Why do children quarrel with their parents

I think it is mainly because of insufficient communication, the changing gap of the times, the older generation's concept is conservative, and many new things are not so easy to accept, so we should know how to put ourselves in the other's shoes.

Secondly, parents' expectation of gratitude for their children is also a reason for the contradiction between children and parents. Being a parent is a glorious and hard work. If you don't treat it with filial piety, it is difficult to get the "filial piety" of future generations. Imagine that a family is always shrouded in the atmosphere of "What have I given you …" and "You must repay me". How can this be considered a family? Just a noisy market. In this atmosphere, how to talk about the warmth of the family. So, how can children grow up healthily enough?

Parents who take life seriously, love their families and have good habits should be respected by their children. Otherwise, when parents ask their children to behave, the child's words can push their parents aside: "Aren't you the same yourself?" So I think that whether parents can get the respect of their children depends on their words and deeds. Some cultured parents can probably come up with reasons to defend themselves and persuade their children to accept their own teaching, but parents without self-restraint will be more angry if they are afraid of being poked by their children, and will say something extremely irrational but seemingly reasonable: "How dare you talk to your mother like this? Do not know how to respect adults! Adults can do this, but children can't If you don't do as I say, I'll punish you. " In such an environment, children become inferior things, where there is happiness.