What happened when I watched the serial with you (1)

Recently, my son always smiles after school. For him who gets up early and comes home late every day, and he is under great pressure to study, this kind of performance is particularly gratifying.

After the transfer of senior two, the schedule of the new school was changed to enter the classroom at 6: 05 in the morning and leave school at 9: 50 in the evening. Because I live in the school, I have to wake my son up 20 minutes earlier and pick him up at the school gate 10 minutes earlier in the evening, so that I can sleep before 1 1 0 every day. In fact, many times, our father and son have long been sleepy.

It's winter! The mother of the child can't worry about the two of us and comes to study with her son every night. Although it is a little hard, running back and forth is also an expense. However, the whole family knows that as we get older, we will spend less and less time together, and we still cherish the opportunity to get along with each other.

When I come back from the gym with my wife at eight o'clock every night, I begin to prepare for the division of labor. Wash away the smelly sweat, my wife washed clothes, and I began to prepare my son's midnight snack for evening self-study. Because of the "burly" figure, supper is not very healthy, basically not too heavy, but the pattern will always change. Today, I prepared "rice wine and twisted eggs" that my son hasn't eaten for a long time. The taste of the late winter bowl is very suitable.

In order to avoid all kinds of temporary conditions on the road, we must make sure to leave before nine o'clock! Twenty kilometers, my husband and I often talk and laugh. Sometimes I listen to music, and sometimes I blame the driver who doesn't turn off the high beam in the opposite lane; Occasionally, I will talk about friends and relatives around me, and I will also talk about the news gossip pushed on my mobile phone. I will also start the whole "speech" mode when the atmosphere comes, and my wife will silently act as the audience.

The school stipulated unified accommodation, but after the summer vacation, my son had to transfer because of the change of the original school education system. I'm afraid I can't adapt to the new environment, so I ask the school to bend the rules. We agreed to rent a house nearby to accompany our parents on the premise that they would not be late. As a result, this daily "commuting" accompanying reading life was born.

After nine o'clock in the evening, when the electronic clock at the school gate showed the number of fifty minutes, the bell of senior two rang on time, and the parents who had been waiting at the school gate invariably turned their eyes to the campus. After about two minutes, the students will walk in pairs. I won't see my son's smile as usual and strut towards me soon. It seems that he is in a good mood today!

"Hello, I'm back!" After opening the car door, the son's unique greeting way.

"Did you have dinner? Do you like it? " The wife asked.

"It's true, I ate a little!" The son replied.

"Tuttle stone" is my wife's hometown dialect, which means not bad, not bad! In recent years in Hubei, my son's local dialect has become more and more fluent. And I still stay at the level of being able to listen to the Tao.

The greeting between mother and son is not over yet, and I have driven to the door of the rental house.

The landlord is in her fifties, so we call her Sister Deng. I have a son and a daughter of my own, both of whom are married. Because the children are away all the year round, two rooms in the huge house are rented out to the accompanying families. On the one hand, someone takes care of it, on the other hand, it can increase some income.

"Aunt Deng is good!"

When entering the door, Deng Jie's room is on the left, and the TV is usually on. My son habitually probes to see if Sister Deng is asleep. If she falls asleep, she will turn her head and say "shh!" Tell my wife and I to keep our voices down so as not to wake Sister Deng.

"Come back!" Sister Deng answered.

"hmm!" Simple agreed, changed slippers, my son and I went upstairs, and my wife chatted with Sister Deng downstairs. The so-called three women's lives, I think the two of them quite hit it off.

"Wow, rice wine with eggs!" The son shouted exaggeratedly!

The son who claims to be "foodie" has always had a high enthusiasm for eating since he was a child! After a while, the insulated soup box has bottomed out, and there is a white poached egg lying in the bowl. I saw my son adjust his angle and put his hands on the soup box. Slide the whole egg into the mouth at a "perfect" oblique angle of 45 degrees. Before I put down the soup box in my hand, my mouth rose slightly and I began to chew "Grandma said happiness"!

