Has the little girl been slapped by her parents or teachers for making mistakes? What experiences and feelings has she had?

The old saying "A dutiful son comes out of a stick" was once regarded as a "motto" by many parents. For modern parents, "beating children" is probably the least recognized, but there is no way. Many parents often touch their hands when they can't bear it, and then they are afraid to leave a psychological shadow on their children. In response to the confusion of young parents, Wang Tao, a doctor of education at Harvard University and a tenured professor at the College of Education at Tulsa University in the United States, said that there is an American proverb called "Idle sticks are used to children", that is, children can and should fight, but hitting children is a science.

Wang Tao believes that children will lose gratitude if they grow up in love without rules; Children grow up without love rules and learn to feel inferior; Without the growth of rules and love, children will lose awe; Growing up with rules and love, children will learn humility and confidence. There are no children who don't know the rules, only parents who don't know the rules. "Beating" is an important means of making rules. Only when I become a parent can I understand their good intentions. I am a mother, and I have had the same confusion as you. When I became a mother, I could understand their original behavior.