't exist in the world of people who don't know you. Therefore, no matter what others say or do, we don't have to care too much. We must recognize ourselves and not lose ourselves.

1 1. If you are broad-minded and peaceful, even bread and boiled water can taste happiness. If you are often dissatisfied with others and yourself and complain about your life and fate, even eating bird's nest and shark's fin will be like chewing wax. If suffering crushes you, and you feel sorry that I am unlucky and I can't get up, then I will never get up. But if you think of me in a different attitude, I don't believe that suffering can crush me or crush you, and you will always stand proudly.

12, you should not always think about what others owe you and what you can give yourself, but what you owe others and what you can give others. Thinking about others owing themselves all day will bring resentment and drive away happiness; Always thinking about others to pay, you will lose yourself and become humble and enterprising. Always think about what you owe others, and you will be grateful. Being kind to others will naturally make you beautiful. Being able to give it the value of existence will enrich the spirit and make life more meaningful.

13, people have no right to choose good or bad fate. If fate is bad, they will be forced to accept and bear it. No one can predict how high and how far they can climb, but as long as they don't stop moving forward, the next moment will definitely be higher and farther than this moment, and tomorrow will definitely gain more than today.

14, everyone has a bad temper and mood, but you shouldn't vent your temper and mood on people who shouldn't be angry. That's impolite. A kind smile is a golden key, which allows you to reap many unexpected things unconsciously without paying any price.

15, there is no absolute happiness in life, only relative happiness; There is no absolute happiness in marriage, only relative happiness. Economy is a hurdle, a wall and a ditch between love and marriage. Some people are not psychologically prepared to fall, and some people have no courage to be stopped. Some people think too much about marriage, and as a result, their hearts sink into the gutter and are submerged in the darkness. Love needs preparation, courage and the ability to bear and endure. Love is always sweet.

16, if you think you are a rough stone, then you may always be just a rough stone; If you firmly believe that you are a priceless gem, then you are a priceless gem. Faith and persistence are very important. No matter how humble your position is and how low your starting point is than others, don't lose faith. As long as you believe in yourself, no matter how hard and tired you are, make unremitting efforts and give full play to your own advantages to explore and create, you will surely succeed and become a dazzling gem.

17, secular walking, should not let vulgar dust lost their eyes, inevitably contaminated with dust, just gently bounce off. It is time to be utilitarian, to be kind to others, and to be virtuous. As for the pros and cons, the world has its own comments. Think twice about everything, reflect on myself, and have no self-encouragement. No one is perfect, and it is hard to be perfect, but you can cultivate your own mind and constantly improve yourself.