After a big meal, my son took a break and went to wash his hands.

Sometimes I will talk about important events or anecdotes that happened in school during recess, and sometimes I will be a little lazy because of fatigue.

"Buy time!" Whenever inertia begins, I will be around to remind you a little.

"Otherwise, let's go to bed early!" When things don't feel good, I will propose.

Today, my son is in excellent spirits, and he washed his hands soon. As usual, he was at the other end of the bed, and I started reading on the opposite side.

"What are you going to review today?" I asked.

"well! I will be lucky for Hua Fei tonight. " The son is very serious and whispered.

"Hua Fei?" I raised my voice incredulously.

"Ha, don't understand! I am a chemistry student in Hua Fei. " The son said with a smile.

"So Chinese is not a concubine, but also physics, biology, English and mathematics?" I asked my son.

"Dad, I am too young to raise so many concubines." The son deliberately said.

"As long as you can make up for it, take care of your Hua Fei!"

This nonsense conversation seems to be going on several times a day. Originated from my son's primary school, in order to improve the ability of writing space, I compiled a small game "Story Solitaire" that I often play. The game itself is based on "nonsense" and reaction ability. The rule is one sentence per person, with no pause in the middle. * * * will make up and tell stories together. Due to logical differences, the more people participate, the greater the contrast, so stories are often far away from their own plots, which tests their ability to respond and organize words, so they are also very interesting.

Tonight, we once again won more than half an hour of review time. Thanks to our son, we can concentrate on reading dozens of pages every night. In addition to reading together, the most important thing is to observe the subtle changes in the son's mood. We have been with him since childhood, and we can understand his emotional reaction for a reason.

I remember one night shortly after the start of school, my son was depressed. When I turned off the lights before going to bed, I suddenly said to me, "Dad, I feel sorry for you!" "

"What's the matter? I find that you are in a bad mood today! " I stood by the door and asked.

"You have to be so tired every day, just to accompany me, and you can't do what you like!" In the room with the lights off, I can feel my son's slight sobs.

"This is what I like to do! I can be happy with the person I like, whether you or your mother. What's more, when you go to college, it is a luxury to want to accompany you. " I said.

"Did anything happen at school today?" I then asked.

"No, I just moved to a new school and missed my old teachers and classmates." The son replied.

"Remember what Teacher Wang of Class 8 said when I went to Guangzhou in the summer vacation: Xueba has no time to be sad!" I said.

"Remember, that's where I want to go next year! Dad, don't come with me next year. I can do it myself. " The son said.

"Abandon me so soon! Alas, it's no use getting old, my son will kick me out! " I complained.

"no! Don't want to make you too tired; But dad, what if I don't do well in the exam? " The son asked.

"If you don't test well, you won't test well! The college entrance examination is just a shortcut. Shortcuts can be won, but sometimes it depends on luck and cannot be forced. If you can't take a shortcut, there is no way to go. The most important thing is that you have done your best. " I answered.

"As long as you try your best, you will naturally succeed; It failed! I can only say that this road may not be suitable for me. Try another way, but it won't be harder! Because we have learned how to go all out to do one thing. " I'll keep talking.

"I know, just like when I was a freshman, I progressed from the penultimate third in my class to the second in my class. Sometimes thinking about my freshman year is like dreaming. " The son said.

"yes! No matter how the exam goes in the future, you can show off with your son for a long time. " I said with a smile.

"Dad, thank you!"

"Thank what, I don't buy it! But then again, no matter what the future holds. If you don't pass the exam, you will go to an ideal school and have a good social life. These people who have helped you should be kept in mind. They are all people who help you accumulate advantages unconditionally. " I said.

"I know! And you, and mom, grandpa, grandma, Da Die, aunts ... "The son is positive.

"It's okay! The countdown will dawn, and I will doze off in class tomorrow. " I interrupted my son.

"Good night!"

"well! Good night! " The son breathed a little sigh of relief.

