I was urged by my family to find someone, and I didn't want to say how to send it.

If you are urged by your family to find someone, but you don't want to make do, the best way is to turn passivity into initiative. I hope everyone can introduce you to someone.

This is definitely not a bad trick I know, but a trick my cousin used. My cousin and I were both older when we got married, so before we found someone, we really urged to get married every Spring Festival. I feel embarrassed every time I am urged to get married, because I think this is my personal problem and should not be discussed in public.

My cousin's routine is different. Urging him here, he just said I'm in a hurry, too. Introduce me to someone. Most people just have nothing to say when blowing their hair, so he never wants to introduce you to someone, such as my cousin. He can filter out more than half of people who regard marriage urging as gossip.

And the other half, they are really worried about the marital status of the younger generation. But only some people have the ability to introduce you, so those who don't, they don't eat. Then, the rest of the people who can introduce you to the object, the people they introduced you to, you can also go and see, maybe you can find the person who won't make you feel comfortable.

So when your family urges you to find someone, you should ask them to introduce you. I think this way is really useful. Anyway, my cousin has been hiding like this for years. And now my husband is also introduced by relatives, not a will, but a very satisfied person.