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My relatives come with their children every day to eat, what should I do?

What can I do? Just hurry up and don’t let it get used to you!

Let me talk about my own experience. My family bought a house and moved. A few days later, a relative’s daughter said that she had never been to my house and wanted to come and have a look. So just come, and let her eat! She said that her family members were also nearby and wanted to come and have a look, so I casually said that I would come, but within 5 minutes, 6 people came, and they were waiting downstairs! It was so embarrassing, there wasn’t enough food, so I had to run out to buy cooked food and when I came back, I bought rice! After eating, they had to pack it up and said it was delicious!

I finally left and said I would come back next time, we are so hospitable! My mother called me within two days and asked for the whole family to come over for dinner. I directly told her that I was not at home, but they said that they would be fine waiting for me to come back! I really haven’t gone back yet, they probably left because they couldn’t wait any longer! Later, my neighbor told me that there were 7 people in your house, and they kept complaining about why I didn’t come back, and so on!

Then two days later, he said he wanted to come over for dinner. I said directly that I know you very well. How shameless? Don’t come to my house to harass me. If you come again, I will call the police! This relative talks bad things about me everywhere, is not hospitable, and ignores me!

Such shameless relatives just can’t give face, and just rush away, trying to push the envelope!

I have seen a woman living with her child at her sister's house for five years.

This woman divorced herself, and then. She may really feel that she should be cared for by her parents. So, she made an excuse, saying that the school was close to her sister's home. She felt confident and confident. After picking up her children from school, she went to her sister's house to have dinner.

She also said shamelessly, who cares about me if you don’t care about me!

Her sister is more than ten years older than her, and she has always given in to her, but her brother-in-law is older and they are too embarrassed to say anything. My sister’s children are all married and come back to eat.

So, my sister has been cooking for a lot of people.

And she never thought about giving living expenses to her sister, so she said, we two can’t even eat a mouthful, we just eat in passing.

Later, she was very heartless. When her children graduated from elementary school, she had a quarrel with her sister, which meant that her sister often embarrassed them. The cooking was very simple, but in short, I disliked the two of them. Others look down on them, and my sister looks down on them too! I cried and fussed for a long time!

As a result, she took care of her children and ate and drank for free for five years. Finally, I scolded my sister a lot.

My sister was very angry, but there was nothing she could do.

It can only be said that the enthusiasm is so overwhelming.

For those relatives who are not grateful for free food and drink, get rid of them as soon as possible. Otherwise, I will end up disgusting you.

This is a problem. My wife needs nutrition during pregnancy. She needs to make some delicious food to supplement her nutrition. My sister-in-law comes with the baby every day to grab it. If I change the meal to night time, it will not be conducive to the development of the fetus. I want to solve the problem. I really have to think hard about it.

It’s good that my sister-in-law doesn’t think of herself as an outsider, but she seems to be a bit too shameless. She takes her child to her brother-in-law’s house every day to eat, and she’s not afraid of being laughed at. She’s born to be shameless. people. Treatment method: Buffer method, eat lunch one hour in advance. My sister-in-law brought her children and had to go home hungry. Mosquito repellent method: When Souzi comes with his children, he says he has something to do and goes out with his wife, and does not receive them. Be benevolent and righteous; make more delicious food for everyone to enjoy together.

Haha! It's really good. I've been eating almost every day for two weeks. "You're a big eater!" Ordinary people can't do this. Why are you so embarrassed to come every day?

A person cannot be too weak. Being too weak will not only invite others to bully you, but also make others look down on you. When friends encounter this kind of situation, they will definitely not get along well over time and may even offend others.

No one can bear it when relatives like yours come to eat at meal times for a long time. Once he is stopped, she will definitely be hated! Instead of saying that she doesn't realize that she has gone too far, she will accuse you of being stingy.

Even if you don’t stop her, she will still be dissatisfied. For example, if she becomes accustomed to eating, she will point at your food and pick out the food. It tastes bad and is salty. Watered down. Will you be angry after hearing this? Once you refute, will you offend her? So Yiwei couldn't accommodate her just to save face.

Sometimes for the sake of their own dignity, people must be more serious and show their fangs appropriately so that others will be wary and not dare to provoke them easily.

Regarding this issue, I became serious. When I saw her coming, I didn’t talk to her. I was arrogant. Even if I called you, I would just say um, ang, ah! As the saying goes, look at the weather when you go out, and look at your face when you come in. Can clever people like your relatives understand what's going on?

Don’t be afraid of offending her, because sooner or later you will offend her. I believe that within two days, she will no longer come here to eat. Offending her is only temporary. After a while, when she thinks about it, she will still restrain herself from interacting with you.

Nowadays, I don’t like eating at other people’s houses less and less, and I don’t like people coming to my house to play or eat. However, my relatives and friends in Nanning seem to have a good understanding. We never show up uninvited, and occasionally we would shirk or reject each other's invitations, not wanting to cause trouble for each other. Gradually, we got used to it. But I will still invite the children to go out to play together, and it will not affect the relationship. Occasionally, you treat me and I treat you to a meal out.