The temperature dropped again tonight. People in the countryside turned off the lights and went to bed early. I can't hear insects in the night after winter, and occasionally the motorcycle that comes home at night whizzes by, making the night quieter! Compared with the shady outside the window, the indoor lighting will make people more determined in their dreams!

Suddenly the sound of closing the book came (actually it was an iPad). My son raised his hands and stretched himself exaggeratedly. He glanced at me to show that it was time, and I stood up from the bed to respond to him.

"I seem to be very happy recently!" I looked at my son who was making a quilt and said.

"Yes!" The son slipped into the quilt, leaving only one head outside.

"This is not! Talking about (female) friends? " I asked suspiciously.

"(However) it's not ... no!" The son said.

"Is that ... someone you like?" I asked.

"Same old, you know." The son moved to make the quilt cover more evenly.

"oh! Have you contacted anyone during the Lunar New Year holiday? " I asked again.

"Yes, but it seems that she is not on QQ." My son's answer is a little lost.

"It doesn't matter, maybe people are also studying hard! Did you tell anyone when you transferred? " I said.

"Of course not, let alone leave here for Guangzhou in. That's not so bad. " The son said seriously.

I smiled and said, "It's normal to like the opposite sex. Although it is really not suitable for dating at this stage, dad suggests that you can keep your contact information. In this era, communication software has been so developed. Whether it is WeChat or QQ, it is normal to add friends to each other, and there may not be regrets in the future. "

"You will meet more women that you admire, just like goldfish in a fish tank, which is pleasing to the eye. Everyone always has one of the most striking advantages, which makes people feel amazing at first glance. This is an innate trait. But more advantages must be gradually accumulated and cultivated in the process of growth, especially knowledge and connotation. Finally, with their own growth and efforts, after many classifications and screenings by schools and society, people with like-minded and similar values finally came together. " I'll keep talking.

"For example, the girl you like now, if you can really be together after many years. Then it shows that you have made the same efforts in recent years, delayed enjoyment, experienced similar life direction choices, and finally shared the same interests, similar values, and similar in all aspects. "

"well! In other words, if I fall in love at this time, not only will my own study be affected, but I will probably delay her efforts. " The son said.

"You can say that; It's still the person who is worth protecting with your life in the future. She is now studying hard to screen men who are more qualified to protect her! Do you understand? " I said.

"I see, I really hope that she will work hard and it would be better to go to the same university." The son said thoughtfully.

"yes! But the most important thing now is ... go to sleep! " I said.

"Good night!" When we turned off the lights, we talked almost at the same time.

After the lights in the room were turned off, the living room was in darkness for a short time. After turning on the switch of the corner light of the stairs, the vision was restored. Houses in the village are often built relatively high, and the height of stairs is also relatively high. Go upstairs to test your leg strength, and be more cautious when going downstairs. At night, you really have to "do your best" to reduce the noise.

"My son is asleep!" I heard my wife's voice before I entered the door.

"Well, why don't you sleep! Does talking bother you? " I asked as I closed the door.

"no! I just finished talking with Sister Deng. By the way, we will take some food home at the nearby vegetable market tomorrow morning. " The wife said.

"good! Is there anything to buy? " I asked.

"No, just browsing. They all say that the food here is much cheaper than the county. " The wife replied.

"well! Just be careful, go to bed early and don't play with your mobile phone. " Looking at my wife's mobile phone, I quipped.

"Play again, hypnosis!" The wife said naughtily.

"No matter you, remember to turn off the lights!" Then I slipped into bed.

It won't be long before the lights go out!

"Good night, hard work! If you are too tired, you can rest at home tomorrow. I can do it alone. " I said.

"Let's watch it tomorrow, and you should go to sleep quickly!" The wife's tired voice replied.

Nestled next to her, she soon fell asleep, and the conversation with her son just now was still clear in her ear. "If only there was a woman as good as his mother who could accompany his son in the future." Suddenly the idea flashed through my mind, and then I smiled unconsciously when I thought about it!

The night is getting deeper! My mind can't resist fatigue ... I slowly stopped taking a deep breath and only remembered to wake up my son tomorrow!

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