Why is life complicated?

1, why do women want to embarrass women and dance square dance together a few years later?

2, elegant life, light and tasteful. Our life is like a incense stick: the past is gone, and happiness or pain, like incense ashes burned to the end, will eventually fall. Life is impermanent and people's hearts are fickle. Why bother with those grievances? Looking down, there is no right or wrong; Put it down, and that's it. There are three thousand things in the world, so smile indifferently. Facing all kinds of situations in life, it is an elegance of life to laugh it off.

Where there are people, there is something, and there must be right and wrong. Although right and wrong start with me, as long as we know how to use our heart, we will not be troubled by right and wrong. We should also know how to pursue infinite eternity with limited life. When rebellion comes, we don't complain, when pain comes, we don't fear, when slander comes, we don't distinguish, and when honor comes, we don't be arrogant or dull. This is Zen, this is human Buddhism.

4. The dull years passed quietly. Years are silent, it is the noise of the world that makes your heart noisy. Time is quiet and beautiful, so why use endless desires to turn dreams into nightmares? Stop your steps, let your heart calm down, and sort out the direction of life in peace and leisure. Happiness is not the busier you are, the happier you are, but the more you can feel it when you calm down. Time flies too fast, which will only make happiness slip away quietly. Happiness does not fall from the sky, but comes from a quiet heart.

A person can see the end at a glance, not because he is superficial and not deep enough, but because he is too simple and pure. Such simplicity and purity are admirable; Some people have fog covers, which look complicated and deep. In fact, this depth is not the depth of the soul, but the depth of talent. This complexity is the interweaving of sinister human nature, not the superposition of graceful wisdom. Simplicity is a great beauty!

6, the heart is simple, people are as light as chrysanthemums. Gentlemen meet, round and uncomfortable everywhere. How much love stays in the world to meet the vicissitudes of life; Do happy things with your lover, don't ask if it's robbery or fate. It's okay to be alone. As long as you love someone from the heart, life will be saved. Even if you can't live with him. Like a person does not mean exclusive, but inclusive. Forgive his past, enjoy his present and look forward to his future.

7. Grow forever, never be confused, and never cherish the present. What you want is not necessarily what you need, so you become who you are now. In emotional matters, you find that no one is a good man or a good woman, and everyone has built a high wall around him. Life is more and more like black humor. I want to know when I don't know, and I want to know nothing when I know.

8. I feel that not all the past things will pass, an interview, a date, a mistake and a gaffe. At that time, I was nervous and entangled, and I turned back afterwards, so it passed. You said you were nervous. You didn't die. You said you were scared to death, and neither were you. Time goes by, it won't stay for you for a second, everything will become the past. Don't be ashamed for a moment, do your best. As for the rest, whatever.

9, life is not easy, don't laugh at others. Every family has a difficult lesson, and everyone has a difficult song. No matter how beautiful the scenery is, there is also cold pain behind it; No matter how happy people are, they also have helpless difficulties in their hearts. No one's life is easy. To laugh at others is to laugh at yourself, and to respect others is to respect yourself. The poorest is nothing more than begging, and the undead will always emerge. Whose life is perfect, whose life is not thin and cool, who can guarantee that life has always been proud.

10, some people don't love themselves, only blame themselves, as if they were enemies. Some people love themselves for no reason, blindly narcissistic, just like their lover. In both cases, the higher self is absent. Like physical pain, mental pain cannot be shared. The concern of others can only divert your attention from the pain at most, but it can't change the nature of the pain.