I remember one day a few years ago, it was quite embarrassing! It was my mother-in-law's niece, her husband, son, daughter, a few workers, and my mother-in-law's grandson and granddaughter-in-law, there were probably about ten people in total. I heard that my mother-in-law’s niece’s son was working on a construction site somewhere in Guangxi (equivalent to a foreman), and then her family also followed her son to work on the construction site. After the work was done, we ran to Nanning to play together. To be honest, I am not familiar with their family at all. However, now that she has let me know through my niece, they are coming to Nanning. Then I guess I can’t keep silent, right? Then, I said to my niece, "How about you bring her and her daughter to the store to sit and drink tea at your convenience." I originally thought, "Just us women, have a meal together and spend three or five dollars." I can still afford a hundred yuan."

I didn’t expect that on that day, a dozen people would rush in at once and I was frightened. And he came on a meal break. The living room in my shop was packed, and I invited them to sit down while making tea. I still have to think about it in my mind, "Now that it's time to eat, where can I take them to have a cheap meal? It's really hard for me to arrange for so many people to come at once." But I really can't think of anything other than a fast food restaurant. I have never been to any restaurant that is affordable. But you can’t take them to a fast food restaurant, right? I can't afford to lose this person! If I really take them to a fast food restaurant, they won't call me useless, and they won't go around saying I'm stingy? But after sitting for a while, they didn't intend to leave. I still don’t dare to say “let’s have dinner together tonight”.

When I was in trouble, a phone call saved me. Speaking of which, I am really grateful for this call. It was the customer who asked me to deliver wine to a certain restaurant. I was responsible for the delivery and warehouse management of the winery we opened with a friend at the time. When I received the call, I said, "Finally, I have a reason to escape." I briefly explained to my niece and said, "You guys sit down and drink tea first, and I'll deliver the wine. The restaurant is a bit far, so maybe I can't. Come back soon." . If you want to leave after I don't come back for a long time, just close the door." After that, I picked up the wine and went out [laughing].

Fortunately, they also knew that they would leave before I came back. The next day, I heard that I went back to my mother-in-law and nephew’s rental house and had dinner on my own.

To be honest, I am always stingy. However, at that time, I really wanted to treat a few of these women to a meal together and spend three to five hundred dollars to solve it quickly. However, I really couldn’t handle so many men and women coming to me at once. And since we are not close or familiar relatives, I feel that there is absolutely no need for me to pretend to be fat.

Some people just come here deliberately. Leave things to us that you should spend your own money to solve. In fact, they are all well-known things. However, if she pretends to be stupid, I can only pretend to be stupid. Otherwise, I will still be thankless!

After eating, the most they could do was say a few nice words. However, these few words can be worth thousands of dollars! I won't lose hundreds of dollars just for a few nice words. Especially when spending time with unfamiliar people and worldly things.

If you don’t eat well, you run the risk of being stingy behind your back. Why should I? It’s so thankless!

As a human being, I will not try my best to take advantage of others. However, it is not easy for others to take advantage of me. There are some things that we don’t like, and we can avoid them if we can. You shouldn't always indulge in things you can't avoid, otherwise people will think you are a fool and easy to bully.

Destroy the person who comes here every day to get food in three moves!

The first move: Borrow money from him, one at a time! Borrow two or three hundred at a time. Occasionally, ask him to borrow a hundred or eighty thousand, and remember not to pay back the money. If asked, just say that this small amount of money is enough to pay for the meal, you remember.

The second trick: Every time you think he is coming, call him and ask him to bring good food, milk, drinks, etc., and ask him to bring expensive ones, but you will not be paid! If he asks, you just say: I thought you didn’t need to pay. You come to eat every day. Did I ask you for money? The family shouldn’t be so clearly divided, right? Then, when the time comes, I call him and ask him to bring something. Even if he doesn’t come, I’ll let him buy it. He may not buy it, or he may come early on purpose. Just ask your wife to tell him what he wants to eat, and if you can't leave, let him go out and buy it. Your attitude should be cordial and you won't mention paying for it after you buy it.

The third trick: Eat the good food in advance to ensure the nutrition of the wife. When they come, there will be nothing left but vegetables, noodles, powder and dried rice cakes. If they complain that they have nothing to eat, you will call them poor, and say that so many people eat every day. Although it is lively, it is a bit unbearable to sit back and have nothing to eat. If this continues, it will almost be impossible to get the money for the children's milk powder! Besides, taking care of pregnant women and children is already exhausting, so how can anyone else take care of them? They don't have much to eat, so they will naturally know what's interesting.

Sometimes, a family cannot save face, and is embarrassed to refuse when being offered food and drink, so they have no choice but to eat Coptis chinensis. It's better to use your brain and refuse wisely without hurting your harmony.

Such a relative is really a headache. It’s hard to show off or refuse her visit. The key is to see your wife’s attitude. If your wife is happy for them to come to your house every day for dinner, you won’t be happy either. You have to bear with it. If your wife thinks the same as you, maybe it will be better to ask your wife to tell her brother in a tactful way. It is not appropriate for you to come forward and say it!

