Laugh without hating people.

A large number of people are always very keen to make trouble and explore other people's living conditions, such as how much money they earn, whether they have a car or not, and whether they buy a house. As mentioned above, in fact, this is not about you, but subconsciously wants to compete with you.

No answer will satisfy them.

Because all their questions hide an answer they long for: never compare with me. Your answer, beyond their imagination, is better than them in everything except what they set, so be careful, you will soon be hated. Because you are better than him, he will secretly understand the reason why you are better than him. If you insinuate or understand from the outside, you must find a reason why you are better than him, and then try to crush you from it, or hope to find out the "hard evidence" that you are not as good as him.

If we come to the conclusion, they are really better than him, but they can't surpass him, and there are more than him. There is no doubt that he is your secret enemy from now on, and they will certainly try to form an alliance to bring you down, or make up rumors to walk you.

This is a nuisance.

If your answer is worse than theirs, don't have the slightest doubt. These people are happy and relaxed. And consciously or unconsciously, in a very excited tone, to tell how good he is. Unlike hearing that you are in good health, you feel heavy, and even being polite seems to be flustered. It's not over yet. Soon, he will fully analyze the reasons why you are not good in front of others with the attitude of a saint, so as to fully make himself better than others.

This is mocking people.

Those who are stronger than him will surely do evil and bend the law; Those who are worse than him must be doing nothing and not taking the right path. All kinds of mysterious rumors are born from this.

For a long time, I couldn't understand this phenomenon. I really can't understand how people's mentality is distorted to this extent. Whose life is his own, cold sweat knows it, who needs to prove it to whom?

After seeing through their mentality at a glance, I understand that this mentality is based on the heart of harming others and benefiting themselves. For some people's questions, I often answer them in a few minutes to see what kind of answers they really want, and then answer them. For example, there is a humanistic me: How have you been recently? Did you make a lot of money? I observed his sly eyes and slightly drooping eyelids intentionally or unintentionally, and immediately realized that he was expecting me to answer that I had no money. I replied with a smile, alas, these days, we all work for a living, but it is easy to stop. What about you? He said, oh, nothing, part-time job, too. I want to go out with you. I said, there is nothing to say, old friend. If I have a mouth to eat, I won't treat you badly. He smiled happily soon. Someone nearby said, don't listen to him, he has opened a factory in XXX as a boss. This time, he smiled more happily.

I am relieved to see him so happy. Praise a few words, turn round and go. And his eyes are full of contempt.

Because subconsciously, he must prove that he is good, why not as good as he wants?

I don't need to win by spiritual means. I hate people and laugh at them. What kind of gains and losses have I lived?