I also understand this problem deeply. Although I was very young at the time, I still remember it vividly!

I remember the summer when my mother gave birth to her younger brother and sister, that month to be exact, because my parents were running a small business at the time and it was not convenient for them to confine themselves in a rented house, so we went home. . Because grandma doesn’t want to see my father, she naturally doesn’t want to see my mother either. So when I was discharged from the hospital after giving birth, I didn’t do much to clean up the house at home. My grandma came to clean it!

In the first few days, my grandmother was serving my mother at my house. During that month, my grandma still visited my mother at noon every day as a token of her duty! And my aunt and my cousin will come with us. As the name suggests, I came to see my mother! But when they came, my grandma just stood there chatting with my grandma and watching her work. As for my aunt and cousin, they were either watching TV or watching my grandma cooking!

Every time when I see my grandma finishing cooking, she will pretend to say, "Let's go!" My grandma will keep them! They would sit down and eat together! Once or twice is okay, but basically it lasts for more than half a month! It would have been okay if my mother wasn't in confinement, but during my mother's confinement period, my grandmother, an old man who was nearly seventy years old, cooked it for them! Every time my grandma would let them have dinner, my grandma would say to my aunt, "Eat, your cousin is not an outsider!" Sometimes once a day, sometimes twice a day! This lasted for about half a month, but my grandma couldn't bear it any longer. After all, she was almost seventy years old. My grandma discussed with my grandma and asked her to serve my mother for a few days. As a result, after one day of surgery, my grandma said she had cervical spondylosis and could no longer take care of my mother! My grandma couldn't help it, so she came back to serve my mother, and my father also helped! Later, my grandma and my aunt came again. My dad was very angry and scolded my grandma! I also trained my aunt.

For such relatives, you must take decisive measures, remain calm, and stop losses in time.

There is a saying that goes well, in this world, you only need to be responsible for two types of people: those who give birth to themselves;

Relatives coming to eat every day shows that this relative has no principles and has no bottom line in taking advantage. This kind of person who has no original intention and no bottom line is nine times out of ten a white-eyed wolf - no matter how hard you try, you will still be fed by the unfamiliar.

In my hometown, I have a cousin, Xiaohua, who is already twenty-eight years old and is still a virgin. She used to work as a quality inspector in an electronics factory in the south. Because she is older, my cousin (her) Mom) often talked to her mother about her marriage, and she was very worried. She had begged her mother many times to introduce a suitable boy to Xiaohua.

My cousin went home to celebrate the New Year the year before last, but her aunt wouldn't let her go out again for fear of delaying her marriage.

My cousin’s fair skin, thick eyebrows, big eyes, and sharp lips make her even more charming and beautiful. Her makeup is very delicate and she is dressed up in a smart and fashionable way.

Her mother introduced her to a boyfriend, Xiaoqiang, the son of our neighbor Uncle Li. Xiaoqiang graduated from college and worked at Hanzhong Yaobai Cement Co., Ltd. as a technician in the central control room.

Xiaohua is very satisfied with Xiaoqiang, but Xiaoqiang dislikes Xiaohua for not going to college and having a low level of education. In front of Xiaoqiang's mother, her mother expanded Xiaohua's advantages infinitely, saying how hard-working and frugal she was... how well-behaved and obedient...

In addition, Xiaohua herself was also talented and had affection for Xiaoqiang. After dating for half a year, they got married.

After getting married, Uncle Li and Aunt Li went to their daughter's house in Chongqing to help her daughter take care of the child, saying that they would come back when Xiaohua had a child.

Xiaoqiang went to work in the company. He usually lives in the factory and only goes home on holidays and weekends. Xiaohua works as a cashier in the local supermarket.

Because of our relationship, my mother often called Xiaohua to my house for dinner. At first, Xiaohua was polite. After dinner, he helped wash the dishes, tidy up the house, and sometimes buy some vegetables.

Six months later, Xiaohua became pregnant, so she came to my house for dinner as soon as she got off work, and did not help. She never bought groceries or anything else.

After five months of pregnancy, Xiaohua resigned and was expecting to give birth. Aunt Li and Uncle Li said they would go home to take care of her. Come back in months.

Xiaohua, who is about to give birth, still eats at our house. She seems to regard our house as her own. She praises her mother’s cooking all the time for being delicious and to her taste. Let her mother help her...

As time went by, her mother sometimes annoyed her. Every time after eating, she would play with her mobile phone and never help her mother.

Once, my mother cooked noodles for lunch in the afternoon. Xiaohua was very unhappy and said: "I will eat noodles for lunch. I will be hungry at night because I am pregnant..."

Mom He smiled and said: "We are old and have poor digestion. We eat noodles for lunch. They are soft and easy to digest. We like to eat them."

After that day, Xiaohua never came to her mother's house again. It’s time to eat. She called her parents-in-law back.